Bunnicula
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TinysSis wrote:
No offense meant, TinysSis, questions are the way to learn. But this whole thread is about questions we can't believe we've gotten...and most of them haven't been asked to learn...but usually in a way that insinuates that what we believe or are doing is silly, stupid, or wrong. It's all in the way a question is asked.
Usually the "questions" mentioned here are more like opinions. Such as the person who responded to the fact that we have 10 cats and 3 rabbitswith, "How can you breathe?" Really, I can't imagine that that person was ACTUALLY asking about my process of respiration. She wasn't interested in how many litterboxes we have, how much time or effort it took to keep things clean, or whether or not having animals in the house aggravated my allergies. She was basically saying that I was crazy for sharing my home with so many animals.
So, yes, you should ask questions if you really want to learn and grow. And you shouldn't be afraid to sound like you don't know things. (That's why we ask questions in the first place.) When people are asked genuine questions they are usually more than happy to share their knowledge. That's not what's being addressed here...
So...sorry for offending...but I still feel that people who can't ask polite questions where they actually want an answer should consider not asking.
Bunnicula wrote:All I can say to these people is..."Better to keep your mouth shut and be thought a fool than to open it and remove all doubt." :nope:
-Mary Ellen
Hmm, I always say 'better to ask an ignorant question and become educated, than to stay silent and stay ignorant.
And yes, I know some people have no desire to learn. Others do. Sometimes the 'stupid' people are actually trying to learn. Ok?
No offense meant, TinysSis, questions are the way to learn. But this whole thread is about questions we can't believe we've gotten...and most of them haven't been asked to learn...but usually in a way that insinuates that what we believe or are doing is silly, stupid, or wrong. It's all in the way a question is asked.
Usually the "questions" mentioned here are more like opinions. Such as the person who responded to the fact that we have 10 cats and 3 rabbitswith, "How can you breathe?" Really, I can't imagine that that person was ACTUALLY asking about my process of respiration. She wasn't interested in how many litterboxes we have, how much time or effort it took to keep things clean, or whether or not having animals in the house aggravated my allergies. She was basically saying that I was crazy for sharing my home with so many animals.
So, yes, you should ask questions if you really want to learn and grow. And you shouldn't be afraid to sound like you don't know things. (That's why we ask questions in the first place.) When people are asked genuine questions they are usually more than happy to share their knowledge. That's not what's being addressed here...
So...sorry for offending...but I still feel that people who can't ask polite questions where they actually want an answer should consider not asking.