I think they'll probably calm down. It might take some time. It took Ellie a while to calm down and get used to the cats and the dog and get used to everything. She still gets skittish sometimes, but most of the time she puts the brave face on. haha.
I wonder if you did get bit by a spider. I haven't been bit by one in a long time. I have super mosquitoes in my yard, they'll bite you through the bug spray. I got minor DEET poisoning from spraying too much spray on me, then I ingested some of it. It made me feel terrible and made my muscles cramp up.
My mom never did my hair. haha. And she's a barber. She stopped cutting and coloring my hair when I was 15 and her best friend did it from then on. Now she cuts and colors it again but for a long time, I couldn't even get her to trim it. God forbid I asked her to brush it or put it up. haha. She never did my hair when I was a kid though, I swear, there must have a lot of times that I went around with jacked up hair because she wouldn't brush it or put it up. haha. I just don't have that memory of her doing that for me, but I think its because her mom tortured her when she was a kid with her hair. My mom says she remembers sitting on the floor in front of the toilet between my grandma's knees while she jerked and roughly brushed her hair and put it up. I remember my grandma doing that to me too and putting those hair bows, the ones with a ball at each end. Those things were impossible to get out and they always hit me in the head and it hurt. I guess maybe thats why my mom never did my hair.
Anyway, after telling you my childhood life story, what I was trying to say is that its nice for you to do their hair. Thats probably a memory they'll look back on with their own kids and think, it was nice that you did their hair for them every morning. If I ever had a daughter, I would do her hair.
I'm so done, haha. Sorry for the hair rambling.