mysweetbunny
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Helloeveryone! I've been checking this forum and learning so muchsince I brought home my sweet bunny on March 5th this year.After lots of books and researching online how to best take care ofthis sweet little bundle, I attempted to estimate the age ofFluffy. Due to a heavy molt shortly after bringing him home,was that he was 7-8 weeks old and decided to give Fluffy thebirthmonth Jan 2005 (but how could I really know?.. heweighed a little over a pound at the timeand was purchasedfrom a petstore, where the people were nice, but didn't have much infoabout him, except that he was in a bin with other rabbitswith a sign reading MINI LOPS). I realized I'd have to informmyself as best I could. Due to his long fur, and muchlookingonlineI saw that he looked more simular toAmerican Fuzzy Lops, or Mini Fuzzy Lops.
I'm calling Fluffy a 'he' during this earlyperiod because it's what I believed since the 2nd week of bringing'him' home. You see, after much searching I finally found alocal Exotic Vet in my area, and made a call during the second weekafterrthe bunny came home. The vet tech answered mymany questions (I'd already read what questions to ask) and I felt aninstant relief. I expressed an interest ingettingFluffy fixed whichever it may be, either a spay orneuter and also wanted to find out our bunnies sex. SoIasked if I should make an appointment for a checkup, and thetech said to just come by and someone would sex the bunny forme.
(Sorry such a long story!... but want to giveas many details of our 'history' so as to get the best advice lateron), the bunny was sexed as a male by a tech. I was told tocome back in when 'he' "dropped". During this long wait,several attempts to check the bunny myself, by pressing thearea. I'd seen pictures online of how to sex a rabbit, butalways went with the opinion of the vet, because I found it hard totell.
So much to learn... and do for this littlesweetie during these months... but was still waiting andchecking for this sign of maleness to occur. I couldn'twaitfor this 'drop' any longer, so I called to schedule anoverall checkup, re-sex the bunny including checking his teeth etc, andmainly to find out when I could schedule the neuter! Today(May 17th), we went in for our appointment finally.
The vet was friendly and spent time with me andFluffy. The first thing he did was check Fluffy and showed methe slit and said "Fluffy is a GIRL".SHE weighed inat 3.4 lbs. He said it was more difficult to spay a biggerfemale bunny, and didn't recommend it for female rabbits over 6 monthsof age. If my brain had been working properly I wish I'dasked if he 'thought' she was over that age... and he didn't say or tryto guess. I was thinking she was just under5months. He did make a smileing comment when heread"Mini" from the paperwork I filled out. Iexplained that I'd bought her from a petstore.. and the signage.. andlack of info from staff, etc. But also didn't press him forhis educated guess in this area of her probable adult weight.Not that it's a huge concern.. but I wasfiguringherto be4- 5-6lbsfull grown. Icalled back later and asked the staff if he could call to give me hisimpression when he had a chance.
Anyway, my primary concern while in the officewas to plan the spay. The vet had taken note of her calmbehavior and how she bathed the techs hand with wetkisses. I'd explained that she would nip gently attimes in a communicative way, and scratch at my clothes or bite atclothing, but that she seemed aware of not wanting to hurt. Itold him that I'd been learning from her that she was trying to tell meshe needed her space or to relieve herself... and he inquired about herlitter habits and so I told him she was a 100% with urinating in herlitter box. There were only a few times that she didn't makeit to the box, when I misread her signals. Amazingly shewould HOLD it till she could get back to her cage. I'd neverseen signs of spraying/ marking. To this day she's never madea mistake with urination in the house. The droppings wereprimarily in the box, some in bottom level of cage by the box.. andoccasionally one or two here and there when she played around theliving room/dining/kitchen area of our home (which I finally havefinished bunny proofing.)
The vet said we COULD still do the spay if wedo it very soon... but given her size that therewere risks involved, and possible death as spays were more invasivethan with neuterings. I was flipping out in my head... no waywould I want to take such a chance with my sweet bunny. Hesaid that 'fixing' a rabbit would help some mild hormonal behaviorlater on such humping 'me', but that in his opinion he'd let her be,and not fix her given she had such a calm disposition and wasn'taggressive.She'd never 'thumped' or seemedaggressive before, so he seemed to be steering me away fromspaying. I told him that I wasn't expecting to hear this...I've never NOT fixed a pet. He explained that he wishedpeople could see how complicated it was to work on a female rabbit over6 months, because they had more fat tissue.. and that that was why itwas better to spay when younger. The things I've read onlineand in books never put such a date on female rabbits... plus I'd had avet tech at his office miss-sex her... not that I'm blaming anyone.. Ijust thought this and didn't want to offend him by sayingit.
