Sister's bad boyfriend

[jordiwes]

Hi All,

Sorry, I have to vent to someone. My sister has an ex boyfriend whodoes drugs and has cheated on her and they've been broken up for about4 weeks. I thought it was truly over, finally, but I just found outthat she saw him last night! :huh:tantrum:

She has no willpower!

My sister is really sensitive so I can't yell at her like I would like to, so I need to vent my frustration.

THANKS!!!!

 

[LuvaBun]

It must be so frustrating for you, knowing howbad he is and her going back to him. They say Love is blind, so I guessshe just has to find out how wrong he is for her in her own time/way.She is lucky to have you to turn to

Jan

 

[SweetPeasMommie]

I know how you are feeling. My cousin is likethat. She had dated this guy and got pregnant with her first child.Even before she got pregnant he used to beat her, abuse her, cheated onher. When he found out that she was pregnant with their son, he used tobeat her so bad and tried to make her loose the baby by kicking andhitting her stomach. Her brother tried to go after him but he goarrested for some lie that her b/f had said.

They broke up about a few months after her son was born she went backwith him all over again beatedn and more. We tried and tried. So Ifinally spoke with her and said if you stay with you we will be burringyou eventually. Well that did not get to her head yet then. She gotpregnant this time with a daughter. Ugh, her mum was so sad and upsetwith this. Finally I saw her once more and said, Jessica, I don't wantto help you mom burry you ever, I will be devastated and so will mymum. She fianlly broke up and stayed away from him. Raising 2 kids ofhis, and then she met another man who was better than him and hadanother child. But now she is having trouble herself again by doingmeth.

I saw her on palm sunday and she looked bad. I cried until she saw me.She said why are you crying. I told her Jess, why are you hurtingyourself and the kids. She said I dont know.

She was senstive like your sis. You need to be strong with her. Maybesit down somewhere and just talk. Tell her how you feel and tell herthat you dont want to burry her if he hurts her or if he tries to putdrugs in her too.



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