Thank you guys so much for the posts and information!
I spent most of the evening giving him simethicone. He seems to love how it tastes but wants to fight me every step of the way, haha. After an hour of failed burritos, I finally flipped him on his back in my lap and massaged his belly for a little while. He seemed to like it and went into the bunny trance. I decided since no other method was working for us, I'd try to slowly drop a drop at a time on the front of his mouth. I was rewarded by him licking it off his lips. :3 He took most of the 1ml like this, some of it got smeared when he freaked out the first time so a little went to waste. Not bad, though!
However, I do have one thing to mark off my bucket list now. The first time I tried to drop a lot into his mouth through the gap behind his teeth while he was flipped, he peed ALL OVER me, haha. The whole front of my shirt was wet, he was wet, and he SOMEHOW peed upward and to the left on my upper arm furthest from him. He's nothing if not talented, it seems!
He's been nibbling more, though is still a little "meh". Even if its just pellets (he has lots of hay, he just hasn't gotten interested in it yet, it seems...), I'm grateful he's eating at all. If I can get him eager enough to eat and his poops kinda get sorted out, I'll be ecstatic. This little guy has worried me so much!! I haven't been sleeping well due to nightmares and I have a stress headache all the time. It'll be a huge relief in every measure of the word when he's better. I nearly started crying when he started eating a couple pellets this evening! Last night I was almost sure he wasn't going to make it. But now I think he's fighting the stasis.
As long as he's willing to fight, so am I.
Also I've seen on a lot of things that they suggest vanilla extract, apple juice, etc to encourage water intake. Is he too young to do that with? I assume he is because I haven't even started him on veggies (will be soon for extra fiber since he seems to abhor hay, hoping a switch to alfalfa will help that too) but I wanted to know anyways. I'm just worried he's not getting enough or something. Might even help if I could mix some of the simethicone up with apple juice - though he seems to like the medicine. Its the dropper that terrifies him LOL. I tried boiling some water and dipping the tip in it so it was warm to the touch as compared to cold, but that didn't give it many brownie points in his book...
And I think the heat caused his stasis, too. Heidi is fine so I'm pretty sure its not coccidia. Since I fed them both at the same time, she would have come down with it, too, and he'd have gotten sick much sooner. I was worried about that diagnosis this morning... I also don't think the clovers did it but I'm still going to cut them out until he's doing 110% better. He's gotten pretty bonded to me over the past couple days so I don't think the treat is needed much now anyways. xP I'll start him on some cilantro after he's feeling better and see where that takes us.
Might start banana after that so I can have something he will hopefully like to fall back on when medicating gets difficult.
Again, thank you all so much thus far. I'm sorry if I ask so many questions and am generally annoying. Updating this thread kinda keeps me sane, haha. All my waking hours are going to this little guy; if I'm not directly touching him, my ears are perked for hearing him eating/chewing/moving around.
