TinysMom
Well-Known Member
Well - I think I've reached the "UG" point. I'm this way whenever I start collecting something new or a new hobby.
For the first little bit - its like I'm obsessed with it...gotta have more...gotta have it now. I am this way until I reach a point where it hits me - either how much I've spent...or how much time I've spent ... or whatever. And I go "UG"....and back off.
That's when I tend to start really enjoying myself - because I'm not obsessing about getting more - instead I focus on enjoying what I have. I also start setting better limits.
This is a good thing though - the "UG" point keeps me in check...keeps me from going too far and getting too overwhelmed.
I don't know why I'm sharing this with y'all....maybe its because when I start talking about wanting more - I need some to go "Peg...remember...you've reached a limit for now..".
I will allow myself to buy the discontinued items - and next month for my birthday I'm gonna set aside an amount to buy horses from the feed store if they have any in that I want.
Then I'm going to try and take some time off from buying more....
I'll still be in this thread - and I'll probably still start wanting more when I see y'all posting close ups, etc.
But I gotta stop this - and I gotta stop it now.
I realized it late last night when I was tempted to break into the emergency vet fund (I was only tempted for about 30 seconds cause my immediate response to myself was, "NO WAY". That's when I closed the browser and walked away from the computer...).
Sorry for my rambly post - I just needed to say it to someone - to keep me honest and true to myself.
Now that my desk is straightened up (mostly) - I'm gonna "play" with some of the ones I have and take some pictures of them in groups.
For the first little bit - its like I'm obsessed with it...gotta have more...gotta have it now. I am this way until I reach a point where it hits me - either how much I've spent...or how much time I've spent ... or whatever. And I go "UG"....and back off.
That's when I tend to start really enjoying myself - because I'm not obsessing about getting more - instead I focus on enjoying what I have. I also start setting better limits.
This is a good thing though - the "UG" point keeps me in check...keeps me from going too far and getting too overwhelmed.
I don't know why I'm sharing this with y'all....maybe its because when I start talking about wanting more - I need some to go "Peg...remember...you've reached a limit for now..".
I will allow myself to buy the discontinued items - and next month for my birthday I'm gonna set aside an amount to buy horses from the feed store if they have any in that I want.
Then I'm going to try and take some time off from buying more....
I'll still be in this thread - and I'll probably still start wanting more when I see y'all posting close ups, etc.
But I gotta stop this - and I gotta stop it now.
I realized it late last night when I was tempted to break into the emergency vet fund (I was only tempted for about 30 seconds cause my immediate response to myself was, "NO WAY". That's when I closed the browser and walked away from the computer...).
Sorry for my rambly post - I just needed to say it to someone - to keep me honest and true to myself.
Now that my desk is straightened up (mostly) - I'm gonna "play" with some of the ones I have and take some pictures of them in groups.