Bye.

[Brandy456]

NorthernAutumn wrote:

As said above, block whomever it is who is making you uncomfortable.
RO is meant to be a safe, drama free environment. If the situation is this bad that you are considering leaving, I deeply urge you to talk to a moderator, senior moderator, or admin that you feel comfortable with.

Otherwise, it is some other poor person down the road who will be dealing with the same nasty individual.

Let's get this situation dealt with, ASAP.
:hug:

I read this last night, on my phone (but I couldn't reply.. darn phone)
It's so ironic how.. right on point this post is..
Yeah, i've- er, we talked to a Mod.
Thanks. :hug2:

 

[Brandy456]

Bassetluv wrote:

:hug:

Check your mailbox...

Is it sad, that I was totally considering leaving, but when you said you didn't want to be the only Ottawa person, it sort of pushed me in the other direction ?

I'm still thinking..

 

[Brandy456]

paul2641 wrote:

Brandy, Take it from someone who knows I was driven from this site for 5 months because I let 2 people get to me, Well I decided I'd forget them move on and come back, I kinda regretted all the time I missed while away!

I don't think you should leave at all!


PM box is wide open!


:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X

                                                   To this whole situation!

We're so alike, in many ways right now..
Don't know how to explain that ( ^ ) but believe it.
:hug2:

 

[Brandy456]

GoinBackToCali wrote:

I totally understand. There was a rumor going around about me, and I think it stemmed from how I changed as a person, coming out of my shell..and then how I just basically abandoned everything RO/Rabbit related (not the animals themselves, just the lifestyle per se) to try and save my marriage. In turn, it made some people think that who I am at my core, with my core values with animals had changed, and I would put others animals at risk. To this day I still think I get the cold shoulder over it, so I just don't come around anymore.

It hurt my feelings deeply, but the fact is, you cannot change what people have their mind set on. As long as you in your heart know who you are..and your heart and mind is clear, that's really all that matters at the end of the day.

There's comes a point in your life when you get tired of chasing everyone & trying to fix everything. But it's not giving up, it's realizing that you don't need certain people and the crap, drama, hurt and misery they bring to your life anymore.

That's the point I reached. That's the point your at now.


[flash=425,344]http://www.youtube.com/v/h2pKF0y9yFI&hl=en&fs=1[/flash]

Thanks
Have you noticed, everytime you've helped me you post a son g? I just noticed that
:hug2:

 

[paul2641]

Brandy456 wrote:

paul2641 wrote:

Brandy, Take it from someone who knows I was driven from this site for 5 months because I let 2 people get to me, Well I decided I'd forget them move on and come back, I kinda regretted all the time I missed while away!

I don't think you should leave at all!


PM box is wide open!


:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X:X

To this whole situation!

We're so alike, in many ways right now..
Don't know how to explain that ( ^ ) but believe it.
:hug2:

You can PM me if you wanna talk, I really just get the shivers thinking about this situation!

:hug2:

 

[Brandy456]

Thanks Paul. =)

With all this drama, somewhat put aside.. I had SOO much time on my hands last night. I honestly didn't know what to do with myself. It was insane.
I'm usually on my mobile msn while doing my chores, making them go by slower..
But yesterday,
I totally cleaned my room spotless (and, to be honest it was kinda a mess)
Went through a few boxes I hadn't had a chance to since moving,
Let babii have 'free time'
And I still had time on my hands, it was only 11.. So I watched a spider walk around my room...

This person, used to say goodnight to me via MSN, every night.. for the past few months..
So I was all lost, no one saying goodnight to me.. so I got one of my best friends to do it, but I just ended up laughing at her effort.
Eh..

 

[Mrs. PBJ]

I hope you got my PM I know a lot of older members have been having problems.

I know when I was thinking of leaving that i relized how many people cared.

And realized who really did not. I learned in my situation thats its not who your friend with or not it that you dont have to choose and if someone is trying to force you they are not your friend.

I hope you stick around i came back pretty quick but if you need to leave for a while we all need to sometimes

 

[Sabine]

This is really sad to here. Brandy, I hope you don't have to leave but manage to work things out and detatch yourself from people who are upsetting you. it would be a shame to see you go.

 

[Sweetie]

I am sorry you are leaving. I hope that you come back!

Hope things get better for you!

 

[GoinBackToCali]

Brandy456 wrote:

GoinBackToCali wrote:

I totally understand. There was a rumor going around about me, and I think it stemmed from how I changed as a person, coming out of my shell..and then how I just basically abandoned everything RO/Rabbit related (not the animals themselves, just the lifestyle per se) to try and save my marriage. In turn, it made some people think that who I am at my core, with my core values with animals had changed, and I would put others animals at risk. To this day I still think I get the cold shoulder over it, so I just don't come around anymore.

It hurt my feelings deeply, but the fact is, you cannot change what people have their mind set on. As long as you in your heart know who you are..and your heart and mind is clear, that's really all that matters at the end of the day.

There's comes a point in your life when you get tired of chasing everyone & trying to fix everything. But it's not giving up, it's realizing that you don't need certain people and the crap, drama, hurt and misery they bring to your life anymore.

That's the point I reached. That's the point your at now.


[flash=425,344]http://www.youtube.com/v/h2pKF0y9yFI&hl=en&fs=1[/flash]

Thanks
Have you noticed, everytime you've helped me you post a son g? I just noticed that
:hug2:

Cause music is a big part of my life.. it speaks to me..

And I sing in a band..lol

 

[Brandy456]

One more post, before I have dinner..
(I'm such a creeper, hehe)
The glee soundtrack...
I actually listened to it last night, like the words.
Every..song, in there had something to do with this situation.
(except for gold digger.... )

 

[hln917]

It's not me is it? I've only spoken to you once!:?

Seriously though, if you leave, then they win. Just block them, ignore them and talk to the rest of us!:biggrin2:

 

[TinysMom]

GoinBackToCali wrote:

There's comes a point in your life when you get tired of chasing everyone & trying to fix everything. But it's not giving up, it's realizing that you don't need certain people and the crap, drama, hurt and misery they bring to your life anymore.

That's the point I reached. That's the point your at now.

I just have to second this - I've gotten involved in many relationships on RO. Two were what I would call "toxic" because that is what other people tried so hard to tell me when they were warning me about the relationships. I ignored them...said "you don't know the person...you need to give them a chance..".

Biggest mistake I ever made - well - as far as the forum goes. I should have listened to those who warned me and been saved hours of drama and frustration.

I say this because you will find that on this forum you can't trust everyone and you won't get along with everyone and yeah - some will cause drama even when you're trying hard to avoid it yourself. Listen to those you trust...go to a moderator if you need to.

After the second relationship went bad - I did consider leaving the forum - for about 10 minutes. Then I realized that the large number of friends I had was worth the frustration.

For a while though - I did use the "ignore" button....which is another option you might want to use.

Glad to see you're not leaving.

 

[mistyjr]

You don't know me but this website is the greatest and i wouldnt know what i would do without this site..

 

[Saffy]

There are far more nice people on here than bad .. you keep smiley and feel the support from those that care xx

 

[jessicalovesjesse]

I know I'm late to reply but my inbox is always open if you need to talk.
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Please don't leave. You seem so wonderful.