my uncle had surgery

[bat42072]

My uncle who is 46 has been sick for over a year... went to several doctors and had tons of test and they couldn't find anything wrong... he kept staying sick couldn't eat and now he weighs 84 lbs.. his wife at the time picked his doctor( a quack in my opinion) they took out his gal bladder and it didn't help... he devorced his wife(she is crazy) and finally found his own doctor and they found he had two blocked arteries one going to his colon and one going to his liver.. the doctor said he had no blood in that section that was blocked... they fixed it... they think he will make it...

well his ex wife is in the picture again.. demanding he remarry her before he had surgery... and he told her wait until after he got better and they would talk about it... days before surgery she kept gripping that she would get nothing if he died during surgery... which was a big possibility that he could have died... she is a hartless b****... i can't stand her anymore...she is the one that demanded the divorce to begin with...

now she is telling the hospital that she is his wife which is not true so she can find out info on his condition... but she hasn't even been to the hospital for 3 days and is telling everyone that y uncle and the family is treating her like crap ... which is not true...

its ashamed that my uncles step daughter (her daughter ) is standing by my uncle and not her mom... she hates her mom for the things she does... i am sorry ... I just needed to vent... please keep him in your prayers as we won't know for awhile yet if he will survive this... thank you

 

[Flashy]

I'm sorry things are so difficult for you all.

I hope that your uncle makes a good recovery and this does solve his problems.

Keep venting as much as you need to

 

[Bo B Bunny]

Oh how awful! Someone needs to tell the hospital what this woman is doing! And what right does she have to ask for ANYTHING from him? she deserves nothing! they are divorced!

We'll keep him in our prayers.

 

[bat42072]

my other uncle told the nurse on staff the night she was talking about him dying... I don't know what they did about it... My other aunt told the nurse that that wasn't his wife anymore... and the nurse seemed upset that she told her anything... and asked my aunt who should they tell status to... I haven't been up there yet because of children situation... I babysit so my mom can go up there...

 

[BlueGiants]

He is so young to be so sick. I will keep him in my prayers.

What a terrible situation to be dealing with when he's so sick... if you notify the hospital they can ban her from any info or visits. (It's in a patients rights not to be bothered by "non relatives".) Either he or another close relative needs to bar her from seeing him. Her presence could impact his recovery.

You can pick your frinds, you can't pick your relatives....

 

[bat42072]

my uncle is out of the icu... he is still going to be in the hospital for awhile... his exwife is still coming around.. though she hides from his family... I can't catch her there or i would tell her off... she was yelling at him the other day after they moved him into a room because he called his step daughter and told her before calling his exwife...(they found out he already had a heart attack in the past that he didn't know about) I think she is trying to kill him off so she can collect his life insurance policy... He said he will deal with her when he gets out of the hospital and is strong enough to handle her...

thanks for all of your prayers