So we have had a few sessions. We are not pushing it at all. We want them to have time to adjust.
Quik descriptions of the players....
Dallas: While he thinks that he is in charge truth be told you can see it is Connor.
Connor: Kind of sits back and runs the show. You can see how he manages everyone.
Chibi: Is at the bottom, he is in no way dominate.
Wyatt: Wyatt is dominate so I know he will be above Chibi but Connor will not bow down so he can't be top.
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Bonding strategy....
Chibi was hoping to be dominate over Wyatt but I knew that wouldn't happen so I have not allowed him to try and boss Wyatt. He is learning to let Wyatt be top dog. Now when it comes to Dallas and Wyatt I am working on letting them find their footing. I don't let anything go to far but I am seeing them sort of come to an understanding. Now during the first bonding session the scuffle was between Connor and Wyatt. Since than for the most part they ignored each other unless we made sure that they cuddled(all four) at the end of the session. The last two sessions Wyatt has shown more respect for Connor and not tried to be boss. We hope that he has seen that Connor will not be bossed around.
Our goal is to continue with these bonding dates making them longer. Than on June 19th we have a BBQ at his parents to attend. It is a 30min drive one way, so we believe that it would be a greats bonding experience. The drive in one carrier than a pen outside for several hours than drive home. Depending how that goes is our next step.