I'm still in a quandry over this. Idon't know what to do! I've spent the evening trying to findsimular advice or circumstqances on the net... but can't come up withanything.. having read alot of postings here, as well as elsewhere thatEVERYONE says you should get your bunny fixed for health concerns andthat it makes for a better pet. I need to make a decisionSOON, because the window is nearly closed already according to thisvet. I left the Vet with the impression that I was going tofollow his advice and let things be... I wish I could have thought ofthe right questions to learn more from him at the time. Asidefrom the fatty tissue explanation and the invasive nature of theprocedure he'd explained.. maybe he recently had a female rabbit dieduring a routine spay? Or something? I wonder howcommon it is or has been for him. I know it would have beensmart of me to ask that... but it seems like a hard question to asksomeone. I LIKED this Vet and didn't want to offend him evenif I'd brought a list of questions. Which I now wish I wouldhave.
The bottom line is I would not risk the life ofmy bunny...whohere would? But so many ofyou have had success! And I know you dear people are as inlove with bunnies as much or more than I am! In even a fewshort monthsnearly my every waking thought is of this sweetlittle life that has brought so much joy to our home. I haveread that a female rabbit has a Very high chance of getting cancersbeginning at the age of 6 years... but that would be more time than ifshe died on the table!
What do I do!!!What wouldYOU do? I hope to hear opinons of intactbunnyparents and howor if you notethehormal or temperment issues that arewritten so extensivelyof. I want to knowwhat that option will belike. At this age, the Vet told me that the personality of mybunny is pretty set... that the changes won't be that major.I know I could seekout anotherExotic Vet for asecond opinion...but where I live I've heard of one adistance away. Are there anyVets onthisboard that can help answer my questions?
Sorry that I wrote so much... I'mjust so attached... and don't want to risk losing my sweetFluffy.She wasn't an impulse purchase... I'd goneto petshop4 times and held many cute bunnies before I foundher. I'd held mini rex's,&otherslops and varieties and went home empty handed 3 times. Theday I found her there were two longer haired mini lops in the pen alongwith about 10 other regular length hair ones. I had avoidedpicking her up till nearly the last, because she was long haired (moreupkeep than I'd want I thought)and she was even bigger thanthe other fuzzy. But once I held her, I knew I couldn't puther down... I knew there were a few hiding that I hadn't held yet...but I didn't care. She was drinking water from a gravity dripbottle, when I finally thought well let me pick that one up... thatbunny doesn't seem skittish. She nuzzled into my neck and Iwalked around the store with her... after about half an hour and shewas still comfortably snuggling my neck and licking me, I just knew shewas mine. She's not always the angel I describe.. she's stilla rabbit, I know.. and she'll remind me.. she's eaten two buttons offthe remote, dug some carpet out a corner in the living room, knawed onelectric wires (both prior to proofing) but we've learned... and it'sworth every minute of it. I love taking care of her and thelove I get in return is priceless... I know that many of you can relateto this feeling. I'll end here.. and I look forward to yourreplies... LA
I'm calling Fluffy a 'he' during this earlyperiod because it's what I believed since the 2nd week of bringing'him' home. You see, after much searching I finally found alocal Exotic Vet in my area, and made a call during the second weekafterrthe bunny came home. The vet tech answered mymany questions (I'd already read what questions to ask) and I felt aninstant relief. I expressed an interest ingettingFluffy fixed whichever it may be, either a spay orneuter and also wanted to find out our bunnies sex. SoIasked if I should make an appointment for a checkup, and thetech said to just come by and someone would sex the bunny forme.
(Sorry such a long story!... but want to giveas many details of our 'history' so as to get the best advice lateron), the bunny was sexed as a male by a tech. I was told tocome back in when 'he' "dropped". During this long wait,several attempts to check the bunny myself, by pressing thearea. I'd seen pictures online of how to sex a rabbit, butalways went with the opinion of the vet, because I found it hard totell.
So much to learn... and do for this littlesweetie during these months... but was still waiting andchecking for this sign of maleness to occur. I couldn'twaitfor this 'drop' any longer, so I called to schedule anoverall checkup, re-sex the bunny including checking his teeth etc, andmainly to find out when I could schedule the neuter! Today(May 17th), we went in for our appointment finally.
The vet was friendly and spent time with me andFluffy. The first thing he did was check Fluffy and showed methe slit and said "Fluffy is a GIRL".SHE weighed inat 3.4 lbs. He said it was more difficult to spay a biggerfemale bunny, and didn't recommend it for female rabbits over 6 monthsof age. If my brain had been working properly I wish I'dasked if he 'thought' she was over that age... and he didn't say or tryto guess. I was thinking she was just under5months. He did make a smileing comment when heread"Mini" from the paperwork I filled out. Iexplained that I'd bought her from a petstore.. and the signage.. andlack of info from staff, etc. But also didn't press him forhis educated guess in this area of her probable adult weight.Not that it's a huge concern.. but I wasfiguringherto be4- 5-6lbsfull grown. Icalled back later and asked the staff if he could call to give me hisimpression when he had a chance.
