Bailey (A 2nd chance at life) - 2009

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Round 2 - Bailey goes for midnight emergency surgery

Let me start off with I think I'm a horrible rabbit mom. I feel horrible for letting this happen. I feel just freaking awful. So any responding comments relating to that, I don't want to hear. I'm just going to let yal know how our wonderful night went.

Bailey's wound had been completely healed for a little over a week now. It's fully healed skin, just without fur in that spot. My vet gave me the go-ahead on getting them to bond during supervised playtimes. I started this last weekend. I posted about the success and that I was so excited how well it was going. The first day, Hailey did a couple of light nips at Bailey's back/rump area. A couple squirts of the water bottle at her and it completely went away. No humping, no biting every day after that. In fact, Bailey hadn't done her humping at all since the last injury of getting a bad bite to her genitals. They have been completely supervised, and still caged separately. All I saw had been grooming by both, they would lay side by side, legs to one side, play with their toys near each other, binkies, eat treats together -- It was like good buddies catching up on the times.

Last night was just like the previous nights. They played around in the kitchen, but were a little quiet which I think was related to the rain storm outside. They ate some yoggies and plopped down side by side. It was a little after 11pm, and it was about bed time. Time to clean up, get the rabbits to bed and call it a night. I was standing right there, turned around to dump out the litter box. My eyes were off of them for 1 second.

*squeeel!!*.....Are you freaking kidding me?

I turn around as Bailey is running as far away to the other side of the room. There is a clump of fur on the floor, but no skin this time. I thought maybe just some fur came out and Bailey was startled by it. I calmly said, "Okay guys, play time is over." I go to comfort Bailey and start to feel around her back and rump for any injuries - none. I pick her up to examine her belly - Oh My God.....her side was split on her underside. It was split down and to her inner thigh, kind of like the shape of a wishbone or a "Y". The skin was open, but there was no blood. Actually, her under epidermis was still intact. I didn't even know they had a 2nd skin underneath till last night. It was transparent, so I could still see her muscle and everything, but that thin layer was just holding everything in - no blood. But Bailey is in super pain. Her breathing was crazy and she didn't look good. Maybe if it was way smaller of a cut, I'd wait till morning. But no way, not something this big.

And just like the last injury - this happened on a Wednesday night - the perfect time. Because for some reason the emergency clinic that specializes in rabbits nearby only specializes in rabbits every day of the week except Wednesdays. It was about 11:30 when I got in touch with the Emergency Animal Clinic in Southlake/Grapevine, which is about 40-45 mins away. This E-vet is HIGHLY specialized in rabbits, but just so far. The lady says that the office visit is $97, but after midnight, it goes up to $150. So here we are speeding our way there in the pouring rain.

We get there with 5 mins to spare. But she doesn't get looked at till about 12:30. They immediately take her into surgery. She went under for about 45 mins. They shaved her, clipped the wound, cleaned her out, sewed her up, and put her in an e-collar. I maxed out my credit card to pay for it. They wanted to send me home with Metacam, but I still had plenty from the last injury, so I was able to take that off of the cost.

We got home about 3am. I layed down towels in a clean plastic bottom cage. I set up her litterbox, water bottle and even though I didn't think she would eat, I set up a bowl of veggies, pellets and put a nice pile of hay in the corner. She was really groggy last night from the surgery. I wiped the sleepy watery discharge from her eyes and the saliva under her chin. She just laid there and fell asleep immediately.

And last night, my boyfriend and I had the same discussion that we had after the first injury....maybe Hailey should go back to the SPCA. I had contacted them after the last injury about my rabbits that were supposedly this bonded pair, were not getting along. They told me that if it's not working out, that maybe Hailey is just a one-rabbit gal. So she might need to come back to the shelter to find a new home. Well, we didn't take her back. We thought we'd try this bonding thing again after Bailey healed up. That was last time. And now here I am trying to make this decision again.

