JadeIcing
Currently I have here.... 12 rabbits, 3 gps, 2 reptiles and the dog.
And she does a TON on the forum and manages to also stay personally connected to EVERYBODY. Ali is such an over-achiever.
Me? I'm definitely an underachiever.
My place is a mess and I flake out on everybody all the time.
But it only really bothers me when it bothers other people. If somebody comes over and looks at my place like their sucking lemons, I'm feeling bad that I'm not living up to their standards.
But then I look at the bunnies and remember that I'm living up to THEIR standards, thank you. And honestly that's what I really care about. I don't care about spreading joy to Martha Stewart clones, I care about giving those who don't have a say in life a little joy.
I do find that bonding bunnies really has been the ticket. It doesn't matter how many bunnies you have, it's how many cages.
I had six bunnies in four cages. I was doing okay until I got the two new Flemish. I really was in no position to take them in, but not to do so would have cost them their lives, so no choice there.
While they were in the same cage, it was an extra burden -- they're big, and they're still babies, and that means big poops, more pee, more food.
And then they turned out to both be boys. I had to build another pen, put out another place/bowl/water dish to tend to daily.
I had eight bunnies in six pens, including one outside on the front porch.
And I was having eye surgery and had two new roommates who were/are total slugs with no interest in the rabbits, I had/have zero help, making everything that much harder.
I was overwhelmed. Then Radar died, partly because I was overwhelmed. He was in the roommates area, they were supposed to watch him (part of the rental agreement), they didn't, and I didn't catch it in time.
So then I had seven bunnies in six pens. It got harder because I needed to do more to entertain Darry, Radar's widow, who I had moved to the living room. Juggling out time was another pain.
Then I bonded Darry with my single boy, Mister, and suddenly things got easier again. I have seven bunnies in five pens. It really made a difference.
Now if I can just re-bond the Flemish boys...
When I am feeling overwhelmed, though, I just need Mister or Sherry or Pipp to come running over for pets, or or I remember the horrible place where Darry came from... or I watch the Flemmies trying to binky... or Marvin... being Marvin -- and it all goes away.
sas :bunnydance: