AshAndMaple
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This might be a really daft question, but I'm wondering if there are times when intact males are calmer and times when they're hornier? Do they have cycles?
My male Ash is generally quite calm and laid-back but I definitely notice he has times when he's more hormonal. Today for instance, he's been grunting all day, trying to follow his sister (there's a barrier between them), and when I had him on my lap and she jumped onto my chair to join us, he was instantly aroused, I picked him up so he couldn't follow her (she jumped off after a few seconds) and his ***** was fully extended and erect.
It's a long story, but Maple is spayed and Ash is intact. I've spoken to multiple vets and they don't recommend neutering Ash as he suffered a reaction to anaesthetic, but instead they believe I should try to bond him with Maple and see if they can get along without him undergoing a high-risk operation. I'm wondering if there are better times for me to try to bond them as I've had times when they've both been cuddling and grooming each other on my lap for 15minutes or so with no issues, and then times like today where Ash immediately goes crazy.
Honestly any information about how I could reduce Ash's hormonal responses to Maple would be appreciated! I have a bottle of pet remedy spray which I haven't tried yet but I don't think any amount of it is going to override his hormones!
My male Ash is generally quite calm and laid-back but I definitely notice he has times when he's more hormonal. Today for instance, he's been grunting all day, trying to follow his sister (there's a barrier between them), and when I had him on my lap and she jumped onto my chair to join us, he was instantly aroused, I picked him up so he couldn't follow her (she jumped off after a few seconds) and his ***** was fully extended and erect.
It's a long story, but Maple is spayed and Ash is intact. I've spoken to multiple vets and they don't recommend neutering Ash as he suffered a reaction to anaesthetic, but instead they believe I should try to bond him with Maple and see if they can get along without him undergoing a high-risk operation. I'm wondering if there are better times for me to try to bond them as I've had times when they've both been cuddling and grooming each other on my lap for 15minutes or so with no issues, and then times like today where Ash immediately goes crazy.
Honestly any information about how I could reduce Ash's hormonal responses to Maple would be appreciated! I have a bottle of pet remedy spray which I haven't tried yet but I don't think any amount of it is going to override his hormones!