We do family night every week so I know how you feel. We have six, my parents and four kids, ages 21,19,17, and almost 16. We have been doing family night for three years now. Here are some things that we like to do:
- Play Apples to Apples. It is an awesome game, although I generally lose. It can be played by 4-15 people.
- Make a movie skit. Just randomness here. You know what would be a funny movie...
-Discuss politics. Ok, we are a very weird family. It is FUN
-Go out and just get desert. It is a lot cheaper than getting a meal and then we hang out and talk while we are waiting.
- Another one we do with a camera is illustrate a Proverb. Basically we each chose a proverb, generally from the Bible, and then make up a funny thing to go along with it. It doesn't have to follow the proverb exactly. Like a passage in Proverbs 7 talks about how a whore snags a young man but in the end it was like an arrow pierced his liver or a stone was tied around his neck. So what we did was make a skit where someone was selling perfume named "arrowpiercingliver" and stuff like that and how the dude was trying to sell them by disusing their names. Then he comes to a perfume called "True Love" and just says it right out. Well anyways, it is hard to explain. It looked better on the video. If you don't have a video camera a camera phone will work fine. It is just so that your family can laugh at it, so it doesn't have to be great quality.
- Make cards, a person draws one and two of your family have to debate random issues like "Is beauty or wealth better?" The other three people are the judges. Switch it around some so that a person has to argue the side they disagree with. (Yeah, ok, our family does weird things for fun.)
- Water gun wars are fun in the summer, even if I am 19, lol.
Our family has been officially doing family night for three years, but we are all really close and have been doing a version of it for a long time. The key thing is just to *do something* If you can't think of anything to do, make it up. Sometimes it is a lot easier just to say "well, I can't think of anything, so we wont have it this week." But I think family night is a great idea and has really made our family closer even as we start to grow up and move out. I also think it has made the parents closer to us so they can more easilly interject their opinion when we have decisions to make without being pushy, bosy, or us being like "You just want to hold me back"