BunnyMommy
Well-Known Member
Bless your heart, Tina! I know that a 33-day separation is going to be really hard on you!
If I can make a few suggestions that might help (if they're not relevant, just toss them in the "round" file ... ):
Make the separation an adventure in romance. By this I meanturn it into an opportunity to romance Dale. Strategicallyhide little love notes in his traveling bag. Flirtshamelessly with him when he calls home. Send him cute littlelove emails. If at all possible, maybe surprise him and showup at one of his destinations if you can and have lunch withhim. There's all sorts of ways to play this out over thedistance.
There was a period of time in our marriage when my husband was assignedto work for a while in another state during the week and then he wouldcome home on the weekends. This went on if I remember forfour or five months. I used some of these suggestions andmore during that time. Not only did it help him to keep fromgetting lonely, but he couldn't wait to get hime on theweekends. In addition, he was already by nature one of themost romantic men that I'd ever known, but just the thought of knowingthat his wife loved, adored, and missed him to such an extent that shewould go the extra mile to try to do little things to keep him fromgetting lonely heightened his romance quotient to even higherlevels! He would bring me home all types of specialgifts when he came home on the weekends and we would make his few daysat home our special "dating" times. If you can believe it,the separation was an opportunity for us to make our marriage evenstronger than it was!
Know that we're here for you for encouragement and support.You can get this through this!...
If I can make a few suggestions that might help (if they're not relevant, just toss them in the "round" file ... ):
Make the separation an adventure in romance. By this I meanturn it into an opportunity to romance Dale. Strategicallyhide little love notes in his traveling bag. Flirtshamelessly with him when he calls home. Send him cute littlelove emails. If at all possible, maybe surprise him and showup at one of his destinations if you can and have lunch withhim. There's all sorts of ways to play this out over thedistance.
There was a period of time in our marriage when my husband was assignedto work for a while in another state during the week and then he wouldcome home on the weekends. This went on if I remember forfour or five months. I used some of these suggestions andmore during that time. Not only did it help him to keep fromgetting lonely, but he couldn't wait to get hime on theweekends. In addition, he was already by nature one of themost romantic men that I'd ever known, but just the thought of knowingthat his wife loved, adored, and missed him to such an extent that shewould go the extra mile to try to do little things to keep him fromgetting lonely heightened his romance quotient to even higherlevels! He would bring me home all types of specialgifts when he came home on the weekends and we would make his few daysat home our special "dating" times. If you can believe it,the separation was an opportunity for us to make our marriage evenstronger than it was!
Know that we're here for you for encouragement and support.You can get this through this!...