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Teen drama here... :I I need to get this off my chest...

Sooo...

I have a huge crush on someone.
He's a foreign exchange student.
From Norway.
(I call him Norway cause I can't say his name right.)

He's sooo cute, and funny, and fun to be around. Not to mention he's got the deepest, sexiest voice, with a super awesome Norwegian accent.

Buuuut
my best friend, Rachel likes him as well.):

So now I feel like crap when I see her talking with him and stuff.
Even though he's friends with her too.
Like, it seriously tears me up inside ):

But-- I think I deserve the chance at him...
Because she was dating the guy housing Norway (Devin) when I met Norway.
And I expressed how cute he was when I met him.
And that I liked him and stuff.

Not only that, she just recently broke up with Devin.. over TEXT.

How horrible would it be if she dated his foreign exchange student?!

She brought it all up last night.. of course, I didn't say the above.. Cause I would feel like a giant biotch.

I told her pretty much:
"I don't like fighting over him with you. I feel bad when I talk to him sometimes because I know you kinda like him too... But when I see you talking to him, I feel like CRAP. And I haven't liked anyone in so long..."
She said she feels the same way.

Of course, that makes it all the more difficult.
But she did say that if Norway liked ME 100%, she'd back off.
So I guess it's... whoever Norway likes like that.

My mom's friends said when they came into my room when Norway was over, that Norway gave this look like they were interrupting something, and thinks he likes me.. I sure hope so to be honest!

I mean seriously- can I never like a person like... other people do?

Last guy I liked did a lot of weed and now is a crack addict. (That sounds sooo bad... it is- but like I didn't know he did all that stuff until after I talked to him. I don't hang out with him at all, and I don't really talk to him anymore.)
The guy before that was just disgusting (found that out after I started dating him)... etc.

)x
 
I really think that both of you should not try and set anything up with him. It really isn't worth losing a good friend over a guy, it never is and it sounds like that is the way it is heading if one of you ends up dating Norway. Plus, he is a foreign exchange student and won't be around for ever. If you date him, you could end up minus him and your friend in a few months. There will be more guys, I think both of you should make a pact not to date him. That is what most teen girls do in these situations.
 
We would never let anything ruin our friendship. If things came to that, we'd say something more to each other, you know? We're not a pair of best friends that like, screws each other over or stops being friends over something stupid. I've had a lot of best friends in my life backstab me- and I know for sure I'm not gunna do the same to Rachel, and I know that Rachel wouldn't do that to me.

She's the kind of best friend that goes out of her way to come over in the middle of the night with ice cream when you're upset.
(She seriously did that too.)

Most likely, neither of us are going to date him anyways. I feel like it's an unspoken agreement. Buuut I'll probably suggest that.
 
I think you should just go ahead and talk to him about how you feel, who knows.. what if he's gay or something. Then you'd both be fretting over something that couldn't happen.
Just tell him the situation and ask what he thinks.
:)
 
I know he's not gay c:
but yeah, thanks for the support c:
I've been miserable all day :c

talking about it to him would be waayyy too embarrassing!
 
Well you should let him decide,
and the gay comment was more supposed to mean 'well what if you two are fighting over him, yet he doesn't like one of you..'
If you're too embarrassed to talk to him about how you like him, and the situation then it may not be good grounds to date someone on.
 
AndersonsRabbits wrote:
How old are you guys and how long is he even going to be in the states?

We're 17, he's 16, but in the same grade. Just has a late birthday. Gunna be here until Summer.
 
well i probably wouldn't date him anyways, cause it would hurt my best friend.

i just made me miserable- thinking about them doing so... cause i like him and all...

but its just like she currently is not dating him because she knows it would hurt me...

even though she likes him and he likes her...

i have the greatest friend ever. really.
 

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