lyndym
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Okay all caught up, phew!
The list of discussion topics to avoid made me laugh because as just a list, it seems like a really random assortment of things. But your explanations to go along with them totally make sense! The number one thing I can't stand isn't really a discussion topic, but I just hate it when there's someone with completely different viewpoints than you and you can't even talk to them about anything without them trying to change your mind. Like, I'll believe what I want, and I know you'll believe what you want, and I'm down to discuss it with you, but you have to understand that my opinion won't change and you need to respect that. This sort of thing usually only comes up involving religion or politics and things like that, I guess. I had a friend in undergrad that I worked at the music library with, and he was Mormon. I had many conversations with him about his beliefs and practices, and it was so interesting to me. The best part was, he never said anything like he was trying to get me to think like him or like he was judging me because I didn't think like him. I also felt like I could bring up any subject regardless of how he felt about it and he would just talk with me instead of being immediately offended because it didn't line up with his beliefs. It was so refreshing. I also hate it when people seem to assume I will judge them because of something I believe in. This mostly happens with my being vegetarian. I think people automatically assume I will think they're bad for eating meat, so they'll go overboard with not-awkward-but-awkward comments. I was at a baseball game last week, and someone offered me some of their nachos. I just declined, and my other friend was like, "There's meat on them, she's vegetarian," so nachos guy went, "Ohhh sorry about the cow, I hope my nachos aren't offending you!" Like, dude really, I'm doing what I want because I want to, not because I need everyone else to. Mini rant, I guess, but GAH.
And I must say, I do enjoy Pocahontas. I know it's historically BS, but I was a kid during Disney's prime. I even did a ballet recital to Colors of the Wind! Okay, now I will never speak of Pocahontas on your blog again!
Have fun on your trip! I have a friend here from Pittsburgh. He's a huge Penguins fan, any chance you'll catch a hockey game?? Hahaha.
The list of discussion topics to avoid made me laugh because as just a list, it seems like a really random assortment of things. But your explanations to go along with them totally make sense! The number one thing I can't stand isn't really a discussion topic, but I just hate it when there's someone with completely different viewpoints than you and you can't even talk to them about anything without them trying to change your mind. Like, I'll believe what I want, and I know you'll believe what you want, and I'm down to discuss it with you, but you have to understand that my opinion won't change and you need to respect that. This sort of thing usually only comes up involving religion or politics and things like that, I guess. I had a friend in undergrad that I worked at the music library with, and he was Mormon. I had many conversations with him about his beliefs and practices, and it was so interesting to me. The best part was, he never said anything like he was trying to get me to think like him or like he was judging me because I didn't think like him. I also felt like I could bring up any subject regardless of how he felt about it and he would just talk with me instead of being immediately offended because it didn't line up with his beliefs. It was so refreshing. I also hate it when people seem to assume I will judge them because of something I believe in. This mostly happens with my being vegetarian. I think people automatically assume I will think they're bad for eating meat, so they'll go overboard with not-awkward-but-awkward comments. I was at a baseball game last week, and someone offered me some of their nachos. I just declined, and my other friend was like, "There's meat on them, she's vegetarian," so nachos guy went, "Ohhh sorry about the cow, I hope my nachos aren't offending you!" Like, dude really, I'm doing what I want because I want to, not because I need everyone else to. Mini rant, I guess, but GAH.
And I must say, I do enjoy Pocahontas. I know it's historically BS, but I was a kid during Disney's prime. I even did a ballet recital to Colors of the Wind! Okay, now I will never speak of Pocahontas on your blog again!
Have fun on your trip! I have a friend here from Pittsburgh. He's a huge Penguins fan, any chance you'll catch a hockey game?? Hahaha.