I have to get this out of my system so I can get past it, but I am very frustrated and a bit angry and Cinderella. Becky is an extremely sweet, submissive bunn. Cinderella keeps stealing her food because I'm trying to get Becky to gain weight so she has yummy extras like oats or sunflower seeds. Cindi needs to loose weight and has been doing a great job, now 5.5 pounds down from 7 when we got her. Cindi still gets her pellets and all the hay she wants and veggies at night, it has been all exercise. Becky has now lost 1/2 a pound and is getting way too skinny. We have been standing guard to make sure Becky eats, but that is very time consuming and stressful. It just drives me crazy because I got Cindi to be a companion to Becky. We made it through the bonding process, but they only cuddle in stressful situations. In their own room Cindi and Houdini cuddle at one end and Becky is alone at the other end.
Yesterday I spent all day cleaning the bunn room. I took everything out and then realised they were peeing on the carpets. I cleaned it all up, scrubbing the rugs to get rid of the spots and smells. Everything is **** and span at bedtime last night. During this process I had the kids in an xpen in the livingroom. They all cuddled up in one big furrpile. I had hope things were going to be better.
I gave them dinner and Cindi chased Becky out into the hall. I had enough, Becky is my heart bunny and I can't take seeing her being bullied. I set up the xpen in my bedroom and she is going to just stay in there where she can eat in peace. This morning I went up to give Cindi and Houdini breakfast. They had peed around the litter boxes again!
I am so frustrated and angry and hurt. I know they are just doing what comes naturally to rabbits, but why on the floor!?! I suspect that Cindi may not have been as litter trained as I was told. I try to remember that she spent 3 of her 4 years in a shelter. It's natural she picked up some not so sparkling habbits, but GGeeeerrrrr! She won't let me pet her, she pees all over the floor, and chases my baby.
I don't want to get rid of her, just to be clear. I want to find a way through these issues. I know she has a good heart in there somewhere and she's just afraid. I have to find a way through. If I give up I will be failing us both.
Houdini is an easy going boy and I'm hoping he will help her learn to trust. He's not much of a snuggler, but that's ok. He lets me give him a nose scratch when he's eating and tollerates his brushing, that is perfectly fine.
Becky seems happier and more relaxed since I moved her. Now Joshua is like "see, I told you we didn't need to get her a friend". Blah. I just want her to be happy.
I really hope now it is just the two of them in the room the peeing issues stop. I keep cleaning it up as soon as I find it and put all the poops back into the litterbox. I don't know what else to do. It doesn't help that I'm really hurting today from the scrubbing yesterday. To top it all off I have to do a dress fitting for a wedding I am in this summer. *sigh* I am not a girly girl. I didn't even do a super formal dress for my own wedding! I just hope this is less painful than I antissipate.