naturestee
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Whoa wait a minute! Bo, your hubby is UNION? And he's voting for McCain???
Something tells me he hasn't read up on the candidates' stances.
Something tells me he hasn't read up on the candidates' stances.
Back in the good old days, we knew the next day or in landslide cases, very late at night. These days it depends on how close the election is and how many people file law suits. Could be a couple of weeks, worst case scenario.As a Canadian.. thought I would ask... when will the rest of us know who is the confirmed President? Is it the next day, or how does that work? Will be interesting to see what happens, either way..
Not much into the wheeling and dealing of politics, but man will I be GLAD even as a Canadian to finalize this election! At least the Canadian campaigns only last a month or so, seems like I've been hearing about this election for years!
Yeah, he's been listening to RUSH LIMBAUGH! :?
I think he's actually thinking about voting for the Independent tho LOL!
oh yes, give him some from me and Jamie, too:biggrin2:. and if he's really good Jamie might even share some banana with oats with him:biggrin2:Please give your DH some nose pats from me and Frankenbunny for 'right' thinking, LOL! He can have some of crack Craisins too.
Here is aneditorial piece from journalist Michael Malone that I find thought provoking. The media's Presidential bias and decline, slanted coverage and the reasons why.
http://abcnews.go.com/Business/story?id=6099188&page=1
But it's not socialism. Your property is still your own. Your business is still your own. There is no communal ownership of anything. Edit: And in some of Palin's speaches she claims that Obama will take your businesses and property away, take what's yours away because he's a complete and dirty socialist.
I find it so funny that Palin keeps criticizing the "liberal media" for reporting fluff pieces about clothes, etc. Yet she spouts off a lot of lies about her opponents.
(Yes, they now claim the clothes will be donated, I don't believe it. What about the $$ charged the state of Alaska to fly her kids places they didn't need to go? Yes, she sold the official plane, but it was at a *loss* of a half million dollars. If her kids were attending events they didn't need to, fine, but she should have paid for that out of her own pocket.) Personally, I think things like that show her character.
About the abortion issue, I understand where you guys are coming from. But the thing is it hinges on a personal or religious belief that life starts at conception. For people who truly believe that, such as Palin (and she's stated this clearly in an interview), the morning-after pill is just as bad as a full-out abortion. It prevents the fertilized embryo from attaching to the uterus. My personal belief is that life doesn't start until one is able to survive outside of the mother's body. Since this is an issue that comes down to personal beliefs often the person's religion, I feel that the government should have no say in it. If you don't believe in abortion, don't do it and also teach your kids your thoughts. But don't impede on my right to make decisions about my body and life with the assistance of a docter. In my view it's about the separation of Church and State. And for crying out loud stop attacking Planned Parenthood, in many communities that's the only place offering low-cost ob/gyn exams, low cost birth control, birth control/prevention education, and STD testing. I know a number of people, including myself in college, who went to Planned Parenthood for pelvic exams, etc., that we couldn't otherwise afford.
Agreed 100%. I could say more, but I would just be repeating what you have so eloquently written.
Ok - since someone (besides me) mentioned Rush's name -I want to bring something up.Yeah, he's been listening to RUSH LIMBAUGH! :?
I do have every sympathy with you and other rape victims, I was molested by a friend's brother when I was twelve, and so have *some* idea what you have gone through. I still cannot agree with you on the abortion issue, however. LIke Ladybug said, that is what the morning after pill was created for. For most people, there is also the option to adopt.
Around here, it can be difficult to get the morning after pill. Some pharmicists won't sell it; some will refer a customer to another pharmicist, others won't even do that. (I really thing that is a case of someone forcing their religious beliefs on me. If they are not willing or able to perform the job, they should get a different job.) It is only effective if taken within 72 hours of intercourse. So if someone has unprotected sex on a Friday night (consensual or not), between the weekend and unhelpful pharmicists, it may not be effective by the time the girl gets it. Or, if someone's raped and in a mental state that doesn't allow her to get herself together and to a doctor/pharmacy within the time frame, she's just out of luck.