When I wanted to adopt a rabbit, it was just one. One cage, one litter box, one little bitty rabbit. Then SPCA told me they are a bonded pair, so I'd still have one cage, one litter box, and twice the love. Now I'm faced with having 2 cages, 2 litterboxes, 2 separate scheduled playtimes (which as been a pain), twice the drama and a maxed out credit card. This is not what I wanted. I'm already a petting zoo with a dog, cat, 2 rats, and 2 rabbits in a small rented town home. One less cage would make it seem like less of a zoo. So I feel so freaking awful thinking about it, but if an animal isn't working out, I think I might take her back. We are going to think about it for a little while and decide. It's just so upsetting because Hailey is such a great rabbit. She's affectionate, she loves to play, does the crazy binkies, so happy, has a great personality....she just snaps so unpredictable at Bailey. I'd hate to take her back, and it makes me feel really awful. I feel like this is all my fault and I did something wrong in taking care of them and dealing with their behavior. I just don't know what to do. But I look at Bailey and I don't want this for her. How did I let this happen to her. I'm kicking myself for it....a lot.

Update on her this morning:

I couldn't believe it, but when I went to see her, her bowl of salad was all gone. Perfect poopies were all over her cage. I guess she can't get into the litter box, but that's okay. And there was a pee spot in the corner. She seemed alert this morning, walking around, eating her breakfast. She has a little bit of trouble eating with the cone in her way. The cone pretty much just pushes her veggies out of the bowl. But once she gets a piece of romaine, she lays in her cone and eats off of it like a plate. She's figuring it out. I just keep picking up her veggies and putting them back into her bowl. She had sleepy stuff around her eyes, so I cleaned it up, but she wouldn't let me get under her chin this morning. So I tried to slide a paper towel between her chin and the cone and let it set there for a couple seconds - that's as much as she'll let me do.

I'll try to get pics later this evening. For right now, I'm just trying to get through a day of work with no sleep.
 
Hi Sharper,

You poor thing! I am so sorry to hear that you are going through all of this right now with these two beautiful girls.

My first inclination is to tell you that Hailey is definitely a single bunny girl and she should go back to the shelter to find a home. How long will they keep her at the shelter? Do they euthanize animals when they've been there too long? That might change my decision, but if you have to keep the girls separate then that will be more work for you!

I have a houseful of rabbits that don't like each other. In fact, we have so many that I had to make up a schedule so we can ensure that every bunny gets the equal amount of run time each week and no one is forgotten. That sounds terrible, but with 2 cats, 3 dogs, 11 bunnies, 2 kids, a husband and a full time job, not to mention working at the bunny shelter, I have to use a schedule or I'm going to lose my mind!:nerves1

I also wanted to mention to you that you should be really careful with the plastic collar that they have put on Bailey. We had a bunny at the shelter that actually had all of the fur worn away around her neck in that spot and then the collar actually began to cut into her skin. It caused an infection and then she had to deal with all of that and taking medicine. Just be very careful!!!

I wish you the best of luck making a terribly hard decision! You're not a terrible bunny mom, by the way! I think you're awesome and you're just having some very bad luck with these two beauties! I wouldn't let them back together now at all though. :)

Take care of yourself and please let us know how you and Bailey are doing!

Laura
 
lilbitsmom wrote:
Hi Sharper,

You poor thing!  I am so sorry to hear that you are going through all of this right now with these two beautiful girls.

My first inclination is to tell you that Hailey is definitely a single bunny girl and she should go back to the shelter to find a home.  How long will they keep her at the shelter?  Do they euthanize animals when they've been there too long?  That might change my decision, but if you have to keep the girls separate then that will be more work for you!

I have a houseful of rabbits that don't like each other.  In fact, we have so many that I had to make up a schedule so we can ensure that every bunny gets the equal amount of run time each week and no one is forgotten.  That sounds terrible, but with 2 cats, 3 dogs, 11 bunnies, 2 kids, a husband and a full time job, not to mention working at the bunny shelter, I have to use a schedule or I'm going to lose my mind!:nerves1

I also wanted to mention to you that you should be really careful with the plastic collar that they have put on Bailey.  We had a bunny at the shelter that actually had all of the fur worn away around her neck in that spot and then the collar actually began to cut into her skin.  It caused an infection and then she had to deal with all of that and taking medicine.  Just be very careful!!!

