What should I do .. ?

[kirsterz09]

why what happerend?:hug2:

 

[Brandy456]

I woke up to a text ;
Goodmorning B****

then I texted back 'huh'
and he wrote
*i has to go look for it... one sec *
haha you're funny B**** in your dreams your not worth my time and waste of my lfe when I can be finding some hot fine girl worth my time

Random
But it hurt
I cried all morning.

 

[irishbunny]

My friend was going out with an idiot like that before, it was only the other day he said something weird to her like that, can't remember exactly what it was though.

Least you know not to waste your time on guys like him anymore

 

[Brandy456]

:tears2:

The worst part is,

I knew better then to keep talking to him..

but I did it anyways.

 

[kirsterz09]

Brandy456 wrote:

:tears2:

The worst part is,

I knew better then to keep talking to him..

but I did it anyways.

so did I, but it's one of those things where you do it anyway, all you can do is move on and learn from it, he'll get what he deserves for his actions someday.
Here's a big hug for you:hug: as, what he said wasn't very nice!

 

[Brandy456]

Thanks

 

[Blaze_Amita]

:hug::hug::hug:

My PM box is open, or yahoo messaging (shalkanssedonia) or AIM (BlazesGirl01) if you want to talk.
I will do what ever I can to help. I do know what you are going through physically(the dealing with men). I've had 8 loser boyfriends, each one ended up worse than the one before. I also help my BFF with all of her problems. I've got a good ear and I'll listen and try to help.

Hang in there.

 

[DeniseJP]

TinysMom wrote:

My personal opinion as a parent - is that 15 is to young for "that type" of relationship. True - I know many are "active" at that age - but honestly - you have so many other wonderful things to enjoy - save "that type" of relationship for when you're older and have found the right person. When Art & I were married - he was the first one I'd been with and I was haunted by the thoughts of other girls he might compare me too - especially since they were more experienced than him (there were only two others) and it really hurt our relationship a lot.

Also - if he's cheated on you once at this age - chances are - he'll do it again.

Be friends...yes. But not anything more unless you want your heart broken.

In addition - if you do want "that kind" of a relationship - make sure to protect yourself and get birth control and make sure to use other protection in addition - largely because of diseases you can get once you become active (especially if he's been with other girls).

Just my .02 - as a mom.

Excellent advice and I second it as a mom. I also walked the walk and talked the talk back in my day- did not "sample the wares out there" as a serious relationship just seemed too intense with too much drama. Had one serious BF when I was 20 and he became my hubby... 21 years now.

There are many nice young men out there... don't settle for one that cheats just to "have a boyfriend." As the old saying goes, tigers don't change their stripes.

Denise

 

[anneq]

I am sorry this had to happen Brandy...as you now know, there are some real losers out there - the upside is there ARE some great young men out there that know how to treat a girl right - it's just a matter of being patient and focusing on other important aspects of your life until that special one comes along. I don't mean to sound cavalier about your situation, but this kind of experience is a 'live and learn' kind of deal - as long as you learned what you needed to, you'll be doing good. He was just the guy that had to teach you that hard piece of truth.

Again, sorry he was such a SoB

/hugs

p.s. What comes around, goes around

 

[bunniekrissy]

Any guy who pressures you to have sex before you are ready is not worth your time. Maybe he is a good guy and he'll be more mature and respectful in a few years, but how he's acting now is unacceptable, and I urge you to be very cautious. 15 is much too young to have sex anyway, in my opinion.

 

[bunniekrissy]

Oops, I didn't realize this was an old post. Sorry.

 

[DeniseJP]

SnowyShiloh wrote:

Brandy! Don't do it! He does sound like a jerk. A jerk who's pretending to be nice. I agree with others who say that if he cheated on you once, he'll do it again. Also, you said that you were so happy when you were with him... I firmly believe that you need to be completely happy with yourself before you start dating someone. You can't look for happiness from someone else, it has to come from within. Also, I can't stress this enough, but if you do have sex with him, USE CONDOMS. Do not listen to what he says. It doesn't matter if you're already taking birth control pills because birth control pills don't protect against STDs. Plus, a lot of people aren't super religious about taking their pills at the same time every day (especially young people) and one mistake could get you pregnant.

And, sadly, the Pill is not 100% foolproof. I found out the hard way - got pregnant at 23 and lost the baby prior to being married. Talk about hard drama... Found out after the fact I could not take the Pill at the dose prescribed and at the higher dose, ended up with high blood pressure and with other complications (fibrocystic breast disease, diabetes, family history of heart disease and cancer), cannot take any pill at all due to the cancer risk.

No guy is worth it. You are worth so much more, please, pleaserethink this. This character may be talking sweet to get you to where he wants you but he's a 17 year old, a kid himself looking to satisfy his own agenda. You have a whole life ahead of you... and there are nice guys out there... 15 is a tough age but you will get through it. My nieces are coming up on this age and my sons went through it and it was Hell for them and me.

Hugs -

Denise