Danielle, I hear you about the in-laws!
When I am invited to someone's house for dinner, I in no way expect them to produce a fancy vegan spread. But I do think it is fair that if they knowingly invite a vegetarian, they provide at least one think I can eat. However, my MIL invites my husband and I for roast beef and mashed potatoes that have chicken stock in them? What?! I would be perfectly fine eating just mashed potatoes, if she'd made them with butter/milk (and they'd taste better, too!), but no! There was a salad, but she expects about 2 cups of salad to be enough for 4 people, so I pretty much just sat there drinking water while everyone else ate. Nice.
(Now, I demand to know the menu before we go, and if it's a meaty meal I just stay home.)
Some good news......My work had a program this year called "No Pain No Gain." It was over the holidays, and the premise was that you don't have to gain weight during the holidays, and anyone who signed up and didn't gain any weight during the 8 weeks would get a $25 Visa
gift card. (It did not stop them from handing out 5-lb caramel apple pies for Thanksgiving, or the 2-gallon popcorn tins at Christmas.) The weigh-out was today, and I somehow lost 2 lbs! I know, 2 lbs over 8 weeks is not a fantastic weight loss, but it's better than gaining! Woohoo!!
I have been using the MyFitnessPal app this week, and I think it's really helping my keep track of my calories. I like that it shows other nutrients, too, and the website is pretty good. I always have my phone on me, so hopefully I can keep using it. I think if I can stick with that, I will be able to lose more weight. The instant feedback helps me.