Nela
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Shiloh:
Yeah Maybelle is free-range. She never sleeps outside though, she still has the shed as I prefer to keep them from being so exposed to the elements. You know, I really was quite concerned about the cats here when we first started allowing her out. However, Maybelle is bigger than the cats and being the fighter she is, the cats are quite intimidated by her. When she is out, I am always about, normally watching her from the large kitchen window and Houdina also watches over her by the patio door.
There are some cats that try to come in the yard only to be quickly chased off by Maybelle. However, Maybelle does like a few cats and I often catch them playing together. I can think of 3 or 4 right now that she plays with. They kinda play a hide and seek game, Maybelle binkying away triumphantly after sppoking a cat from her hiding place. I think what makes a major difference is the fact that none of these cats are strays. They are all family cats and pretty much all of them have other furry family members as well whether it be dogs, rabbits, etc. They are all well-pampered pets so they don't see Maybelle as a snack. Most of the cats just like to sit on a patio chair and watch her. I saw "Kitten" taste mint the other day, trying to imitate Maybelle. Lol. May also always has access to the shed and various hiding spots to get away if she wants. She normally naps in the shed and then comes out after her nap to play. Meanwhile, the cats really appreciate coming because I leave water out for them. Most cats don't have access to clean water whilst there owners are away and they are pretty parched.I can't stand that. :expressionless
I did see "Kitten" get a tad too excited for Maybelle's liking quite a while ago so Maybelle gave her a good nip.Neither had any injuries though, and Maybelle sure could have bitten her if she had wanted.Hasn't been an issue since. Lol. If it starts to rain, I often find Maybelle and a cat sitting together in the shed so I guess she really doesn't mind them since she even tolerates them in her space.
I know this is pretty scary to most people. I do understand even myself, sometimes, I wonder if I am doing the right thing. However, I also strongly believe in trusting their instincts. I think there is a reason as to why Maybelle doesn't tolerate some cats but is friends with others. It's the same with the piggies and them playing with Houdina and allowing her to sit in there living space. Meanwhile, watching them interact is very special. I just told my neighbor on Sunday that his tiny cat spends a lot of time here watching Maybelle. He thought that was nice that they get along. Strangely enough, now that I think of it, all the cats that Maybelle likes are cats that are part of the same clan and are often hanging out together. I wonder if she's just "part of the clan" to them? :confused2:
Aside from the cats, there isn't anything else here aside from hedgehogs. The yard is entirely fenced in. The only real thing I am terrified of is a pet ferret escaping and attacking the buns. However, I also feel that Rolo would have less of a chance since she is in the hutch and wouldn't be able to get away. Birds aren't an issue really either because they don't bother flying over here since they have the fields further where there is plenty of food for them to catch. Those that fly over are mainly ducks, swans, andherons.
As for children, right now, it seems time will be making the decision for us. With Jeff turning 40 in August, I just feel that we might just run out of time. I think having a child at that age takes some serious consideration. And, from talking to Jeff a while back,I am concerned he is doing it more because he doesn't want to 'deprive' me of that more than he would be doing it for himself as well. Basically, I am not exactly sure yet that he'd be doing it for all the right reasons.
Only time will tell.
Hehehe, I'll be sure to keep your buns in mind for the bunny smooches :winkIt's nice to see you back online!
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Ali:
Yeah, but that's the good thing about introspect. If we take the time to look within ourselves, we can often see our own misdoings.
Baggage also has it's pros too though. Hehehe.
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Susan:
Thanks Susan. Yeah, I like my life simple. That's what I told Jeff. I just don't understand why it's so bloody complicated. This is JUST a language course! Geez. But of course, it's not just the language course so yeah, things are a bit more complicated than I would like but hopefully I will find ways to simplify things soon.So far, Jeff seems to have taken things very seriously and had been acting on it. Therefore, it seems that he really is a man of his word and does take things seriously enough. That pretty much satisfies me, knowing that I am not about to see a repeat of a past experience. Jeff is a great guy and I am very happy to know that when somethingof the sort does happen, it can be dealt with. Hahaha though, your 'air' comment had me in stitches. Fair enough
As for the language, I'd be learning it faster if I had a proper course. It's not too too hard really. My shyness really slows me down though. Lol. We could still get married. That wouldn't be a problem. It's getting my permanent residence or citizenship that can be. I can also be fined for not completing the exam in time, etc. Hehehe I don't plan on getting married in Canada but you're always welcome if we do get marriedAll you need is a good bunsitter. So, you have some time to find one. Hehehe.
Awww Susan, I hope one day you get a nice house for yourself and the buns with an even nicer garden! I bet it must be really hard. Really, he loves the marigolds? I was thinking of planting some for May in the back since everything that will go in the back will be Maybelle safe. Hehehe. Do you have some on your patio now? I know herbs grow really nicely in pots :biggrin:I will have to grow a big herb pot in front since I am sure I will have to fight May for them and I love using them in my cooking. Lol.
Thank you for your hugs, they are always very much appreciated!
LOL @ you and Shiloh arguing over Maybelle. Would shared custody work? Lol
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Thanks guys. You always make me smile!
Yeah Maybelle is free-range. She never sleeps outside though, she still has the shed as I prefer to keep them from being so exposed to the elements. You know, I really was quite concerned about the cats here when we first started allowing her out. However, Maybelle is bigger than the cats and being the fighter she is, the cats are quite intimidated by her. When she is out, I am always about, normally watching her from the large kitchen window and Houdina also watches over her by the patio door.
There are some cats that try to come in the yard only to be quickly chased off by Maybelle. However, Maybelle does like a few cats and I often catch them playing together. I can think of 3 or 4 right now that she plays with. They kinda play a hide and seek game, Maybelle binkying away triumphantly after sppoking a cat from her hiding place. I think what makes a major difference is the fact that none of these cats are strays. They are all family cats and pretty much all of them have other furry family members as well whether it be dogs, rabbits, etc. They are all well-pampered pets so they don't see Maybelle as a snack. Most of the cats just like to sit on a patio chair and watch her. I saw "Kitten" taste mint the other day, trying to imitate Maybelle. Lol. May also always has access to the shed and various hiding spots to get away if she wants. She normally naps in the shed and then comes out after her nap to play. Meanwhile, the cats really appreciate coming because I leave water out for them. Most cats don't have access to clean water whilst there owners are away and they are pretty parched.I can't stand that. :expressionless
I did see "Kitten" get a tad too excited for Maybelle's liking quite a while ago so Maybelle gave her a good nip.Neither had any injuries though, and Maybelle sure could have bitten her if she had wanted.Hasn't been an issue since. Lol. If it starts to rain, I often find Maybelle and a cat sitting together in the shed so I guess she really doesn't mind them since she even tolerates them in her space.
I know this is pretty scary to most people. I do understand even myself, sometimes, I wonder if I am doing the right thing. However, I also strongly believe in trusting their instincts. I think there is a reason as to why Maybelle doesn't tolerate some cats but is friends with others. It's the same with the piggies and them playing with Houdina and allowing her to sit in there living space. Meanwhile, watching them interact is very special. I just told my neighbor on Sunday that his tiny cat spends a lot of time here watching Maybelle. He thought that was nice that they get along. Strangely enough, now that I think of it, all the cats that Maybelle likes are cats that are part of the same clan and are often hanging out together. I wonder if she's just "part of the clan" to them? :confused2:
Aside from the cats, there isn't anything else here aside from hedgehogs. The yard is entirely fenced in. The only real thing I am terrified of is a pet ferret escaping and attacking the buns. However, I also feel that Rolo would have less of a chance since she is in the hutch and wouldn't be able to get away. Birds aren't an issue really either because they don't bother flying over here since they have the fields further where there is plenty of food for them to catch. Those that fly over are mainly ducks, swans, andherons.
As for children, right now, it seems time will be making the decision for us. With Jeff turning 40 in August, I just feel that we might just run out of time. I think having a child at that age takes some serious consideration. And, from talking to Jeff a while back,I am concerned he is doing it more because he doesn't want to 'deprive' me of that more than he would be doing it for himself as well. Basically, I am not exactly sure yet that he'd be doing it for all the right reasons.
Only time will tell.
Hehehe, I'll be sure to keep your buns in mind for the bunny smooches :winkIt's nice to see you back online!
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Ali:
Yeah, but that's the good thing about introspect. If we take the time to look within ourselves, we can often see our own misdoings.
Baggage also has it's pros too though. Hehehe._____________
Susan:
Thanks Susan. Yeah, I like my life simple. That's what I told Jeff. I just don't understand why it's so bloody complicated. This is JUST a language course! Geez. But of course, it's not just the language course so yeah, things are a bit more complicated than I would like but hopefully I will find ways to simplify things soon.
So far, Jeff seems to have taken things very seriously and had been acting on it. Therefore, it seems that he really is a man of his word and does take things seriously enough. That pretty much satisfies me, knowing that I am not about to see a repeat of a past experience. Jeff is a great guy and I am very happy to know that when somethingof the sort does happen, it can be dealt with. Hahaha though, your 'air' comment had me in stitches. Fair enough As for the language, I'd be learning it faster if I had a proper course. It's not too too hard really. My shyness really slows me down though. Lol. We could still get married. That wouldn't be a problem. It's getting my permanent residence or citizenship that can be. I can also be fined for not completing the exam in time, etc. Hehehe I don't plan on getting married in Canada but you're always welcome if we do get married
All you need is a good bunsitter. So, you have some time to find one. Hehehe. Awww Susan, I hope one day you get a nice house for yourself and the buns with an even nicer garden! I bet it must be really hard. Really, he loves the marigolds? I was thinking of planting some for May in the back since everything that will go in the back will be Maybelle safe. Hehehe. Do you have some on your patio now? I know herbs grow really nicely in pots :biggrin:I will have to grow a big herb pot in front since I am sure I will have to fight May for them and I love using them in my cooking. Lol.
Thank you for your hugs, they are always very much appreciated!
LOL @ you and Shiloh arguing over Maybelle. Would shared custody work? Lol
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Thanks guys. You always make me smile!
