I DON'T WANNA GO SCHOOL

[Becca]

The title says it all.

 

[Flashy]

But you have to, so there is no point moaning about it, just enjoy it the best you can. Sometimes it takes a while to get in the swing of something, but you will and it will be fine. Plus its coming up to one of the best times of year in school, which is Christmas, and so it should be great

 

[Happi Bun]

Going to school and getting a good education is very important if you want to be successful in life. I know it's hard right now but it's worth it.

 

[paul2641]

Happi Bun wrote:

Going to school and getting a good education is very important if you want to be successful in life. I know it's hard right now but it's worth it.

I totally agree. 100%

 

[Brandy456]

Hey

Why don't you want to go to school ?

You know, If you ever need to talk i'm mostly always on msn.. even when i'm out i'm probably logged on , on my phone

 

[Becca]

Okay, I'm gonna tell you all thbis becuase I trust you and your my friends....

Basically ever since i was little when it was the christmas holidays i got into the habit of going for a wee loads and usually I got out of that habit but one time when i was like 7 i never got out of the habit and im still stuck in that habit and recenlty its got worse and i keep needing the loo loads and its horrible and i want it to stop but i cant and i just wanna be normal again and I hate it at school becuase we're not allowed to go out of lessons.

Thanks for listening that was really hard to tell you all.

 

[mouse_chalk]

Becca wrote:

Okay, I'm gonna tell you all thbis becuase I trust you and your my friends....

Basically ever since i was little when it was the christmas holidays i got into the habit of going for a wee loads and usually I got out of that habit but one time when i was like 7 i never got out of the habit and im still stuck in that habit and recenlty its got worse and i keep needing the loo loads and its horrible and i want it to stop but i cant and i just wanna be normal again and I hate it at school becuase we're not allowed to go out of lessons.

Thanks for listening that was really hard to tell you all.

Becca is that what's been going on this whole time? Is this what makes you feel sick? Have you told your parents? :hug::hug:


Edit: I took out the sub-title because Becca asked me to- she was just upset at the time...

 

[NorthernAutumn]

I just wanted to let you know Becca, that I usually really have to go really bad when I'm feeling anxious.
If you are feeling anxious these days, I can see why you feel like you have to go often.
I don't know if you can tell your teacher this or not... if they seem like an understanding person, I'm sure they would know that you aren't just goofing off by going to the loo.
:hug:

 

[pinksalamander]

To be honest, its just one of those things. Habits are hard to get out of. In a way, you are kinda lucky. I mean, in order to stop a habit you need to try and stop yourself doing it. That can be really difficult on its own, but if you go to school, and someone else is telling you you can't do it then there is really no way you can get around it. Its like a smoker being locked in a room with no cigarettes. There is physical no way to do it, so its easier to kick the habit.

Also, I know its impossible for me to say, but please please go to school. Its one of those things that people always tell you and you never really believe, but seriously its so much more important than you could ever think and then you get to where I am and get stuck because you made silly mistakes and ignored what everyone said to you, thinking you were invincible.

Fran :hearts :brownbunny

 

[Happi Bun]

Using the bathroom frequently can actually be a medical problem... bladder infection I believe? However, you can feel the urge to go pee frequently without having an infection. For example, sometimes I get that problem and I'm not sure why. It can be very annoying. I empty my bladder and then a few mins after I get the urge again, but the second time I only go a little bit. So now I ignore it when I get the urge right after and it goes away. I think for me it's a mental thing.

Heh... sorry if thats too much information.

 

[Flashy]

Like I said, I think it is anxiety based. You don't go regularly during the night, and so if it was a physical need you would be getting up in the night. I do think you need help to tackle these problems though.

 

[Becca]

Don't worry Fran, i will go to school - I would be too scared to scive LOL!

I don't think this thing is causing the feeling sick becuase i would of been feeling sick since I was 7 or whatever age it was the habit stopped 'stopping'.

But it has got worse and I just do NOT like it one bit....

 

[Becca]

Happi Bun wrote:

Using the bathroom frequently can actually be a medical problem... bladder infection I believe? However, you can feel the urge to go pee frequently without having an infection. For example, sometimes I get that problem and I'm not sure why. It can be very annoying. I empty my bladder and then a few mins after I get the urge again, but the second time I only go a little bit. So now I ignore it when I get the urge right after and it goes away. I think for me it's a mental thing.

Heh... sorry if thats too much information.

Yeah thats what happens most of them time but sometimes i go alot then a couple of mins later I go LOOOAADS again, then another 2 mins later i go LOOOAAADS again, this can go on from half an hour to 2 hours.

 

[Brandy456]

Hey hun,

Just try talking to you're parents. They can give you a note and the school HAS to let you out when you need to. Their not allowed to say no.

If you're parents say no to writing the note or you forget. Leave class and tell the administraition what's going on and that you NEED to go to the washroom when you ask and you cannot wait for when their ready to let you.

It worked for me.

 

[pinksalamander]

Maybe you need to train yourself. Do pelvic floor muscles help with all that wee-holding stuff? (Cos you can see I just don't know what to call it). Maybe you could train yourself to have better control over your pelvic floor and that might help you hold it for longer, whilst you tackle the mental part of the problem.

Fran :hearts :brownbunny

 

[bat42072]

there are many medical problems it could be... besides other things... If you had not told your parents then you need to ... and maybe they will take you to the doctor so the can find out what is causing it... there is medicines that can help out ..

 

[Becca]

But I'd be too embarrased passing round a note like that :?

 

[Elf Mommy]

Actually, I have a relative who is now on some anxiety medication because she needed to use the bathroom when she was nervous. Whenever she went somewhere, she HAD to use the bathroom first, and sometimes she would have to stop at a gas station or someplace to use it if she was unsure about the place she was going toor felt as though she would be lost or not able to use a restroom when she arrived.

You should definitely speak to your doctor about it. It might be something that can be helped!

 

[Flashy]

But if it helps isn't it worth it?

Teachers see and hear and know so much it will be normal and nothing major for them, they will see far more 'embarassing' things.

 

[pinksalamander]

Brandy456 wrote:

Hey hun,

Just try talking to you're parents. They can give you a note and the school HAS to let you out when you need to. Their not allowed to say no.

If you're parents say no to writing the note or you forget. Leave class and tell the administraition what's going on and that you NEED to go to the washroom when you ask and you cannot wait for when their ready to let you.

It worked for me.

But then if it is a mental issue (I hate saying that because it sounds rude, but I don't mean it that way) Its not going to help.

I'd say go to the doctors and find out what the underlying issue is. If its physical, then you will have to let the school know. If its a mental issue then there is no point writing into the school beause then they will let you go and you will never get out of it. And what happens when you get a job? You can't keep going then..

Fran :hearts :brownbunny