Katielovesleo3
Katie
Katie, I am so sorry to hear that something like this has happened to you, and I'm not sure really what to say, but I do have to tell you a little story on my end.. or maybe a kind of long story, sorry.. I am hoping it may help a little, but it might not. My boyfriend I am with right now, he was my first sexual partner. I didn't go to a gyno before him, we started having sex and I decided to go to the gyno to get my birth control, etc. The first year of course I came back all clean, which means he was also clean. THEN, the second year it came back as me having HPV.... so I was in the same boat. Like WHAT the ??? Where did that come from!? DID HE CHEAT! UGH!!! Also wouldn't be dormant either, I was so pissed and upset.. and I actually can't even remember how I got over it, but I did...
Then the next year after that I came back clean again, and have ever since. What I don't understand is.... it doesn't just GO away, so I think there was a mistake with the testing, or I got a false positive, etc.
I realize it's two different things and two different situations, but maybe this helps a little?
It's really hard to give your heart and soul to someone, and to trust them completely. I am very very glad Mike doesn't go to the bars very often, or to parties, and he is not a strip club type of guy... I wouldn't be able to handle it, I'd probably go insane. It's really really hard to trust someone 100%... I do trust my boyfriend, but I can't say I trust him 100%. I don't trust ANYONE 100%.. with great reason. Boys suck and I really truly hope that Leo didn't do anything and that he's being completely honest when he says he didn't... and if he DID do something I really hope he'll come out and just admit it to you.
My mom was diagnosed with HPV and it can be dormant for a long time, it will be with you forever, sometimes it is more wild than other times and your doctor will let you know. My mom, she had to get a biopsy of her cervix to make sure it was not cancerous and it wasn't. Now when she went this year, it was dormant and it didn't show up. I believe it can be passed to the child during childbirth as well, I forgot, it's been a while since I researched for her.