TinysMom
Well-Known Member
I've been hesitant to share this because I'm afraid it will come across wrong. So let me start out with the most important piece of information:
I LOVE ZEUS DEARLY AND HAVE NO DESIRE TO REHOME HIM!
Ok...here is the backstory....when I got Zeus - it was so he could live in the office with me and some other bunnies. However, in the course of his many explorations - he found the garage and by his choice - he has moved out there (it helps that we moved his food out there after he seemed to want to be out there).
He and Miss Bea are no longer really bonded - and she has moved into our bedroom (and yes - she sleeps on the bed at night). Zeus has a doe in the garage named Tibba that he likes to hang out with.
The thing is....Zeus is happy to be in the garage. When I bring him in the house to try and spend time with him - he's unhappy. When I go out in the garage to sit with him (its hot right now) - I'm unhappy.
Part of me really really wants to move him back into the office - WITH ME - so he and I will spend time together. Whenever I've tried - he's snuck back out to the garage as soon as he could.
I feel like he's going to live here and be loved....but from a distance. He doesn't want the relationship with me that I had with Tiny....and I feel like if I don't push him to move back in the house - I may regret it (because we won't bond) - and yet - he is so happy with HIS garage and being king of all the bunnies out there...that he keeps going back out there.
Would it be wrong of me to let him live out there and maybe - sometime down the road (not right now)- get a younger flemmie to live in the office as "my" rabbit?
I miss having a flemmie around - and I love Zeus dearly. But what he wants isn't really to be near me....and I just feel so confused.
I walk out in the garage and want to bring him into the bedroom to spend time with him - and he is dead-bunny flopped and just so happy out there. Maybe I'm wrong to try and bring him in and have him with me...maybe I'm being selfish.
Help?
Oh - and I'm not in any hurry for another flemmie....I haven't been looking for any. I'm just saying - that at some point - I would like to have another one that was an "in-house" pet....(the garage is just a few feet from our bedroom and the door is always open for him to come into the house).
Peg
I LOVE ZEUS DEARLY AND HAVE NO DESIRE TO REHOME HIM!
Ok...here is the backstory....when I got Zeus - it was so he could live in the office with me and some other bunnies. However, in the course of his many explorations - he found the garage and by his choice - he has moved out there (it helps that we moved his food out there after he seemed to want to be out there).
He and Miss Bea are no longer really bonded - and she has moved into our bedroom (and yes - she sleeps on the bed at night). Zeus has a doe in the garage named Tibba that he likes to hang out with.
The thing is....Zeus is happy to be in the garage. When I bring him in the house to try and spend time with him - he's unhappy. When I go out in the garage to sit with him (its hot right now) - I'm unhappy.
Part of me really really wants to move him back into the office - WITH ME - so he and I will spend time together. Whenever I've tried - he's snuck back out to the garage as soon as he could.
I feel like he's going to live here and be loved....but from a distance. He doesn't want the relationship with me that I had with Tiny....and I feel like if I don't push him to move back in the house - I may regret it (because we won't bond) - and yet - he is so happy with HIS garage and being king of all the bunnies out there...that he keeps going back out there.
Would it be wrong of me to let him live out there and maybe - sometime down the road (not right now)- get a younger flemmie to live in the office as "my" rabbit?
I miss having a flemmie around - and I love Zeus dearly. But what he wants isn't really to be near me....and I just feel so confused.
I walk out in the garage and want to bring him into the bedroom to spend time with him - and he is dead-bunny flopped and just so happy out there. Maybe I'm wrong to try and bring him in and have him with me...maybe I'm being selfish.
Help?
Oh - and I'm not in any hurry for another flemmie....I haven't been looking for any. I'm just saying - that at some point - I would like to have another one that was an "in-house" pet....(the garage is just a few feet from our bedroom and the door is always open for him to come into the house).
Peg