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RyanBarrett14

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Hello RabbitsOnline,

I really was not sure whether to post this in Health & Wellness or here, so I just took a wild guess and posted it here as it's a introduction of sorts.

So, my name is Ryan. I'm 14 years old, in education and a rabbit owner from the age of 9. I had two rabbits, Ollie and Suzie, who were an absolute delight.

Unfortunately, Suzie, who was 3-4 years old, was served an anaesthetic overdose as the vets found that she was a damaged bowel, where she could not pass faeces properly. I'll give you the whole story, if you don't want to read it, click off now!

This morning, my mum took the rabbit to the vets after she had dropped me off at school. Thoughts were racing through my mind like "Is she going to be alive or dead when I get home", "Suzie, please don't die!" and "I'm seriously hoping that she is well after". Teachers noticed that I wasn't concentrating on my work so they asked me if there was something on my mind. I said no and continued on with my work.

Break came and I asked one of the teachers if I could use the office phone to ring home, he said yes so I rang my mum. I could instantly tell by her tone of voice that she had been put down, so I asked her if she was still alive.

"Umm... I don't know how to say this..."

With those words, I broke down in the school office. I hung up the phone and did the classic "back up against the wall and slide down while crying" thing they do in movies. After a few minutes, a teacher came in and asked me what was wrong. I told him and he said "I'm sorry for your loss". We have a guidance counsellor (who is one of my friend's mother, so I know her very well) and he asked me if I wanted to go to her. I said yes and so she calmed me down.

She rang home for me and asked if my dad could pick me up, so I came out of school an hour before anyone else, so thank you Suzie for that!

Once I had come home, I went out to the garage (where she was in a cardboard box) and I spent about 10 minutes with her, talking, crying and stroking her. My dad then buried her and we've put a cross there in which my mum and me made.

I'm still feeling really down and start to cry whenever I think of her, but hopefully that will pass within a couple of weeks.

Really sorry for the glum introduction, but I needed to get it off my chest.

- Ryan.
 
I'm so sorry you lost your little bun. It's never an easy thing when we lose our furry friends. I'm glad the people at your school were so helpful when you found out the news, and that you had your friends mom there for you.

It can take some time to not feel so sad about losing your little friend, but over time it won't hurt quite so much. Best of wishes to you and welcome to the forum.
 
So sorry for your loss, Ryan. :( Hugs and kisses from Felix and Clem. x

Make sure Ollie gets some extra love and care during this time. You can help comfort each other.
 
I'm so sorry you lost your little bun. It's never an easy thing when we lose our furry friends. I'm glad the people at your school were so helpful when you found out the news, and that you had your friends mom there for you.

It can take some time to not feel so sad about losing your little friend, but over time it won't hurt quite so much. Best of wishes to you and welcome to the forum.

Thanks JBun, the school were helpful and understood why I needed to go home early. I definitely feel better than yesterday, but still tear up when I think about her. Going to visit her final resting place today and say a little prayer over it. :)

So sorry for your loss, it's never easy. All we can focus on at times like this are the good memories and wait for time to lessen the sting.

Thanks Nancy for the nice words. Trying really hard to focus on the positives in her life, but it's hard to not feel kind-of guilty about it all.

So sorry for your loss, Ryan. :( Hugs and kisses from Felix and Clem. x

Make sure Ollie gets some extra love and care during this time. You can help comfort each other.

Cheers Pani, I plan to give Ollie a lot of love now, as I haven't given him much attention recently and don't want him to suddenly fall ill without any good memories. :)
 
Welcome to the forum. I'm very sorry for your loss. Rabbits are such fragile animals at times, even when you do all the right things they can still pass away.
 
Hi Ryan. Welcome to the forum. So sorry for your loss. Did you feel a little better after explaining it? Sometimes it helps to talk to people who understand. Everyone on here could probably relate to what you were saying, about how hard the loss is. How is Ollie taking it? Is he ok or is he missing Suzie too? Can you post a picture of Ollie?
 

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