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So, you went to the petstore and brought your old bunny, Tokoto, back with you?
Ever so cruel of you to have 'traded' in the first place. Ittook my mini lop around two months to stop charging and biting and nowshe's a little darling. Rabbits aren't going to warm up to you in amatter of hours. Building a friendship takes time, keep that in mind.
 
sthvtsh,

I didnt state you were going to return it! I'm just trying to point outthat swapping and changing bunnies is not a nice thing to do, esp forthe bunsters.

I hope you enjoy your time with your bunnies.
 
Obviously people are going to view me as crueland mean and unreasonsible so I'll choose a different forum. However, Istill thank the administrators because the forum has taught me a lotabout litter training, feeding, caring for, etc.
 
No one is judging you, we are just going by whatwe are hearing. You get one bunny, Ife, and then give it away. You getanother bunny, Tokodo, and then trade him after 3-4 days before he hasa chance to settle in. Now you want to get a SECOND rabbit, even thoughyour parents don't want you to even have one. We're wondering about howyou will support the rabbits, especially in an emergency? You said itwould take you 3 weeks to save $60... that's barely enough to cover abasic exam. My rabbit just had emergency surgery for a blockage, in thecourse of 2 days it costs me over $400. 3 weeks later, after all hismedicines and vet visits, my bill is nearly double that. If that wereto happen to you, how would you pay for it? You need to think aboutthis BEFORE taking on a rabbit. Too many rabbits die needlessly becauseowners cannot afford their vet bills.

I'm in college, and in order to save my rabbits life, I had to max out2 credit cards and sell every single textbook I had, right before mybig tests. In the end, I lost my credit cards due to going over thelimit and I flunked out of two classes due to bad grades. However, Iput that much time, money, and committment into my rabbit. You need tore-think if you have the money it takes to properly care for onerabbit, much less 2. I'm honestly assuming you don't.
 
I know you're assuming I don't, everyone here is.

By April 10th I should be working 35 hours a week. My hoursand pay are unpredictable as of now. USUALLYI get about $15tuesday, and $20-$30 dollars friday. If there was an unexpected vetbill for the rabbits, I for for fact my mother would pay the bill,and have me pay her back after things settled down. After Christmasand my birthday, I'll havemoney to put aside incase ofemergancy. $200-$400.
 
I think the point is here is that bunnies are a HUGE responsibility, and can cost an awful lot!

if you choose to get a bunny then its YOUR responsibility and no-oneelses. You shouldnt have to rely on your parents if they are your pets.What if your mum turned round and said she couldnt lend you the money??
 
Okay, and where are you going with this? Youdon't have to restate points, either, I'm not stupid. And I figured outmost on my own before I toldtold by members here anyways,except(obviously) things I asked questions for.

Even if I stayed with only one rabbit, I'd still need help ifsoemthing like that came up. I know it's a huge responsibility, butI've already bought him. He is already home, he is mine. Forever. Ifyou have good advice, go ahead and say it. But to me, saying 'don't getrid of bunnies' and 'don't have bunnies when you can't support them100% on your own' is worthless. If I had a garage sale or something andbabysat, chances are I COULD manage the money. However, if not I'dsmply have to ask for a parent's help. That's just the way it is.
 
Well that post has just shown your immaturity!

We are trying to help and advise you, not to criticise you. Some ofyour earlier posts suggest you have gotton bunnies which werent up 'toyourstandards' and you therefore had to return them.

You have to remember there are members on here who resuce buns on adaily basis, and those who see the appalling states bunnies are in whentaken from petshops.

You didnt help this matter by telling us all you had returneda bunnybecauseit was 'horrid'!
 
Yes, I'm aware. And I'm trying not to beimmature and overreact. But please explain to me, how to your postshelp compared to MyBoyHarper's?

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And also "So, you went to the petstore and brought your old bunny, Tokoto, back with you?
Ever so cruel of you to have 'traded' in the first place. Ittook my mini lop around two months to stop charging and biting and nowshe's a little darling. Rabbits aren't going to warm up to you in amatter of hours. Building a friendship takes time, keep that in mind."Nothing about that helps whatsoever. Anything that colud be used asadvice or information as been stated also numerous times. All she didwas call me cruel.



 
All we are saying is, what if your parents toldyou no when the rabbit got sick? What if the bill was in the THOUSANDSof dollars. Would your parents have that much money all at once, andwould they be willing to lend it to you? Not many would. There wasanother member on here whose rabbit got sick, and in the end herparents wouldn't help pay for the vet and the rabbit ended up dying.

Relying on parents to HELP is one thing, expecting them to shell outhundreds, maybe thousands of dollars, on your animal is another. Careof a rabbit alone costs a good bit of money. Quality food, lots of hayand piles of vegetables add up.

