November 18, 2009 - Baby Bunnyhood, the Story of Sir Toby
I've been wanting to write this for some time but didn't have a chance until now. I hope that one day this may help someone think about their baby bunny who's going through adolescence.
Toby. I got him when he was a wee baby. He was at my mercy, so small, so vulnerable. He couldn't do anything to me if I picked up, hugged him, rubbed him all over. He was so tiny, so cute! I could eat him up, he was so small and adorable.
And then one day, he gets really big, like
twice what he was before! And suddenly he's bolting all over the place, he's climbing on stuff, clawing at things, at me, at my other bunny, and he's insane. He jumps, he runs away, I can't catch him. He won't respond to commands. He just... runs... everywhere. And he rattles the cage when I put him away. He is so noisy. He is aggressive! It's crazy!
ALL over the place!
And all you ever see is his
butt because he can't be stopped!
He won't sit still. Can't groom him. Can't pet him. He flicks me off. I have to bunny proof the entire place because he gets into everything... every single stinkin' bitty hole in my apartment needed to be sealed off.
It's tiring. It's unrewarding. The bunny truly has a mind of its own and he doesn't ever take the time to mind me. Goodness. It's hopeless.
Toby made me pretty mad sometimes. He made me feel like such a failure of a bunny mom. I was SO frustrated with him. Then one day, he goes to the vet to get neutered. And he comes home looking like this. And I am broken.
Suddenly, he needs me. And I'm all he has. And that's what stays with me. He's mine. And I'm his. It wasn't easy, but if we didn't make it through those times, we wouldn't have had these times.
He's growing up now. He's still not very nice to Kirby. But he loves me now, and I of course, will always love him.
To every teenage crazy bun out there and their slave... there are going to be better times and when you see your baby grow up into a wonderful, loving, beautiful rabbit, you will be so proud. :hearts:
:dutch