toyabrooke
Well-Known Member
Hi Everyone,
When we got Poe we had a few little problems with him dealing with the stress of moving through being too territorial of his room he is in. After learning how to be dominant over him so he can learn who is boss through picking him up supportively but dominantly until he stopped having a hissy fit, then cuddling him and calming him and only letting him back down when he was calm. If he went to bite us or charge at us or anything of that nature, this process would be repeated.
There have been a few little territorial incidents since then, but only small and very easily fixed. Today however, when going to pick up out of his cage to let him out into the room, he bit and charged at me. I did the same thing as always, lifted him up to let him know who is in charge, calmed him, and put him back in his cage. I then tried multiple times to pick him back up again form inside his house, and he did the same thing over and over again. Even when I just put my hand near his house or his food he would charge out. I understand it is his house with his food and he needs to feel secure, but I know he also needs to understand that even though it is his house and his cage, I am in charge not him.
He does this a little bit when laying on my desk because it is his favourite spot in the whole room, but nothing as bad as his cage. In the mornings he does this a little bit in his cage, he doesnt like me to clean it or get near his food, so I have my boyfriend hold him while I clean it to avoid that.
What else can I do? He is getting fixed ASAP so will this fix it or are there other things I can do to minimise this? He seems generally happy other than these things - he can be nursed in my arms for hours, he lays down with his legs out stretched on the desk and floor, and doesn't seem to mind sniffing around me when I sit with him.
Things have just seemed to go forward 2 steps and then back 5... I did only get him a week ago so I now it's a slow process, it is just quite upsetting to see things be so good and then suddenly bad again.
When we got Poe we had a few little problems with him dealing with the stress of moving through being too territorial of his room he is in. After learning how to be dominant over him so he can learn who is boss through picking him up supportively but dominantly until he stopped having a hissy fit, then cuddling him and calming him and only letting him back down when he was calm. If he went to bite us or charge at us or anything of that nature, this process would be repeated.
There have been a few little territorial incidents since then, but only small and very easily fixed. Today however, when going to pick up out of his cage to let him out into the room, he bit and charged at me. I did the same thing as always, lifted him up to let him know who is in charge, calmed him, and put him back in his cage. I then tried multiple times to pick him back up again form inside his house, and he did the same thing over and over again. Even when I just put my hand near his house or his food he would charge out. I understand it is his house with his food and he needs to feel secure, but I know he also needs to understand that even though it is his house and his cage, I am in charge not him.
He does this a little bit when laying on my desk because it is his favourite spot in the whole room, but nothing as bad as his cage. In the mornings he does this a little bit in his cage, he doesnt like me to clean it or get near his food, so I have my boyfriend hold him while I clean it to avoid that.
What else can I do? He is getting fixed ASAP so will this fix it or are there other things I can do to minimise this? He seems generally happy other than these things - he can be nursed in my arms for hours, he lays down with his legs out stretched on the desk and floor, and doesn't seem to mind sniffing around me when I sit with him.
Things have just seemed to go forward 2 steps and then back 5... I did only get him a week ago so I now it's a slow process, it is just quite upsetting to see things be so good and then suddenly bad again.