amberelizabeth
Well-Known Member
Sometimes I think that there is nothing worse than a break up or heartache. Actually, I know there are worse things out there and I know that there are people who are going through more terrible things than I am...but sometimes it helps to write it all out, and get advice from others who have had similar experiences or those who are older and can tell me that IT'LL GET BETTER!!!!!!!
ahh so I've been dating a guy for 2.5 years. I'm 21yrs old, so this was a pretty serious relationship. We broke up last year around this time for about 2 months because we were fighting and just not getting along. I had a hard time w/ it then but then in december of last year he decided that he wanted to get back together and I took him back like the sucker I am.
So things have been great, but lately we've (well MYSELF) have been discussing the future, which I think is only reasonable we are seniors in college, and we both plan to go to grad school, so why not figure things out? Well we had one little fight and that all blew up everything and he ended up breaking up w/ me on Friday. I've actually been pretty good about everything, I haven't been the annoying girlfriend who keeps trying to work it out. I told him how I feel and that I'm willing to try and work things out and I told him I just wanted some time of security or committment that he wasn't going to just break up w/ me in May when we graduate (I'm staying around the Midwest he wants to go to the West Coast).
ANYWAYS he basically said it's not working and he can't give me that type of committment. Which ok I'm glad he's done it now, and I need to realize there is someone better out thhere for me, but in the same sense it just makes me angry that someone you thought could be in your future doesn't feel the same. And it's like he makes the call once again, and broke up w/ me and won't try and work things out. he just says that he thinks it's better for both of us.
Well that's my story, basically it's just hard to get over the fact of not being w/ that person anymore and having someone you are comfortable w/. It's getting used to being single again, and trying to realize that there is someone better for me.
I had a high school sweetheart you know your "first love" but for some reason this one hurts 10043498x worse. BUT I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, and if we are meant to be, it'll find a way.
So thanks for reading haha. It feels good to get it out, and to listen to other people's opinions or stories. Just having support from as many ppl as possible.
Layla has been very patient w/ me too
) she listens to me cry about it and talk about it to her haha, she's also been patient w/ me not being as enthusiastic in playing w/ her...i love pets they are always there giving love
ahh so I've been dating a guy for 2.5 years. I'm 21yrs old, so this was a pretty serious relationship. We broke up last year around this time for about 2 months because we were fighting and just not getting along. I had a hard time w/ it then but then in december of last year he decided that he wanted to get back together and I took him back like the sucker I am.
So things have been great, but lately we've (well MYSELF) have been discussing the future, which I think is only reasonable we are seniors in college, and we both plan to go to grad school, so why not figure things out? Well we had one little fight and that all blew up everything and he ended up breaking up w/ me on Friday. I've actually been pretty good about everything, I haven't been the annoying girlfriend who keeps trying to work it out. I told him how I feel and that I'm willing to try and work things out and I told him I just wanted some time of security or committment that he wasn't going to just break up w/ me in May when we graduate (I'm staying around the Midwest he wants to go to the West Coast).
ANYWAYS he basically said it's not working and he can't give me that type of committment. Which ok I'm glad he's done it now, and I need to realize there is someone better out thhere for me, but in the same sense it just makes me angry that someone you thought could be in your future doesn't feel the same. And it's like he makes the call once again, and broke up w/ me and won't try and work things out. he just says that he thinks it's better for both of us.
Well that's my story, basically it's just hard to get over the fact of not being w/ that person anymore and having someone you are comfortable w/. It's getting used to being single again, and trying to realize that there is someone better for me.
I had a high school sweetheart you know your "first love" but for some reason this one hurts 10043498x worse. BUT I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, and if we are meant to be, it'll find a way.
So thanks for reading haha. It feels good to get it out, and to listen to other people's opinions or stories. Just having support from as many ppl as possible.
Layla has been very patient w/ me too
) she listens to me cry about it and talk about it to her haha, she's also been patient w/ me not being as enthusiastic in playing w/ her...i love pets they are always there giving love
