I DON'T WANNA GO SCHOOL

[irishbunny]

Maybe your mam should make an appointment with a pyschologist, they might be able to help you and if you have regular sessions with him it might help alot. The whole feeling sick and not wanting to go to school could be a mental thing. My sister is training as a pyschologist and volunteers at one of those helpline things that people can phone if they need help, I know you have a children's helpline in the UK maybe you could ring them and they will give you some excellent advice on how to deal with what your going through, it's totally confidental.

Pyschologists are great too, I can ask my sister anything and she always has great advice. If your gp can't find anything physically wrong with you then a pyschologist is defo the best way to go.

 

[Flashy]

^That would be Childline. http://www.childline.org.uk/Pages/default.aspx

To see a proper psychologist Becca would have to go private, or be referred to them via CAMHS (Child and Adolescent Mental Health Service), and they are very hard to come by. A regular counsellor could be just as effective, or a psych if they feel it is a mental health illness, but most likely a counsellor would be the easiest and possibly most effective to see.


Also, just to add, Peg is right about forcing yourself to do things. We can't always have what we want, and sometimes we have to force ourselves through those hard times, because it does get easier.

 

[Flashy]

Thinking about it, Connexions Direct might also be of help.

 

[irishbunny]

Oh ya, well, if you can't afford to go to a pyschologist then defo try go see a counsellor, and I would also defo try ringing childline. If you don't feel comfortable ringing them I know some places offer an e-mail service, not sure about childline but there are other places you could e-mail. You should defo try and get some sort of help if at all possible, have you a school counsellor? What do you think you want to stay home for? I know you said the peeing thing but that could becausedby another issue. Is there a reason you can think of why you don't want to go to school? Or a reason why you want to be at home?