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Morgan
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This might not be pretty and might not be the place for it, but I'm about to lose my mind! Lately I've been in an "I hate everyone kind of mood". Yeah, apparently I suffer from CBS(constant b**ch syndrome).
I think its because of my in-laws, well, more directly my sister in law.
First I should start out and say that my FIL is completely insane. Like clinically insane, should be committed, insane. I can't stand him. He is a horrible human being, hes rude and loud and mean. He constantly calls us, but when he calls; he calls 30 times in a row until finally one of us answers or he leaves a really nasty message. He will alternate who he calls, he'll call my husband then me; then back and forth he goes for like an hour. I just want to rip my hair out!
That is the back story. He had a mental break down a few months ago and we were stuck holding the bag on that one. This is where we get to my SIL.
She is now 27, jobless and living with my MIL in Chicago. She doesn't try to find a job because she is always on the computer playing World of Warcraft, the computer weird game. My MIL said she is having a hard time finding a job because she is "unhappy with her personal life" I told my MIL that it was probably because she was FREAK WHO NEVER GETS OFF THE DAMN COMPUTER!
Okay, when my FIL had his breakdown, my SIL REFUSED to come down here and help him. She REFUSED to come and stay with him for a little while. She REFUSED to move down here and let him move to Chicago for a change of scenery and to be with my MIL more. And my MIL ALLOWED THAT TO HAPPEN! So what did that mean for us? I'm having to cook that crazy man meals, we're going over there several times a week, disrupting our own lives to make sure he is okay. All because my SIL doesn't want to move down here. My husband finally asked my mom what the hell she had going on up in Chicago to not let her move down here, my MIL said nothing. "She just doesn't like to live in the country." I said to her, "what does it matter where she lives? She never leaves the house anyway. Or even goes outside for that matter. She only knows it cold out because of the date!"
Now, its a few months later and she IS down here. My MIL is has finally had enough I think and has finally made her come down here. They drove down the day before Thanksgiving and my SIL is staying until Christmas. My in-laws left for Chicago this morning, until the 20th.
Anyway, we've been going over there since my MIL has been in town more than usual, so she can see my son. My SIL has been in the office every single time we go over there, she's playing that damn game! She doesn't even say hello, she doesn't say anything to us. And when we say something to her, like to ask her if she wants food or anything she snaps at us! She is so rude. I just can't handle it. Because I would like to jerk a knot in her ass.
What I really don't understand is why my MIL allows this to happen. This is part of the reason that I really don't like her. She is what I call "quietly crazy", meaning she doesn't appear crazy on the outside. She is well put together, has a great job, is attractive. But you peek into her home life and you're shocked at the dysfunction.
I just don't know why she doesn't exercise some control since she is the one who pays all the bills, my SIL's included. It makes no sense to me and her behavior and lack of interest or care about what really goes on when she's not there is what tells me she is insane too.
All I know is, my SIL should be glad that I'm not her mother, I have zero patience for those kinds of shenanigans.
Ughhh, I'm done now. I've taken up too much space now. I just can't help it! I'm so irritated.
Now for some Foo updates! Here are some pictures that I took of Foo this morning. She is not a show rabbit and doesn't know how to pose! hahaha. But I think they're pretty cute!
The pink bow, is my headband. It happened to be on top of my dryer, so I stuck it on her. lol.
This might not be pretty and might not be the place for it, but I'm about to lose my mind! Lately I've been in an "I hate everyone kind of mood". Yeah, apparently I suffer from CBS(constant b**ch syndrome).
I think its because of my in-laws, well, more directly my sister in law.
First I should start out and say that my FIL is completely insane. Like clinically insane, should be committed, insane. I can't stand him. He is a horrible human being, hes rude and loud and mean. He constantly calls us, but when he calls; he calls 30 times in a row until finally one of us answers or he leaves a really nasty message. He will alternate who he calls, he'll call my husband then me; then back and forth he goes for like an hour. I just want to rip my hair out!
That is the back story. He had a mental break down a few months ago and we were stuck holding the bag on that one. This is where we get to my SIL.
She is now 27, jobless and living with my MIL in Chicago. She doesn't try to find a job because she is always on the computer playing World of Warcraft, the computer weird game. My MIL said she is having a hard time finding a job because she is "unhappy with her personal life" I told my MIL that it was probably because she was FREAK WHO NEVER GETS OFF THE DAMN COMPUTER!
Okay, when my FIL had his breakdown, my SIL REFUSED to come down here and help him. She REFUSED to come and stay with him for a little while. She REFUSED to move down here and let him move to Chicago for a change of scenery and to be with my MIL more. And my MIL ALLOWED THAT TO HAPPEN! So what did that mean for us? I'm having to cook that crazy man meals, we're going over there several times a week, disrupting our own lives to make sure he is okay. All because my SIL doesn't want to move down here. My husband finally asked my mom what the hell she had going on up in Chicago to not let her move down here, my MIL said nothing. "She just doesn't like to live in the country." I said to her, "what does it matter where she lives? She never leaves the house anyway. Or even goes outside for that matter. She only knows it cold out because of the date!"
Now, its a few months later and she IS down here. My MIL is has finally had enough I think and has finally made her come down here. They drove down the day before Thanksgiving and my SIL is staying until Christmas. My in-laws left for Chicago this morning, until the 20th.
Anyway, we've been going over there since my MIL has been in town more than usual, so she can see my son. My SIL has been in the office every single time we go over there, she's playing that damn game! She doesn't even say hello, she doesn't say anything to us. And when we say something to her, like to ask her if she wants food or anything she snaps at us! She is so rude. I just can't handle it. Because I would like to jerk a knot in her ass.
What I really don't understand is why my MIL allows this to happen. This is part of the reason that I really don't like her. She is what I call "quietly crazy", meaning she doesn't appear crazy on the outside. She is well put together, has a great job, is attractive. But you peek into her home life and you're shocked at the dysfunction.
I just don't know why she doesn't exercise some control since she is the one who pays all the bills, my SIL's included. It makes no sense to me and her behavior and lack of interest or care about what really goes on when she's not there is what tells me she is insane too.
All I know is, my SIL should be glad that I'm not her mother, I have zero patience for those kinds of shenanigans.
Ughhh, I'm done now. I've taken up too much space now. I just can't help it! I'm so irritated.
Now for some Foo updates! Here are some pictures that I took of Foo this morning. She is not a show rabbit and doesn't know how to pose! hahaha. But I think they're pretty cute!
The pink bow, is my headband. It happened to be on top of my dryer, so I stuck it on her. lol.
, but I tend to have the kind of personality that can easily become addicted to things, which is why I purposely avoid those kind of games. The other reason she does it could be a kind of escape from things in her life that she doesn't know how to deal with or handle, so the game kind of becomes a distraction so she doesn't have to dwell on or think about those other things. But of course, I don't know her, so these are just guesses. Maybe she needs counseling.
