Thanks everyone for the positive thoughts and replies! She seems to be doing okay. The vet didn't want to renew her Metacam or the anti-biotic that she's on. I still have some Baytril though. I am giving her gravol to help with her feeling sick.
Every hour or so I go into the room and pick her up and give her some water from the bottle (they normally drink from a bowl) and she gets Critical Care three times a day. I have seen her eating herbs on her own. Dunno about hay.
This isn't really the best picture of her but it's kind of how she has been spending her time recently.
Paterson is the German lop beside her. He sometimes seems to sense that something is going on. You can see where he has been shredding the pool noodles that I am using to pad the sides of the cage. Once she started rolling I had to put blankets on the floor because it sounded like she was hurting herself when she was flopping around.
She seems able to move herself around the cage too. There's a few spots that she really likes being in and I find her around them all the time. Mostly the places where it will be hardest for me to grab her and give her the meds.
The last day or so I have noticed an increase in her drinking and eating. I don't know if it is because she's feeling better / getting used to what's going on or because I am sitting with her longer so she feels more comfortable or because we are finding better angles. Whatever it is, I see it as a positive thing and like it.
Basically: it is getting easier for all of us to deal with this. She is still strong and feisty and seems to be more "present".
But really thank you to everyone on this board. I really wish that vets in my area had more knowledge about all of this but am so glad that I was able to find a group of people so knowledgable and supportive!
here's a picture of her from better days: