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Becca
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Thanks!My head hurts
NOT ANOTHER VIRUS GRR
Luv-bunniz
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Becca wrote:
Its probably not, was that a virus you had before I am guessing?
My head hurts
NOT ANOTHER VIRUS GRR
Becca
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Well, only the head ache virus, the feeling sick is still there I can't be arsed with that anymore. I just don't like having a headache The headache thing I had before was this thing loads of people were having, headaches for about 5+ weeks!!
That finally went, but yesterday I had a headache and now I've got another one
The headache thing I had before was this thing loads of people were having, headaches for about 5+ weeks!!That finally went, but yesterday I had a headache and now I've got another one
Luv-bunniz
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Oh I see.
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missyscove
Christina - Moderator
Becca,
I know you've gotten a lot of advice on this, but I thought perhaps I could throw my $0.02 in anyway.
I'm 18 years old, I'm midway through my first year of college, I've never had a boyfriend (before you ask, yes, I'm straight), and yet I'm still the happiest I've been in my life so far.
There are certainly others here with a lot more life experience than I've had, but I've been in your shoes, trust me. I remember what it's like to be 13.
How did I make it the last 5 years without a boyfriend and still manage to be happy?
I have really close relationships with my girl friends from high school. I went to an all-girls school and I love every minute of it. I no longer go to school with any of those girls, but they are still my closest friends and while I may not know what the future holds for us, at this point I can't imagine not being friends with some of them.
A number of my friends definitely went through boy crazy stages and personally I found them annoying. I have one friend who seems to disappear off the face of the planet when she finds a boy, then they break up and she comes running back to us.
I read your reasons for why you think you should have a boyfriend, and honestly it makes me sad.
Why?
You're 13 years old, and you seem to think you need a boy to become whole.
I'm a firm believer in strong,independent young women. Women who don't rely on men financially, physically or emotionally. Boys/men may enhance the life of girls/women, but they should not be your life.
Spend your time doing things you really love to do and perhaps you'll eventually find a guy who loves those things too.
You should always put yourself and your friendships first. I've seen too many girls and too many friendships messed up by guys.
Like I said, just my $0.02, something for you to consider.
I know you've gotten a lot of advice on this, but I thought perhaps I could throw my $0.02 in anyway.
I'm 18 years old, I'm midway through my first year of college, I've never had a boyfriend (before you ask, yes, I'm straight), and yet I'm still the happiest I've been in my life so far.
There are certainly others here with a lot more life experience than I've had, but I've been in your shoes, trust me. I remember what it's like to be 13.
How did I make it the last 5 years without a boyfriend and still manage to be happy?
I have really close relationships with my girl friends from high school. I went to an all-girls school and I love every minute of it. I no longer go to school with any of those girls, but they are still my closest friends and while I may not know what the future holds for us, at this point I can't imagine not being friends with some of them.
A number of my friends definitely went through boy crazy stages and personally I found them annoying. I have one friend who seems to disappear off the face of the planet when she finds a boy, then they break up and she comes running back to us.
I read your reasons for why you think you should have a boyfriend, and honestly it makes me sad.
Why?
You're 13 years old, and you seem to think you need a boy to become whole.
I'm a firm believer in strong,independent young women. Women who don't rely on men financially, physically or emotionally. Boys/men may enhance the life of girls/women, but they should not be your life.
Spend your time doing things you really love to do and perhaps you'll eventually find a guy who loves those things too.
You should always put yourself and your friendships first. I've seen too many girls and too many friendships messed up by guys.
Like I said, just my $0.02, something for you to consider.
JadeIcing
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Thats it missycove you are my new best friend. I could not have said it better.
missyscove
Christina - Moderator
JadeIcing wrote:
I have a lot of close friends, friends I really trust, but I never put one ahead of the others because I've found that that also causes a lot of problems and hurt feelings.
I guess in the end it comes down to putting yourself first.
I don't know if you're at all religious, but the Christian concept of loving your neighbor as yourself, which requires you to love yourself first, is one that also plays a big part in my life.
