maherwoman
Well-Known Member
Hey, I really, honestly don't think anyone's trying to discourage Amy from her dream here...just letting her know that she needs to create a good foundation to "one up" those that have had more experience.
Honestly, I hope you guys (Amy and Ali) read what I had to say...and take it to heart that I honestly don't think ANYONE here is saying she shouldn't go after her dream.
It's hard to let someone know they do need to start from the ground up in something, only to have them insist they know better...and the people encouraging them to do it from the ground up are people that are experienced in the field, and just telling her their own experiences with things. It's hard on people to have someone ask for advice, and have them argue with advice given by experienced people in that subject.
They're not saying, "Don't do it"...they're saying "do it from the foundational things UP"...so she has every potential to really SUCCEED in the field.
Bottom line...don't ask for advice if you're not prepared to listen to those experienced in the field...and don't take things personally that are meant simply to help you succeed.
Hugs to you both.
Honestly, I hope you guys (Amy and Ali) read what I had to say...and take it to heart that I honestly don't think ANYONE here is saying she shouldn't go after her dream.
It's hard to let someone know they do need to start from the ground up in something, only to have them insist they know better...and the people encouraging them to do it from the ground up are people that are experienced in the field, and just telling her their own experiences with things. It's hard on people to have someone ask for advice, and have them argue with advice given by experienced people in that subject.
They're not saying, "Don't do it"...they're saying "do it from the foundational things UP"...so she has every potential to really SUCCEED in the field.
Bottom line...don't ask for advice if you're not prepared to listen to those experienced in the field...and don't take things personally that are meant simply to help you succeed.
Hugs to you both.