Bo B Bunny
Well-Known Member
I can't really say a lot on the main forum because I know some people might read this board who know the people I am talking about. So I need to just tell you all....
Today I found out from my father inlaw that my sister inlaw found a lump under her arm - she just got the port out of her chest for chemo. She has a very bad form of breast cancer. They did a mastectomy and reconstruction in October. They told her this type of cancer is high in recurrance and that her margins weren't clear in the first surgery (lumpectomy) earlier in the summer. She's a high risk. This cancer comes back in the lungs or liver or something usually.
So they did a catscan on the lump - while they were doing it, they found more lumps in her neck (lymph nodes most likely- cancer - maybe)
This is the same type of cancer that a friend of ours had 3 years ago. She's a mom of one of my daughter's friends from her old school, too. They did cheerleading together and we both had farm animals and australian shepherds - they just got theirs and asked us all about them and stuff. It was fun for all of us.
Well, this gal had the cancer come back in the liver last year. Liver cancer is ..... bad.
My sister inlaw called me tonight to tell me that the gal had died today. :tears2: She's my age. Her oldest child is Lexi's age.
I couldn't even ask my SIL about the lumps because I wasn't supposed to know (she's funny about stuff - until she knows for sure she won't tell anyone outside of her parents)..... but my FIL told me when he took me to p/u my truck.
I'm really down..... I can't believe this gal is gone. She was so much fun at a function we worked together about 2 years ago. She was through the chemo and her hair was coming back - she looked so cute with it so short.
This morning I was down because I had to shell out $1900 for the transmission on my truck. My van will be picked up tomorrow or monday by the salvage yard.
That stuff is nothing compared to what this evening brought.
Today I found out from my father inlaw that my sister inlaw found a lump under her arm - she just got the port out of her chest for chemo. She has a very bad form of breast cancer. They did a mastectomy and reconstruction in October. They told her this type of cancer is high in recurrance and that her margins weren't clear in the first surgery (lumpectomy) earlier in the summer. She's a high risk. This cancer comes back in the lungs or liver or something usually.
So they did a catscan on the lump - while they were doing it, they found more lumps in her neck (lymph nodes most likely- cancer - maybe)
This is the same type of cancer that a friend of ours had 3 years ago. She's a mom of one of my daughter's friends from her old school, too. They did cheerleading together and we both had farm animals and australian shepherds - they just got theirs and asked us all about them and stuff. It was fun for all of us.
Well, this gal had the cancer come back in the liver last year. Liver cancer is ..... bad.
My sister inlaw called me tonight to tell me that the gal had died today. :tears2: She's my age. Her oldest child is Lexi's age.
I couldn't even ask my SIL about the lumps because I wasn't supposed to know (she's funny about stuff - until she knows for sure she won't tell anyone outside of her parents)..... but my FIL told me when he took me to p/u my truck.
I'm really down..... I can't believe this gal is gone. She was so much fun at a function we worked together about 2 years ago. She was through the chemo and her hair was coming back - she looked so cute with it so short.
This morning I was down because I had to shell out $1900 for the transmission on my truck. My van will be picked up tomorrow or monday by the salvage yard.
That stuff is nothing compared to what this evening brought.
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