Lol, thanks but I should also mention that I don't use the word "best friend"
I have a lot of close friends, friends I really trust, but I never put one ahead of the others because I've found that that also causes a lot of problems and hurt feelings.
I guess in the end it comes down to putting yourself first.
I don't know if you're at all religious, but the Christian concept of loving your neighbor as yourself, which requires you to love yourself first, is one that also plays a big part in my life.
MyLOVEABLES!!
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hey becca i know im younger than you and all but i htink being single is better cuz then you can just flirt with any guys you want
+ i need to tell you something about Jason over msn
I hope all goes well
x
+ i need to tell you something about Jason over msn
I hope all goes well
x
Becca
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LOl Prisca I flirt anyway :|
We're harldy ever on MSN at the same time because of the time difference can't you PM me?
And missycove thanks for taking your time to write all that out for me! I read it all
Though I get along better with boys than girls, even though I've been best mates with my bestie for about 10 years I seem to have more fun with boys. But I'm not classed as a 'cool' person at school, basically a geek which I am definely not!! So the only guys interested in me are the geeks and YUK!
Today was so fun, we were watching the boys play football and the ball kept going over the fence and no one would go get it so I went and got it like 6 times, It was really awesome because I guess I'm just an attention seeker I like to be the centre which isn't always the nicest thing and I try not to be b**chy about it, thats just who I am! I like performing and being a drama queen!
But today was awesome because the guys were looking at ME! It was a really good feeling... Guess I just liked to be paid attention to after 6+ years of being called the 'quiet geeky girl'
We're harldy ever on MSN at the same time because of the time difference can't you PM me?
And missycove thanks for taking your time to write all that out for me! I read it all
Though I get along better with boys than girls, even though I've been best mates with my bestie for about 10 years I seem to have more fun with boys. But I'm not classed as a 'cool' person at school, basically a geek which I am definely not!! So the only guys interested in me are the geeks and YUK!
Today was so fun, we were watching the boys play football and the ball kept going over the fence and no one would go get it so I went and got it like 6 times, It was really awesome because I guess I'm just an attention seeker I like to be the centre which isn't always the nicest thing and I try not to be b**chy about it, thats just who I am! I like performing and being a drama queen!
But today was awesome because the guys were looking at ME! It was a really good feeling... Guess I just liked to be paid attention to after 6+ years of being called the 'quiet geeky girl'
Becca
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I can't stop thinking about Harry :nerves1
Becca
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Now I don't usually care what people think about me because tbh it isn't their place to say but something has been bugging me so.. Can you look at these 2 pictures and tell me how old I look in both of them, and please PLEASE be totally honest!
Thankies
Thankies
Becca
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No Elena, thats exactly what I wanted Thanks!!!
I'm growing my hair long again after being told my a guy i look like a 10 year old which upset me quiet a lot
Still open to other peoples opinions
Thanks!!!I'm growing my hair long again after being told my a guy i look like a 10 year old which upset me quiet a lot
Still open to other peoples opinions
Becca
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Haha, I wish my hair grew faster
BUNNIES UPDATE:
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Dippy is still sulking bless him although Benjamin's temperament has improved! He is no longer rushing to get away from my hands; he is still a bit wary though. But I have figured something out. Whatever bun that is in the cage on the floor gets scared because I am obviously bigger than them and seem more as a threat than 'Mummy' It's a shame really because I don't want Dippy to hate me But he needs to be neutered before he goes into a clean cage. Otherwise he will spray in it and ruin the wood
BUNNIES UPDATE:
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Dippy is still sulking bless him although Benjamin's temperament has improved! He is no longer rushing to get away from my hands; he is still a bit wary though. But I have figured something out. Whatever bun that is in the cage on the floor gets scared because I am obviously bigger than them and seem more as a threat than 'Mummy' It's a shame really because I don't want Dippy to hate me
But he needs to be neutered before he goes into a clean cage. Otherwise he will spray in it and ruin the wood
JadeIcing
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To me you look older with the short hair. To me long hair makes people look so much younger. It's why I like my hair short now!
Becca
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OMG- This 17 year old is proper flirting with me!!! :|
