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peppa and georgie wrote:
We INTJ folk are kind of notorious, even though there apparently aren't many of us. Read enough stereotyping and we end up sounding like robots or mad scientists. Which is only true some of the time, of course.
I've read about dyspraxia... it sounds like a great struggle. Continuing education with learning disabilities is extremely difficult, I realized, because you have to become your own advocate- at least in my state, college professors can choose whether or not to accomodate certain things about learning disabilities, especially the lesser known ones. I found dyslexic people getting loads of more help than I did, simply because more people have heard of dyslexia. Not even the learning disabilities department at my college would hear me out- the attitude was "Oh, I had a hard time in math too, you just need to find the right teacher," and that was that. I was not prepared for that total lack of understanding... so I'm just telling you now, though you might already know. Still, despite being the "dumb kid" in all of my math classes, I got literally straight A's in everything else, president's honor list when I had semesters without math, etc... a successful adult life is completely doable with learning disabilities. Sure, I can't do my times tables. But there's a lot I can do. And there's a lot your son will be and is able to do, too, I'm sure! It gets discouraging living with this sometimes, but don't let it get you, or him, down. I think it builds a stronger individual to have to go through these things.
An INTJ is one of the personality types as outlined in the MBTI. I know "personality types" automatically brings to mind things like astrology, but I tend to find MBTI to be a lot more accurate and useful. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/INTJWhat is an INTJ??????
We INTJ folk are kind of notorious, even though there apparently aren't many of us. Read enough stereotyping and we end up sounding like robots or mad scientists. Which is only true some of the time, of course.
I've read about dyspraxia... it sounds like a great struggle. Continuing education with learning disabilities is extremely difficult, I realized, because you have to become your own advocate- at least in my state, college professors can choose whether or not to accomodate certain things about learning disabilities, especially the lesser known ones. I found dyslexic people getting loads of more help than I did, simply because more people have heard of dyslexia. Not even the learning disabilities department at my college would hear me out- the attitude was "Oh, I had a hard time in math too, you just need to find the right teacher," and that was that. I was not prepared for that total lack of understanding... so I'm just telling you now, though you might already know. Still, despite being the "dumb kid" in all of my math classes, I got literally straight A's in everything else, president's honor list when I had semesters without math, etc... a successful adult life is completely doable with learning disabilities. Sure, I can't do my times tables. But there's a lot I can do. And there's a lot your son will be and is able to do, too, I'm sure! It gets discouraging living with this sometimes, but don't let it get you, or him, down. I think it builds a stronger individual to have to go through these things.