Barbie_Buddha
New Member
So I’m having some trouble making a decision. Originally I wanted to rescue because I grew up in a family where this was a huge value about animals. However, my first rabbit who passed a few years ago I got as a baby from a 4H breeder back when I lived in a 4H state, and I loved raising her, it was so rewarding. To clarify, I was an adult, the breeder was just typically breeding for 4H.
I decided I did want babies because I was really looking forward to the bonding process and their early health needs, as well as watching them grow which was so rewarding to me the first time. I really wanted to find someone I felt good about, cage free or very minimized cage use at home, not breeding bizarre traits outside the breed standard like blue eyes, not caring more about the color than the form, policy of letting people return rabbits to them no questions asked, etc. (I’m very sorry if I offend anyone, this is just my personal view.) Found someone 5 hours away who met my criteria and has been wonderful to talk to, I really respect her passion, this is all she does! We even had a great conversation about rescuing, she rescues all her dogs but feels rabbits can be bred and cared for in their first two months for gentility and to be less fearful so they can be happier and make good emotional support animals. I’m set to pick up the babes in November and am very excited.
Today I took a peek at Petfinder and saw a two year old pair that I would be interested in. So now I’m very conflicted. This would be much less expensive (though I’m not taking a major hit or anything with the babies for me,) and of course I’d be taking rabbits from someone who needs to be rid of them due to allergies. But it’s also a tad devastating not to get to watch them grow or go through the bonding process. I really like that kind of thing, I used to be in aquarium mammal husbandry. I’m caught at wanting to wait for the babies and get to do the stuff I won’t have the opportunity to do for another (hopefully) 12 years, but feeling like I SHOULD morally rescue these rabbits. I know most people will encourage doing the rescue, and I get that, but I’m struggling with getting myself to not really want to do all the raising and extra care that comes with babies. How can I let it go? Or should I just stick with the thing I want most given that they’ll be with me for a decade+?
I decided I did want babies because I was really looking forward to the bonding process and their early health needs, as well as watching them grow which was so rewarding to me the first time. I really wanted to find someone I felt good about, cage free or very minimized cage use at home, not breeding bizarre traits outside the breed standard like blue eyes, not caring more about the color than the form, policy of letting people return rabbits to them no questions asked, etc. (I’m very sorry if I offend anyone, this is just my personal view.) Found someone 5 hours away who met my criteria and has been wonderful to talk to, I really respect her passion, this is all she does! We even had a great conversation about rescuing, she rescues all her dogs but feels rabbits can be bred and cared for in their first two months for gentility and to be less fearful so they can be happier and make good emotional support animals. I’m set to pick up the babes in November and am very excited.
Today I took a peek at Petfinder and saw a two year old pair that I would be interested in. So now I’m very conflicted. This would be much less expensive (though I’m not taking a major hit or anything with the babies for me,) and of course I’d be taking rabbits from someone who needs to be rid of them due to allergies. But it’s also a tad devastating not to get to watch them grow or go through the bonding process. I really like that kind of thing, I used to be in aquarium mammal husbandry. I’m caught at wanting to wait for the babies and get to do the stuff I won’t have the opportunity to do for another (hopefully) 12 years, but feeling like I SHOULD morally rescue these rabbits. I know most people will encourage doing the rescue, and I get that, but I’m struggling with getting myself to not really want to do all the raising and extra care that comes with babies. How can I let it go? Or should I just stick with the thing I want most given that they’ll be with me for a decade+?