Anyway, my primary concern while in the officewas to plan the spay. The vet had taken note of her calmbehavior and how she bathed the techs hand with wetkisses. I'd explained that she would nip gently attimes in a communicative way, and scratch at my clothes or bite atclothing, but that she seemed aware of not wanting to hurt. Itold him that I'd been learning from her that she was trying to tell meshe needed her space or to relieve herself... and he inquired about herlitter habits and so I told him she was a 100% with urinating in herlitter box. There were only a few times that she didn't makeit to the box, when I misread her signals. Amazingly shewould HOLD it till she could get back to her cage. I'd neverseen signs of spraying/ marking. To this day she's never madea mistake with urination in the house. The droppings wereprimarily in the box, some in bottom level of cage by the box.. andoccasionally one or two here and there when she played around theliving room/dining/kitchen area of our home (which I finally havefinished bunny proofing.)
The vet said we COULD still do the spay if wedo it very soon... but given her size that therewere risks involved, and possible death as spays were more invasivethan with neuterings. I was flipping out in my head... no waywould I want to take such a chance with my sweet bunny. Hesaid that 'fixing' a rabbit would help some mild hormonal behaviorlater on such humping 'me', but that in his opinion he'd let her be,and not fix her given she had such a calm disposition and wasn'taggressive.She'd never 'thumped' or seemedaggressive before, so he seemed to be steering me away fromspaying. I told him that I wasn't expecting to hear this...I've never NOT fixed a pet. He explained that he wishedpeople could see how complicated it was to work on a female rabbit over6 months, because they had more fat tissue.. and that that was why itwas better to spay when younger. The things I've read onlineand in books never put such a date on female rabbits... plus I'd had avet tech at his office miss-sex her... not that I'm blaming anyone.. Ijust thought this and didn't want to offend him by sayingit.
I'm still in a quandry over this. Idon't know what to do! I've spent the evening trying to findsimular advice or circumstqances on the net... but can't come up withanything.. having read alot of postings here, as well as elsewhere thatEVERYONE says you should get your bunny fixed for health concerns andthat it makes for a better pet. I need to make a decisionSOON, because the window is nearly closed already according to thisvet. I left the Vet with the impression that I was going tofollow his advice and let things be... I wish I could have thought ofthe right questions to learn more from him at the time. Asidefrom the fatty tissue explanation and the invasive nature of theprocedure he'd explained.. maybe he recently had a female rabbit dieduring a routine spay? Or something? I wonder howcommon it is or has been for him. I know it would have beensmart of me to ask that... but it seems like a hard question to asksomeone. I LIKED this Vet and didn't want to offend him evenif I'd brought a list of questions. Which I now wish I wouldhave.
The bottom line is I would not risk the life ofmy bunny...whohere would? But so many ofyou have had success! And I know you dear people are as inlove with bunnies as much or more than I am! In even a fewshort monthsnearly my every waking thought is of this sweetlittle life that has brought so much joy to our home. I haveread that a female rabbit has a Very high chance of getting cancersbeginning at the age of 6 years... but that would be more time than ifshe died on the table!
What do I do!!!What wouldYOU do? I hope to hear opinons of intactbunnyparents and howor if you notethehormal or temperment issues that arewritten so extensivelyof. I want to knowwhat that option will belike. At this age, the Vet told me that the personality of mybunny is pretty set... that the changes won't be that major.I know I could seekout anotherExotic Vet for asecond opinion...but where I live I've heard of one adistance away. Are there anyVets onthisboard that can help answer my questions?
Sorry that I wrote so much... I'mjust so attached... and don't want to risk losing my sweetFluffy.She wasn't an impulse purchase... I'd goneto petshop4 times and held many cute bunnies before I foundher. I'd held mini rex's,&otherslops and varieties and went home empty handed 3 times. Theday I found her there were two longer haired mini lops in the pen alongwith about 10 other regular length hair ones. I had avoidedpicking her up till nearly the last, because she was long haired (moreupkeep than I'd want I thought)and she was even bigger thanthe other fuzzy. But once I held her, I knew I couldn't puther down... I knew there were a few hiding that I hadn't held yet...but I didn't care. She was drinking water from a gravity dripbottle, when I finally thought well let me pick that one up... thatbunny doesn't seem skittish. She nuzzled into my neck and Iwalked around the store with her... after about half an hour and shewas still comfortably snuggling my neck and licking me, I just knew shewas mine. She's not always the angel I describe.. she's stilla rabbit, I know.. and she'll remind me.. she's eaten two buttons offthe remote, dug some carpet out a corner in the living room, knawed onelectric wires (both prior to proofing) but we've learned... and it'sworth every minute of it. I love taking care of her and thelove I get in return is priceless... I know that many of you can relateto this feeling. I'll end here.. and I look forward to yourreplies... LA