running away

[irishlops]

i need help. i want to run away.... ut then again i cant leve my bunnies...... i no i need help.... but i cant find any so could i PM some 1....

thanks..

 

[Luvr of Wabbits and Polar Bears]

Now why would u want to run away?? What's wrong???

 

[Flashy]

Running away doesn't solve anything, but most things can be solved if you know what to do. Can you tell us what is wrong and why you want to run away? What will running away achieve? Have you told anyone about how you feel?

 

[BlueCamasRabbitry]

Why do you want to run away?
Emily

 

[Becca]

Really hun whats up :shock:

Running away won't solve anything, talk to us Or PM individuals if you don't feel like sharing on here.

Remember we're here for you - you really need to talk to someone though

 

[irishlops]

Flashy wrote:

Running away doesn't solve anything, but most things can be solved if you know what to do. Can you tell us what is wrong and why you want to run away? What will running away achieve? Have you told anyone about how you feel?

only you who reads this... i really has 2 go.... homework, baths, supper, bed... but will be on 2morrow or next day... lways on the weekend.

 

[Flashy]

Try to talk to someone about how you feel, and why. Even if things seem impossible to fix, there are normally ways to fix things

 

[pamnock]

I think everyone feels like this sometimes. There are days when I honestly would just like to escape from everything.

I think it helps to talk to someone and be able to voice how overwhelmed you feel.



Pam

 

[irishlops]

i hve chosse flashy 2 talk 2 but will tell all of u some time soon why..

 

[bat42072]

im glad you have someone to talk to... I am going to tell you something that I never really talk about and my kids have never heard about this... My husband doesn't even know the whole story either..I actually ran away when i was 16... and it was the stupidest most dangerous thing I ever did... I ran away with a 20 year old guy and his 30 year old friend and couldn't get home for a week... luckily they didn't harm me but I was terrified because the 30 year olds girlfriend was suposed to go but ended up backing out...And I was hungry and cold... I ended up running away from the and some really nice people dropped me off at the mall in the town my family lived in... and i called my best friends mom and she came to get me... and the reason I ran away doesn't seem to bad now as it did then: my dad and stepmom checked me out of my school and enrolled me in the school where they live behind my back when I was told i only had to live there that summer to get me away from the crowd i was hanging with... I had to be with my stepsister all the time and I couldn't have friends over or call and i couldn't go anywhere... now I know it was for my own good...

I don't know what your situation is... but remeber that sometimes things may seem bad and maybe they are like i said i son't know your situation but there is always someone you can talk to and maybe you can work thru your problems but running away is never the answer... I am so lucky that it turned out ok in my situation because a lot of people are not so lucky... and I hope everything is ok for you...

 

[irishlops]

bat42072 wrote:

im glad you have someone to talk to... I am going to tell you something that I never really talk about and my kids have never heard about this... My husband doesn't even know the whole story either..I actually ran away when i was 16... and it was the stupidest most dangerous thing I ever did... I ran away with a 20 year old guy and his 30 year old friend and couldn't get home for a week... luckily they didn't harm me but I was terrified because the 30 year olds girlfriend was suposed to go but ended up backing out...And I was hungry and cold... I ended up running away from the and some really nice people dropped me off at the mall in the town my family lived in... and i called my best friends mom and she came to get me... and the reason I ran away doesn't seem to bad now as it did then: my dad and stepmom checked me out of my school and enrolled me in the school where they live behind my back when I was told i only had to live there that summer to get me away from the crowd i was hanging with... I had to be with my stepsister all the time and I couldn't have friends over or call and i couldn't go anywhere... now I know it was for my own good...

I don't know what your situation is... but remeber that sometimes things may seem bad and maybe they are like i said i son't know your situation but there is always someone you can talk to and maybe you can work thru your problems but running away is never the answer... I am so lucky that it turned out ok in my situation because a lot of people are not so lucky... and I hope everything is ok for you...

thanks for shareing this with me. i hve 2 go 2 school now.... but will PM some of u but flshy hs helpped me alot

thanks...

 

[bat42072]

I am glad that flashy has helped you

 

[Bo B Bunny]

I'm so happy Flashy was able to talk to you. She is a great person and I know she will give you some wonderful advice.

We'll be here when you are able and ready to discuss it.

 

[pinksalamander]

I ran away once, well kinda. I was 14. I was going to stay at my Dads in Bournemouth (about 4 hours away) and I was taking the train. Before I left I had this huge argument with my Mum. I don't even remember what it was about. Basically she tried to smack me on my bum for being 'naughty' (like she used to do when I was little, before it became illegal LOL) and I thought it was really stupid. It didn't hurt because I wasn't a little kid, I was 14! So I whacked her one back and she started getting really angry (I sound like such a thug!) Then I left the house to my Dads for the weekend and told her I wasn't coming back.

She didn't tell my Dad. I stayed their for the weekend then came home and stayed at my friends house for 3 days until her parents told on me.

To be honest, it was a bit stupid, I didn't gain much from it other than petrifying my Mum (but still, she didn't apologise and neither did I).

The point is, its really silly. I know I went somewhere 'safe' but you'll probably look back on the issue and think its the smallest thing in the world (like me, I can't even remember what we were arguing about!)

Fran :hearts :brownbunny

 

[irishlops]

pinksalamander wrote:

Basically she tried to smack me on my bum for being 'naughty' (like she used to do when I was little, before it became illegal LOL)

Fran :hearts :brownbunny

is it illagal?

 

[Flashy]

I don't think smacking is illegal yet, but obviously there can be differences as to what 'smacking' might be, and what some people might call smacking might actually be physical abuse.

 

[irishlops]

ok

thanks :biggrin2::shock::?

 

[Brandy456]

Hey,

If you want to talk, Feel free to PM me. Running away isn't a good idea, you'll scare you're Mum and can put you'reself in some dangers. Theres always a better way to 'Punish' whoevers making you feel this way. And in no way am i telling you to litterally hurt them but I'm saying if it's because you're firends are acting horrible then ignore them. If it's you're parents.. take up a new solo hobby and do that with you're spare time in you're room..

 

[pinksalamander]

Flashy wrote:

I don't think smacking is illegal yet, but obviously there can be differences as to what 'smacking' might be, and what some people might call smacking might actually be physical abuse.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/4175905.stm

'Parents in England and Wales who smack children so hard it leaves a mark will face up to five years in jail under new laws in force from Saturday.' (Jan 2005)
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Fran :hearts :brownbunny
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[Flashy]

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