I wish you the best of luck making a terribly hard decision!  You're not a terrible bunny mom, by the way! I think you're awesome and you're just having some very bad luck with these two beauties!  I wouldn't let them back together now at all though. :)

Take care of yourself and please let us know how you and Bailey are doing!

Laura

Well this is the Texas SPCA and I signed papers saying that I will only return her to the SPCA and no one else. I left a message with them to have a rep call me back to discuss the situation. I'm hoping that maybe they will let a rabbit rescue find the right home for her, rather than her going back into the shelter. And maybe discuss other things like if they euthanize her or perhaps they may not even claim she's adoptable because she seriously injured another animal twice. All of these things I want to seriously discuss with them to make my decision. If I find out she could get euthanized after so many days, or listed as a dangerous animal - I will hope they will let a rabbit rescue take her. But if no options look good for her, I might just have to make the 2 cages work. I realize that 2 cages is nothing because many people on this board have a ton of cages and a ton of rabbits. But that's just not what I signed up for or wanted. I'm inexperienced as far as owning rabbits and I wanted something simple to start with at least. It hasn't been that simple at all. yikes.

The vet told us she seemed really docile and may not need the collar, but that it's a great precaution, which I agree. He did say if we have her in our laps, we can remove the collar. I did this during my lunch break. I sat her in my lap without the collar and just rubbed around her ears and neck to comfort her. I wouldn't want that thing on me either. Luckily, this one has gauze around the plastic that meets her neck, so I'm hoping it's a little more comfortable than just a harsh edge of plastic. I tied it on too loose when I put her in the cage, because she immediately pulled it off and we had to redo it.
 
I was so saddened to see a thread about little Bailey again in the Infirmary. Poor little girl with another emergency visit. This injury sound horrible!!!

I am sorry you need to decide about giving Hailey up. I think Naturestee was right when she said that you are probably bonded more to Bailey because of her injuries and the extra care she needs from you. I find that has happened with my Luna and myself. I don't think anyone could ever try to take her from me without a fight because of all the extra time we have had together and our bond.

Hugs to you and Bailey for these hard times. You are both becoming stronger together and will make it.I am sure Hailey will find a wonderful home, hopefully with a new friend she likes.

:pray:

myheart
 
Bailey's first afternoon with Da Cone

I got home from work to see that Bailey used her collar as a shovel in the litter box. There was poo all over the bottom of it. Poor thing. I told her it was okay if she didn't want to use the litter box for a while and I'll just work extra hard at keeping her cage clean with changing out blankets and everything.

After getting it off, cleaned up, and back on her, i set her down in the play area with her favorite cardboard boxes. Just incase she wanted to stretch her legs a little.

At first, I got some sad faces:
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(the area around her eyes feels like they put vaseline over them or put something in her eyes while she was in surgery. I didn't know they did that, but I'm having trouble wiping it off. I dunno what it is)

then she really broke my heart with these:
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then she started feeling a bit better about being out of the cage
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started creeping closer to check out some cardboard
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"hmm...can I reach it?"
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"I think I'm stuck..."
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then a couple of mini-binkies were a big surprise to me
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"mom, i want this off"
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i can't tell if this is a sweet beg look or a stink eye look.
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But the best part for her was all of the luvins she got
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Or was it the cool piece of cardboard that she found?
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(I know the way to her heart is through cardboard, and nothing else. lol)


And now I get to see her stitches for the first time since the craziness last night. I think last night I just imagined it so big and made it out bigger than what it was. I really thought it went up her belly or her side. But really it's her inner thigh area, but still in the shape of a "Y" pretty close to her last injury that is now healed. I'm sure my freaking out last night really put an image in my brain that she was all sliced up head to toe. I'm glad to see now it's smaller than what I thought. And it seems like the vet did a great job.
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Have to take pictures of what costed me $300, right?
 
Poor little Bailey... That has to be about a dozen stitches keeping that wound closed up. Oh my gosh... I would have freaked if I had seen that!! That was no little nip Hailey handed out. It looks like she may have held on a bit too much as Bailey tried to get away, and the skin ripped.

Poor you having to go through all of this trauma with Bailey. I love all of the new pics you posted. Bailey is so pretty. Best of luck with everything....

myheart
 
Hi there! Just looked at the pictures and am glad to see that her wound is not as big as you had originally thought. The surgical area looks nice and clean! Is she taking any pain meds?

