I have 2 tattoos. I have a heart on my back, its smaller and really cute, its got some swirlies and stuff. I also have a line of stars on my foot.
My foot was the first one I got, when I was 18 and I got my heart when I was 21.
They say that feet hurt the most because there are a ton of bones and stuff. It didn't hurt that bad. I would say that the only thing that hurts when whey they go back over it with a color or to shade, because its already open and raw. Then they put the cleaner stuff on it and it feels SO good.
My back didn't hurt at all, took like 5 minutes to do. I was laughing and talking when he was doing it and he was like "okay we're done" I was like "whoa, that was nothing!" haha.
Like Kaosu said, make sure you find someone who does nice work and price shouldn't be an issue. Make sure you see them get the needles out of the sealed packages and make sure they wash their hands and wear gloves. They should be taking everything out of fresh packaging and using plastic to cover everything. If they know its your first tattoo most artists will explain the process of what they're doing when they're setting up and show you what they're doing.
As for placement, maybe on your back or somewhere like that. I like the one on my foot because as soon as you put a shoe on...no tattoo. But you can show it off with flip flops or whatever. But if you're going to get a foot tattoo, make sure that you can keep a shoe off of it for a few days because the shoe or sock will pull the ink out of your foot.
Or if you put it on your side or something, just wear loose clothes or your back wear a tank top.
After you get one, there is a lot of talk about what to put on it while you're healing. I bought tattoo goo, its this green really good smelling stuff, you coat it on the tat and it makes it feel so good! I love the way it smells. But you can put A&D ointment on it or a lotion that I can't remember the name of. You just want to keep it clean and wash it in the shower and then coat it with whatever your putting on it and don't let it dry out.
I personally love tattoos as long as they're well done. I can't wait to get more, I just can't find what I want next. Actually, I'll get my foot reworked and stuff added to it.
My husband has a HUGE back piece, its all black and white. Its beautiful. We put tattoo goo on it and it healed really nicely.
Just pick something that means something to you and something that you can look at for the rest of your life!