Thanks everyone...
My Mom is somewhat better but needs a lot of physio to get back on her feet, so I've had to spend a lot of time at the hospital, which is an hour commute.
Pipp is still 'off', but she's not in any pain and she hasn't lost a ton of weight, so we're still just continuing the battle of the wills.
She will finish her carrot (ungrated now), and she eats her kale -- just a lot slower than usual. But Metacam doesn't make a difference, so I'm pretty sure she's still just being stubborn and holding out for the oats and pellets and fruit.
Some days are better than others, some veggies better than others.
She may disagree, but I don't think I'm killing her.
And believe me, her 'health issues' are self-imposed! She won't touch hay, grass or anything good for her, and she folds at the slightest discomfort. (You can't even pluck loose hair from her without her acting like you're murdering her).
She'd be healthy as a little horse, otherwise!
Thanks again for the good wishes.
sas and pipp :duel