I'm so sorry that you have to deal with the bunnies not getting along! That is so hard and so stressful! You could list her here on this website for adoption or we could list her on petfinder too! That reaches a bigger audience and if I were you I would definitely contact your local rescues to see if you can get her a spot.

If the SPCA says you have to bring her back to them and then they also tell you they can only keep her for a while, I would just say you're going to keep her and then work on your own to rehome her!

If you have the patience for it, you can find another good home for her! I would be happy to help with the petfinder profile and see if you can get some interest in her!

She's a beautiful rabbit but I think she just needs to be a single girl or with a male bunny to really be happy! I'm sure Bailey will be much happier without her around and then you can continue to bond with Bailey and not have to worry about her getting beat up again!

Take it easy and let me know if you need help with petfinder! It really is a great tool for rehoming!

Laura






 
For pain, she takes 3 drops of metacam once a day till her stitches come out

Since I haven't been able to really get ahold of the SPCA through the phone and can't have anyone call me back, I'm just going to go up there tomorrow. I'd just like to talk to them to see what the options are. I'm really confident in their rabbit care. they had a whole room for rabbits in huge cages, and seemed like everyone is well taken care of. I'm sure she would do well there, but based on what she has done, they may say she's unadoptable or just too dangerous. If they think that, then I'll just go my own route of finding her a home, for sure.

There is the North Texas Rabbit Sanctuary here, but their website says they are currently at capacity and not taking any surrenders. But I went ahead and shot them an email anyway to tell them the situation and see what they say. Hopefully I'll get a response pretty soon.

And petfinder sounds like another great idea! I'll definitely keep that in mind!
 
sharper wrote:
For pain, she takes 3 drops of metacam once a day till her stitches come out

Since I haven't been able to really get ahold of the SPCA through the phone and can't have anyone call me back, I'm just going to go up there tomorrow. I'd just like to talk to them to see what the options are. I'm really confident in their rabbit care. they had a whole room for rabbits in huge cages, and seemed like everyone is well taken care of. I'm sure she would do well there, but based on what she has done, they may say she's unadoptable or just too dangerous. If they think that, then I'll just go my own route of finding her a home, for sure.

There is the North Texas Rabbit Sanctuary here, but their website says they are currently at capacity and not taking any surrenders. But I went ahead and shot them an email anyway to tell them the situation and see what they say. Hopefully I'll get a response pretty soon.

And petfinder sounds like another great idea! I'll definitely keep that in mind!

Hi there! Just thinking about you and wondering how it is going with the girls and talking with the SPCA? Any luck?

Laura
 
Since Bailey can't jump into the litterbox without her collar hitting against the edge, she stopped using it altogether. I took it out and have been rotating receiving blankets over and over again throughout the day. She can really make that cage messy. It's been a never ending job. It never occurred to me until last night that I can just fill the whole cage up with litter since it's a plastic bottom one. Now I can just scoop up the mess in all the corners of the cage rather than washing blankets over and over again. Whew! Of course, it's getting scooped up into her collar, but there are holes around the neck that it comes back out of. It's still messy, but not as much work.

I got a response from the Rabbit Sanctuary here. They told me that the SPCA that I got them from is a no-kill shelter. So it wouldn't be a problem for Hailey to find a home. Plus, she said that I should take her back to the SPCA rather than to the Sanctuary because I signed a contract saying I would.

But now my boyfriend is going back on the idea of taking Hailey back. Apparently he's bonded too much and wants to keep both. Of course he wants to keep both, because I'm the one doing all the cleaning, feeding and care. He just gets to play with them - geez! So now we are at a stance on that. I think if he wants to keep Hailey, he can take over the cleaning of her cage, then. But something tells me, he'll let it get messy. And he'll forget to feed her, etc., etc. I mean, if he can't remember to scoop his cat's litter box everyday, then I have a right to come to those conclusions. And I'm thinking in the near future of when we leave on a vacation and all - trying to find a sitter that will deal with 2 cages/litterboxes and so on.

