Date I
Their first bunny date occurred, and it was a resounding ok...at least I think. Now several sites mentioned to run it anywhere between 2min-30min (HRN actually chimed in at 30 if all was going well) so all in all it was a 15min meeting. For the most part they explored the kitchen surrounding, Conan was scared to come out the carrier then scared to hop the kitchen floor meanwhile Xena was everywhere. I gave them little treats to keep things jovial and I have to say for the first 10min things we're just indifferent. They would pass each other on occasion, but pay each other little mind. I had put a neutral litter box with some hay in the area and both played king of the hill so I quickly realized it was agitating them which one was in it so I removed it. Then they each took turns bowing the head looking for some grooming. It looked like they we're getting annoyed at the other when neither would respond so I tried to chill the situation by petting their noses myself. It kind of worked, kept them calm but a few moments after I removed my hand they'd both try to get under the other one and get nipped if they wouldn't respond. I stopped the majority of the nipping by either pushing them off or spraying them with water. They separated one last time so i took my moment, gave them a treat and put them back in their carriers.
So, it wasn't true love but neither was it hate (I hope). What concerned me was their body language never seemed to indicate fight. Ears were always up in curiosity or awareness of some potential mishap. Tails never went up. A smidgen of circling and mostly just to get their heads under the others head. No humping whatsoever. Just nips, and many more attempted nips. In fact call me cautious, paranoid or whatever but the nips freaked me out the most because it would come lickity split with no absolute warning. I could handle humping way better and of course that didn't happen. No fur was pulled, I don't even think a nip connected too much but in like humping or something more overt I have no way to gauge how bad a nip can go or what it can turn into. I like to think I'm satisfied at how things went, especially since after I returned them I left Xena out of her cage (Conan was out all night in the pet room so its her turn) and she went right to the spot he was laying and laid down besides him on the outside and he continued to relax (I hope its not a game of I'm more relaxed then you which is of course bunny for I'm fighting you non physically). Again, this all could be good but I like to play it cautious and just say it didn't go bad. I'm going to try again tonight, and I'm debating whether i should take them on a car ride to my moms house and try there where it truly is neutral territory, though her kitchen is a little bit more cluttered and tricky to maintain control (a small table to hide under which will make me scramble). Either way, that was Date 1.