Wabbitdad12 wrote:
I don't know how you do it all!, horses, farm, bunny's, family, wow
Well, there is a pile of laundry I haven't done yet and dishes... barn has to be clean before those chores... LOL... did get out to go hunting this AM (saw lots of deer but did not have a shot - our family eats a lot of venison and I have all sorts of ways to cook it... we have too many here in my area and each one we harvest is one that does not run into someone's car - Tim has sustained two direct hits and Andy had a hit in my old Explorer), then cleaned the barn, made candles, ran laundry and then rode Weatherly - Tim was worried the gunshots would scare her but she was rock solid.
Saoirse was the one who got excited at the shots... her ears, head and tail went up and she was prancing and bucking up a storm. I took her out on the longe line so she could graze and play and she was full of herself. She makes me laugh at her antics and I love how affectionate she is one moment and how bratty she can be the next... my job is to carefully educate her so she keeps her spirit with manners. I am seeing that with Weatherly - if you were to see her in the pen, nobody would ride her as she looks as wild as they come but once the halter is on, she is alert yet mannerly.
I am also dealing with my stepdad's pancreatic cancer - he was diagnosed Thursday night and they are doing an MRI tomorrow and he meets with the surgeon on Wednesday. He lives next door to his daughter, my (half) sister so he has someone to look after him. He is the dad that raised me - I am in touch with my biological dad, who I love just as much but that is another story.
I have Thanksgiving here on Thursday just the way I would want it- Tim, Andy, Benn and Greg. We hunt in the AM... dinner will be served later in the afternoon.
Friday morning I leave for CT to see my mom and brother and their new house - and hoping she will allow her ex to have what could be his last Thanksgiving with us. My (half) sister and I think it would be therapeutic to have a meal where things weren't going to Hell as they did during our childhood. If my mom cannot do it, my sister and I will do something up at her house with her hubby and girls and Dad.
My stepdad made mistakes over the years but we are all human and I forgive him. He took care of me when I was little and even though he could not deal with me when I was 18 and had an eating disorder and he threw me out of the house, I am able to deal and forgive.
Life is too short to carry around rotten baggage...
On a lighter note, felt Roxanne and Remy's kits as they are in production... Roxanne is still very sweet and loveable.
Calliope jumped up when I was cleaning her cage and I got to hold her for a bit... Grace was put out that I would hold her but she only chomped my sweatshirt once... that is an improvement!
Denise