When I tried arguing with him about it, he wanted us to take Bailey back to the SPCA when she's healed up - just based on the fact that Hailey uses her litterbox way better in and out of the cage, and doesn't chew on the baseboards. I argue thats not fair to Bailey and no one is going to want a rabbit with surgery scars and half of a vagina.

As far as photos for the blog - my lens was busted on Saturday night. It will be out for repair for a while :(
 
Oh I'm so sorry that this is causing so much stress right now for you. When can Bailey have her cone taken off? She will probably use the litter box a lot better once that has been removed.

I would be hesitant to keep Hailey because of her anger issues with Bailey. I can understand that he doesn't want to take her back, but if the SPCA is a no-kill shelter, they will find another home for her!

Theno-kill shelter that I managetakes ourbunnies back and you don't judge the people you just take the bunny back and find a different home for her. Sometimes it just doesn't work out and you have honestly tried to make it work.

I don't blame you for not trusting his commitment to taking care of Hailey. My hubby doesn't do anything around the house and so when it comes to the animals I usually make all the decisions because he doesn't do the work anyways. I do a lot of fostering of bunnies and so if I think I can handle one more then I just do it. I don't usually worry to much about whether or not he'll be mad at me.

We've been together a long time (20+ years)though, so we're past worrying about that kind of stuff.

Do what you feel is right, but if you can agree on it with him beforehand, that would probably be best.

Good luck and I'll be thinking of you and the girls fondly!

Laura


 
We waited until Bailey healed, got her stitches out and for our own stress about the situation to cool down.

Both cages had been on the livingroom floor, about 6 inches away from each other. Everything had been fine. They alternated free roam time, and when ever the free one went up to the other's cage, they didn't mind and carried on with their own business. I thought this arrangement could work for a while to figure out a better solution.

But then last night, Hailey was out. She ran up to Bailey's cage, got up on her hind legs and started growling, buzzing or whatever you call that sound they make. I sprayed her with the water bottle and she ran off. She went to play and everything carried on like normal. It was the first time she had ever done that to Bailey's cage. 10 minutes later had passed and she did it again and kept doing it until I got her back into her own cage.

As soon as I shut the cage, I turned around to look at my boyfriend and we both knew. That's the last straw. We can't have that stress between those two in such close quarters. We'll be bringing Hailey back to the SPCA this Saturday. Luckily I found out it's a no-kill shelter, so I feel better about it, somewhat. So I know she'll find a new home eventually. I just worry about if it's a good home or not.
 
We brought Hailey back today. It was really really sad. Hailey was stressed during the car ride. But once we got there, she wanted out to play. I told them all the great things about Hailey. When they pulled up my adoption papers, I forgot she didn't even have a name, she was a number. So we updated her file with her name and all the great things about her. Hailey LOVED one of her toys so much, she played with it for hours in her cage and in the play pen. So I couldn't keep it. I wanted her to have it. So I was so glad when they told me they would hang it up in her cage for me. She got to keep her blankie too.

It was a sad day. I came back home and we have been spending all day with Bailey. I'm probably over-cuddling her today. But it makes me feel better to have her with me and take my mind off of Hailey. I really hope she finds a great home. I do look forward to our future with Bailey.
 
Although I know you're sad you had to give her up, it is good that she got to live in a home and you have added important info to her file. I know she'll get another great home where she doesn't have to worry about sharing her people with another bunny. There are lots of bunnies that we love and want to have for our own, but we can only take in the ones we can take in. Right now, there's a bunny at the shelter I love, but can't take home. It's nothing like having one in your home and having it be your bunny. [[hugs]]
 
I've seen such a difference in Bailey within days after Hailey left our home. Her personality has come out and I've seen her play and have so much fun - something I haven't seen from her before. I'm just amazed at what a change!

We've been spending a lot of time together. Now I can lay on the floor and she will come straight to me for cuddles.

Here we are having a moment
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I am so glad to hear that Bailey is starting to blossom. My Luna took her sweet time letting her personality shine also. My heart skips a beat when she is at her silliest because I know that it is all her.

When they do let you see their true personalities, itis then that you really get to let them into your heart because that is when you know you have a true heart-bond. :D

myheart
 

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