Anyway, the fact is that the morning after pill just isn't always an option, even if a person's personal beliefs allow them to use that.
As far as adoption, I don't think that's always a solution. Pregnancy puts a huge strain on a woman, emotionally and physically. I know I would have absolutely no way of coming up with the money for all the health-related expenses of pregnancy; exams, vitamins, the delivery, maternity clothes, missed work, I don't even know what else. Again, it is unfair to force someone else to go through all of that, *especially* if the pregnancy is the product of rape/incest.
I don't have any sympathy for people who get pregnant through consensual sex, though. Birth control is cheap and very easy to get ahold of now, and if you don't feel like using it, well then.
I don't like people who use abortion as a birth control method. Birth control is relatively cheap and easy to get. However, mistakes do happen. Plain and simple. If my birth control were to fail, no one has the right to tell me what to do. Not my mom, not some crusty old man in Washington. (I have started to suggest to my husband that, since we definately don't want kids, he should get a vasectomy, just to try to increase our odds of not getting pregnant. He's not very receptive to getting "that" operation, which I find ridiculous. Another obstacle in this whole issue is that men just don't hold up their end.)
I see where you're coming from - but all I can say is that I'm glad my birthmom AND her family didn't consider abortion even an option to be discussed when she was abused for the last time - at the age of 13.Again, it is unfair to force someone else to go through all of that, *especially* if the pregnancy is the product of rape/incest.
TinysMom wrote: BethM wrote: Again, it is unfair to force someone else to go through all of that, *especially* if the pregnancy is the product of rape/incest. I see where you're coming from - but all I can say is that I'm glad my birthmom AND her family didn't consider abortion even an option to be discussed when she was abused for the last time - at the age of 13. When I found her as an adult and talked to her (and her family) and were reunited with them - it was a beautiful thing and she is just an awesome person.
I don't want to come across as someone who is out promoting abortion as the best option. That's not it at all. I just feel that the government and/or churches shouldn't have any legal right to make this decision for people.
I am glad you were able to reconnect with your birth mom. It was the right decision for her, and I applaud people who are emotionally able to make that choice.
Trust me I don't like those people either.I do have every sympathy with you and other rape victims, I was molested by a friend's brother when I was twelve, and so have *some* idea what you have gone through. I still cannot agree with you on the abortion issue, however. LIke Ladybug said, that is what the morning after pill was created for. For most people, there is also the option to adopt.Around here, it can be difficult to get the morning after pill. Some pharmicists won't sell it; some will refer a customer to another pharmicist, others won't even do that. (I really thing that is a case of someone forcing their religious beliefs on me. If they are not willing or able to perform the job, they should get a different job.) It is only effective if taken within 72 hours of intercourse. So if someone has unprotected sex on a Friday night (consensual or not), between the weekend and unhelpful pharmicists, it may not be effective by the time the girl gets it. Or, if someone's raped and in a mental state that doesn't allow her to get herself together and to a doctor/pharmacy within the time frame, she's just out of luck.
Anyway, the fact is that the morning after pill just isn't always an option, even if a person's personal beliefs allow them to use that.
As far as adoption, I don't think that's always a solution. Pregnancy puts a huge strain on a woman, emotionally and physically. I know I would have absolutely no way of coming up with the money for all the health-related expenses of pregnancy; exams, vitamins, the delivery, maternity clothes, missed work, I don't even know what else. Again, it is unfair to force someone else to go through all of that, *especially* if the pregnancy is the product of rape/incest.Yup! Alot of places just won't have that pill. So it is actually not that easy to get. What about the teenager who doesn't speak up? Who tries to act like it didn't happen? She is in denial that it happened. When she has no other option she knows shes pregnant and she wants an abortion. Shouldn't she have a say?I don't have any sympathy for people who get pregnant through consensual sex, though. Birth control is cheap and very easy to get ahold of now, and if you don't feel like using it, well then.I don't like people who use abortion as a birth control method. Birth control is relatively cheap and easy to get. However, mistakes do happen. Plain and simple. If my birth control were to fail, no one has the right to tell me what to do. Not my mom, not some crusty old man in Washington. (I have started to suggest to my husband that, since we definately don't want kids, he should get a vasectomy, just to try to increase our odds of not getting pregnant. He's not very receptive to getting "that" operation, which I find ridiculous. Another obstacle in this whole issue is that men just don't hold up their end.)
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20081030/ap_on_el_pr/mccainObama blended his sharp rhetoric with a more humorous approach as he sought to fend off McCain's charge that his tax policies amount to socialism.
McCain, he said, will soon "be accusing me of being a secret communist because I shared my toys in kindergarten."
I am alittle behind on this but when is the last time we have heard anything along these lines being a threat. We will ALWAYS be at risk from someone.Also in the interview, McCain:
_Acknowledged friction between some of his advisers and Palin's but called it "nonsense" and said his relationship with Palin was fine.
_Said he does not believe Obama is a socialist but that he has been "in the far left of American politics." McCain and Palin have accused Obama of supporting socialistic tax policies that would redistribute the nation's wealth.
_Said he supported the Federal Reserve's half-percent interest rate cut and said the key to spurring the economy will be restoring the housing market.
Earlier in the day, McCain said the country's economic problems will pass but threats against the nation will not â and he said Obama is not up to the task of protecting the United States.
Returning to the issue of national security, seen as McCain's strongest asset before the financial crisis overwhelmed the campaign, McCain stood with former military officers and national security advisers to ask rhetorically whether Obama had the wisdom and judgment to be commander in chief.
"The question is whether this is a man who has what it takes to protect America from Osama bin Laden, al-Qaida and the other great threats in the world," McCain said. "He has given no reason to answer in the affirmative."
McCain also warned of the danger to national security from a Democratic takeover of both the White House and Congress. He predicted deep cuts in defense spending and abandonment of America's role in the world if Democrats run the government.
As far as adoption, I don't think that's always a solution. Pregnancy puts a huge strain on a woman, emotionally and physically. I know I would have absolutely no way of coming up with the money for all the health-related expenses of pregnancy; exams, vitamins, the delivery, maternity clothes, missed work, I don't even know what else. Again, it is unfair to force someone else to go through all of that, *especially* if the pregnancy is the product of rape/incest.
Of course pregnancy (an unwanted one, at any rate) will take a toll on a woman emotionally. But do you think that an abortion wouldn't? That is something that any woman who has an abortion has to live with for the rest of her life, that she made the decision to end the life of her child, however that child's life came about. I would think personally that would be far more scarring than having to spend nine months carrying it to term.
I know there is an emotional toll on a woman who has an abortion. But the point is it should be *her* choice to make.
I think we will be agreeing to disagree on this one. Some people believe it's a child from the moment the egg is fertilized, and I respect their beliefs on that, and the choices they make based on their beliefs. But I don't believe it's a child until it can survive on it's own outside the womb, and I expect others to respect my beliefs and the choices I make based on that belief.
The Constitution calls for a separation of church and state, and I think this issue is one that really pushes that line.
As for the WIC program, I just looked up the income guidelines, and I wouldn't even qualify. Sure, it does help a lot of women, and that would be a great thing for someone who wanted to do adoption. If it were me, though, I wouldn't be able to do that. (Which I find to be really sad, I know I already have trouble sometimes meeting basic expenses, and I know how hard it is for those who make even less.) And even though I have health coverage, I wouldn't be able to afford the co-pays, and if I had to buy prenatal vitamins, it would have to come out of my grocery budget. The time I missed from work would also count against me come next years review.
So, yeah, there are programs out there, but they don't help everyone who needs help. It's like the morning after pill. Sure, it's out there. But it's really not a realistic option for a lot of women.
I think we will be agreeing to disagree on this one. Some people believe it's a child from the moment the egg is fertilized, and I respect their beliefs on that, and the choices they make based on their beliefs. But I don't believe it's a child until it can survive on it's own outside the womb, and I expect others to respect my beliefs and the choices I make based on that belief.
H-m-m-m-m-m, I have some friends whose 'children' are now in their 30's and they are still not surviving on their own outside the womb.