If a vet bill arose, it wouldn't just be $200 to $400 dollars in amajor emergency. Things like GI Stasis are all too common, which iswhat my rabbit had. Bills for GI stasis, especially when surgery isinvolved, can add up to thousands of dollars. It would be the vetvisit, the examination, the x-rays, the surgery, the medicine, theafter care costs... my bill right now is close to $1,000 and he's only2 years old. Who knows, God forbid, if something else were to happen.You have to think about these things BEFORE taking on theresponsibility of an animal. It's called being responsible. Saying "Oh,my parents will pay for it and I'll pay them back," is not responsible.It's relying on other people and hoping they pay bills for your animal.

The entire point of everyone's replies here is that we care about thehealth and well-being of the animal. The only reason people arequestioning is because you've already gotten rid of two animals becausethey weren't good enough for you or up to your standards. That clicks alight bulb is a lot of member's heads here that maybe your notresponsible enough for a rabbit, or the responsibility that comes withit. It's not being rude, it's being honest.
 
Well thanks for your help Harper. I'll keep everythng you said about finacial problems

However, I have a quick question that doesn't have to do with this.
 
I'd be able to devote a lot of time, thingswould be so much easier if my parents would let them live in the housethough! I got lucky enough that if I can take the time and have thepatience to litter train him, he can stay on the porch. Any suggestionson bonding with Sony?

I'll get them both altered asap, but I only work two days aweek so saving up might take a while. About three weeks foreach.(that'd be like $60). And I'll have Sony altered first so when Ifeis altered they can see eachother without babies. My plan would be tobond with them, then have them bond, and we can all be one big happyfamily! Or they can live on seperate stories of the house. =(

The main reason my mom is so stressed about rabbits right nowis because she isn't used to having pets, and because I kept switching.That last one though, Takoto was mean. =( Maybe she didn't mind theharness because she didn't understand it? When I pulled it she eitherfroze or tugged away though. Ife, though. I miss her and regret gettingrid of her. As of now, I have my mind set on getting her back. I won'tgive up Sony, but when things calm downa nd they get used to having arabbit, I think they won't mind having another. They also both thinkrabbits are only on earth to pee and poop. I have yet to change theirminds with that aswell.


This is one of your earlier posts......"the main reason my mum isstressed about rabbits is because i kept switching.......the last onethough Takoto was mean.....when i pulled the harness..........

Need i say more! the reason Takoto didnt move when you 'pulled' theharness is because she was SCARED! some bunnies wont have anything todo with harnesses at all!

If your mum is stressed about having rabbits, and thinks all they do ispee and poop then why would she be so keen to lend you the money!?

Surely you can undertstand why some people are upset with your post?!you cant keep switching from one bunny to another. If you choose tohave a rabbit then you have to be prepared for all of the hardship thatcomes with it!

 
I don't understand this thread.

Why are you planning on getting another rabbit when you can't even dealwith one? I planned to get Will a friend but he was a littletempermental, so i had to wait and tame him more and more before i evenconsidered getting another rabbit. Personally i think you should waitand keep your current bunny, Ife, and see how it goes. I can understandit being difficult to look after a completley aggresive bunnyespecially if you are working long hours or at school most of the dayand are not experienced, but why not at least put in the effort to lookafter your current rabbit for 6 months or something? At least then youcan save upa decent amount to look after a second.
 
I just want to weigh in on whats been said. Ihope that everyone's comments dont influence you to leave the forum.This place is a great resource for inexperienced bunny owners. I knowyou said youve been reading up in our resouce center and that is great!

People just get frustrated easily because we all care so much. Peoplearent trying to be mean to you, theyre just being honest. For thecomments that were more harsh, just remember that its not against youpersonally. It comes from a place of frustration. Owners who dont knowto take the time to let their rabbit get settled, to keep them safe andquiet for the first few days, to secure their cage, to have themaltered,to make sure they have enough money for food, hay,vet bills etc...those people are the reason why countless rabbits dieneedlessly.

I think that everyone has said what they needed to say. And again, I think it is out of frustration and confusion.

If you have questions, sthvstsh, please continue to ask. I think thatyou and your rabbit will benefit from learning more about rabbitbehavior, health, and care.

The main point people were trying to make is to take your time. Dontmake rash decisions on a whim. I know you wish now (afterhearing our opinions) that you hadnt taken Takodo back (orIfe).Now that you know the mistakes you madebefore,you can work to make life wonderful for your newbunny. But I would stick with one for now. ;)

-Haley


 
Sweetie,It just appeared rather mean(in my opinion) for you to have taken the rabbit back; I was statingthat you should give a rabbit time,as long as ittakes for the little one to warm up to you (in cases, much longer thana few days) That's advice in itself.

Just make sure you're entirely ready for the responsibility, and Ithink Haley summed it up well with what we're all trying to say.
 
I agree Haley did, and she did it in a much nicer way.

queenadreena wrote:
Sweetie,It just appeared rather mean (in myopinion) for you to have taken the rabbit back; I was statingthat you should give a rabbit time,as long as ittakes for the little one to warm up to you (in cases, much longer thana few days) That's advice in itself.

Just make sure you're entirely ready for the responsibility, and Ithink Haley summed it up well with what we're all trying to say.
 
Hey all, 'tis the season to be jolly!!
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