Need your prayers

[maherwoman]

Just wanted to post something asking for prayers from you guys...

First, the scenerio with those buns at the mini-golf place (which was, and still is, incredibly upsetting)...

Then same night, Trixie goin' at it with Maisie...

Then last night, staying up for HOURS with a friend whose boyfriend kicked her out, and she needed to rehome her animals...and I couldn't take any, though I love them dearly. I cried right along with her for hours...

It's been a really difficult couple of days...and I feel like crying all the time...for all three situations.

And, I might add, I'm totally freaked out and scared of the idea of trying to bond Maisie and Fiver...at least right now. And that kinda screws up my plans a bit...

And add to that the fact that Hubby's dad has been here this week...and my dad came by for a visit today...so there were housecleaning and preperations that had to take place.

I'm just...thoroughly stressed...feeling emotionally ragged.

 

[Bo B Bunny]

I think that you should see if they will play together or even be in the same space. If not then just drop it for now but I think Fiver is so calm that it might work.

I'm so sorry you have so much going on. I know how you feel in some ways... I just can't seem to get out of this funk I am in.

If I had half of the stuff you got goin on.... I'd be heading to the looney bin.

 

[AngelnSnuffy]

I'm so sorry, Rosie. It seems like you've had so much going on for so long. (God? Give this girl a breakray:.)

I agree with Pennie on the Fiver and Maisie thing, but I just think it's too much for you right now. When things calm down, maybe put them in neutral territory and see what happens. You could even try a laundry basket.

I hope things look up for you soon, you don't deserve all this stress.:hug2:

 

[maherwoman]

Thanks, guys...it means so much to have friends that care...

I hope things calm down soon, too...I had a good week there where I didn't really have much stress...so I KNOW that can happen again! LOL...

Thank goodness I can HANDLE the stress, in general...or I'd be up a certain type of creek I can't type here without stars being added! LOL

 

[BlueGiants]

Hope things calm down for you very soon dear. I sympathize... It all gets so overwhelming. Do things at your own pace. And I hope Trixie and Maisie behave themselves! (Silly kids!).

Ya know, it might work out better than you think with Fiver and Maisie... your anticipation of how "bad it could be" might be worse than the reality of just trying... Keeping my fingers crossed for you...) :hug:

 

[maherwoman]

Thank you so much, Cathy. I'm trying to be brave about trying this.

One of my major problems: I abhor change. I know that's silly, being an adult woman, things change all the time. I'm terrified that I'll go about hoping and have my hopes dashed about bonding them.

Hopefully things work out great!

 

[Spring]

Aww Rosie, no worries!

Bonding will work out, in some form or another, it will! I had the nervous bonding jitters to begin with too.. not knowing if it's the right decision or if it'll work out. I also don't like change, even with moving the couple together I was questioning whether it was the right decision or if they'd be happy, and it turned out wonderful! Just go into it with some faith and confidence, and I'm sure the bunnies will pick up and behave. There will be a few bumps in the roadand times you want to give up, but things always take time! Remember when I wanted to give up and was so discouraged about bonding Poppy and Bruno? There was a time I decided I wouldn't bond ever, not worth it - or so I thought. Bonding was one of the best decisions I've made in Poppy and Bruno's lives, and so happy I did it. Really, there's nothing to be afraid of once you start, it's a process of learning, so no worries!

You've done all you can right now about the mini-golf bunnies, and by far more than a lot of people would. Hopefully Animal Control handles the situation, but they too will be fine!

Just take a deep breath and cuddle a bunny, things will get better. I can sympathize with bonding, but really thinking about it before hand turns out to be a lot worse than the actual bonding! Once I started bonding and really got into a good rhythm with the bunnies, I wondered what I was so worked up about before hand!

:hugsquish:Everything will work out!

 

[maherwoman]

Aww...Leanne...you're so good at making someone feel better about things...

Thank you for your encouragement. I think we'll try our hand at bonding when Hubby's home tomorrow...why the heck not? I mean, if things go well, both of them will be buddies! NO harm in a bunny buddy!

 

[Pipp]

can i move this to VIP?

 

[maherwoman]

Oh sure! I'm such a doofus...I thought that's where I posted it!! ROFLOL!!

I'll go ahead and move it for ya.

 

[polly]

hugs Rosie tough times i hope your friend gets sorted. and take your time with the bonding maybe do it more when you feel more up!! :hug: