I DON'T WANNA GO SCHOOL

[Becca]

pinksalamander wrote:

Maybe you need to train yourself. Do pelvic floor muscles help with all that wee-holding stuff? (Cos you can see I just don't know what to call it). Maybe you could train yourself to have better control over your pelvic floor and that might help you hold it for longer, whilst you tackle the mental part of the problem.

Fran :hearts :brownbunny

What are pelvic floor thingymabobs :shock::shock:

 

[irishbunny]

I know how you feel, school sucks

 

[Flashy]

If it's an anxiety based problem, then lifting the anxiety symptom can mean that Becca could get the space to deal with the root cause of her anxiety, so allowing her to go to the toilet could help ease things in that respect and if she had help like a counsellor or someone should could work on the root causes behind the anxiety and the issues with the toilet and feeling sick.

That is if it is related to beign anxious, which obviously it may not.

 

[slavetoabunny]

Using the restroom frequently is also a symptom of diabetes. I would be tested if I were you.

 

[Brandy456]

I used to have to pee every 5 minutes. It was horrible. You need to relax, when you need to pee ( this sounds weird ) flex you're bum muscles and the sensation will go away..

My doctor taught me that.

 

[NZminilops]

There is nothing embarassing about peeing, we all have to do it (even teachers ).

Either way, whether it's an axiety issue or a physical one, you have to look past feeling embarassed and tell someone. Feeling sick all the time and needing to pee every 5 minutes isn't something you want to live with forever is it?

Are you SURE you like school? I hated school and pretended to be sick so often that I actually ended up believing I was sick all the time.

 

[Brandy456]

NZminilops wrote:

There is nothing embarassing about peeing, we all have to do it (even teachers ).

Either way, whether it's an axiety issue or a physical one, you have to look past feeling embarassed and tell someone. Feeling sick all the time and needing to pee every 5 minutes isn't something you want to live with forever is it?

Are you SURE you like school? I hated school and pretended to be sick so often that I actually ended up believing I was sick all the time.

Thats how I found outI had school phobia. I made myself think I was sick so i'd stay home. Sometimes it was soo bad where i'd leave school without signing out and just walk home. My mom got fed up and told my doctor and he sent me to see my Psyciatrist.

 

[Becca]

So.. what do I do :shock:

 

[irishbunny]

Becca wrote:

So.. what do I do :shock:

You at home today? Me too the roads were too icy and my bus couldn't come :biggrin2:

 

[Becca]

Yeah, apparently I was coughing loads in the night though I can't remember and my mum said I should get some sleep.

 

[Flashy]

You talk to your mum and tell her the truth, and then she will do what she feels is right for you.

 

[Becca]

This is what mum said:

One thing to remember is that you have just had ur wee tested and it was normal so that rules out infection and diabetes.

I think it is just an anxiety problem, again when you think you aren't able to get to a toilet when you want it bothers u and makes u more anxious but you know you get out of itusually when ur busy and are distracted.

You have to remember you are at an age where there are lots of things going on in your body, I think I was worse about most things when I was your age. You have never not got to the toilet in time when you need to have you? So you have to keep telling yourself that and that you can hold it until you are able to get to the toilet.

You have to try and relax about these sort of things otherwise they will take over your life. That is why I bother about you reading about some of the other problems people have on RO because you just have to deal with how you feel and get on with things.

I understand how you feel as I have felt the same when I was younger but I always just did what I had to do, went to school etc. Learning to overcome fears and anxieties is part of life but something that you have to do otherwise you will miss out on lots of fun things.

 

[Flashy]

How do you feel about that?

I do agree with everything your mum said, but I also think there comes a time where it does get past just being able to get on with things. I'm not saying you are there, just that sometimes its hard to just get on with things.

Your mum knows you best and also knows far more about the situation, and as long as you are communicating as well with her as you do with us, then she always knows best, however, if you don't communicate as well with her, then you need to learn to, because it will stand you in good stead.

Well done for talking to her

 

[lemon]

WOW!!!! I didn't know how lucky i am!!
( I am home schooled.)

 

[irishbunny]

lemon wrote:

WOW!!!! I didn't know how lucky i am!!
( I am home schooled.)

I don't think I'd like to be home schooled :?

 

[Flashy]

There are pros and cons to both being schooled in a, well, school, (lol) and being home schooled, so in some cases both are better, in some cases the other is better.

 

[Becca]

I'd LOVE to be homeschooled...

 

[irishbunny]

I don't think I'd like to be home schooled because school is one of the only times you get to see friends you don't live near. Like I live in the countryside and have one close friend (in my avatar, breeds nethies), in school there are 8 people in my friend group so basically I'd have one friend without school.

 

[Becca]

If you were homeschooled you would have to do clubs and stuff you wouldn't just stay at home all the time. You'd go to other clubs and meet friends there

 

[irishbunny]

Becca wrote:

If you were homeschooled you would have to do clubs and stuff you wouldn't just stay at home all the time. You'd go to other clubs and meet friends there

Ya I suppose but I don't like sports or anything and I don't like any clubs near me so I probably wouldn't.