UUggg, I understand about money priorities. A couple years ago my dad had just bought a brand new jeep with all the bells and whistles. It's a long storry, but I needed $3,000 for school in two days (they had accepted the derferral then they weren't anymore etc). I only needed the money for two weeks and then I would get it back from my company. My step monster screamed that I would even ASK to borrow money. They always have new this or that and a huge house etc. My mom was a single parent raised my sister and I on no child support. I hated to even ask her, but she sent the money, which she had saved for weather proofing the house. Luckily I was able to get it back to her before the windows came in. *sigh* Anyway, long story short, my dad is very irresponsible and never grew up. My mom has worked so hard and would do anything for us, she's just a bit over protective. I guess it is just where people's priorities are. For us, our pets are at the top of the list. :hug: