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Saffy

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Last October (19th) I was at work and my daughter rang to say she was going to walk up to meet me ..

It was light when she set off, but she got waylaid as she met a friend and they had a chat, so by the time she set off from that point, she still had a good 2 miles to walk and it was falling dark.

Unfortunately you can't get a mobile signal along that route so to call me or indeed, to call anyone, would have been pointless .. and as she was more than halfway there she decided to carry on.

She was the victim of an attempted abduction. To cut a long and distressing story short, a man stopped his car and asked her where she was going .. when she said she was going to meet a friend who lived just down the road, he kept insisting she get in the car. After about 10 minutes of this, he drove off.

He then parked further up the road .. she didn't know this .. and crossed the road so that he could come at her and surprise her.He then tried to pull her towards the car .. and when she cried, please, please don't .. he hugged her and said he wouldnt hurt her but to get in the car.

Thank god a woman who goes to the gym where I work (I work in the site shop) was passing with her son in her car. I think the car frightened the man and he went off. The woman then turned the car round and found Hollie with her shoes in her hand, running down the road.

The woman asked Hollie if she was ok and if she wanted a lift. Hollie seeing that there was a boy from her school in the car (the son) agreed to a lift to my work. As they were driving towards my work Hollie saw the man in the car .. he had turned round to come back to/for her.

We called the police - who took a statement and Hollie's coat for forensics.

The following day .. I was too stressed to just sit back and I started to think about who would use that road. It isn't a main road .. and not known unless to local people.

I then went to the gym and asked the manager if he had had anyone of the description Hollie gave who had been at the gym the night before. He said no .. but then I mentioned that the man smelt and it hit a button. (Also the way he spoke - which was quite slowly)

We showed Hollie the picture of the man (not the name .. even I don't know that) and she identified him.

We told the police. Man was arrested and Hollie had to do a video identity parade where she once again picked that man out.

Now .. unfortunately, my meddling has messed all this up and the CPS wont accept the Crown Court case as the defense would say she had just been identifying the photo we first showed her .. which of course, is right .. so the man has been released.

Now .. I went to join the gym today and the manager gave me an odd sort of look .. and now I wonder why.

Apparently the man, who hadn't been to the gym since last October .. went this morning for the first time.

I know I can't really do anything .. but I just feel helpless .. I know that Hollie just wants to forget all about it - and I should be utterly grateful that she wasn't hurt.

I just needed to share.


Thank you for reading.
 
Thank you .. I just needed to get that off my chest !



I could kick myself for interfering, but if I had the time all over again, I would probably do the same thing you know. I didn't realise my actions (in showing Hollie the picture of the gym member) would mean he could get away with it .. never mind .. fate and all that.
 
Well, I don't understand why she couldn't identify him - shouldn't the forensics tell them it was him?
 
She was shown a video of 8 men .. and identified him from there. The trouble is .. because I had already shown her a picture of the man at the gym on their computer there, the defence said that they would say she was only identifying the picture she was first shown.

Re. DNA and stuff .. they took Hollie's coat and took some things from the man's property .. but they said they found it difficult to get DNA. They even came back and swabbed Hollie's mouth ... TO be honest I always thought that you could get something with the tiniest bit of DNA, but they said not. ? ? ?

The police say thathis card is marked and should he ever do anything again they have his DNA and details on record.
 
They're supposed to be able to get information from a small amount of DNA... but you know how that goes. I would imagine that they would have to run more than one test on a small sample so the quantity would probably matter... sucks though.

Thank goodness your daughter wasn't seriously hurt she had to have been so scared!

I started to read this and you almost gave me a heart attack... just relieved nothing SERIOUS happened..
 
I tell you .. it's been like a tv soap opera in our household these last few years, with one thing and another !
Thank goodness for my rabbits! They've been a constant source of love, affection and downright good old belly laughs !
 
I kind of know what you are going thru... my daughter and niece were ttacked by a grown man a year ago last valentines day.. (after he sicked hi daughter on my niece and my daughter try to pull her off of my niece and she hit my daughter so my daughter hit her back) ... he beat both girls up bad enough they had to call an ambulance to check them out(bloodied my daughters nose and threw her across the park... a coach for little league baseball had to run the pan off... my daughter weighs all of 95 lbs and my niece weighs close to that and the man was 250-300 pounds...

was set to go to trial last august but got post poned... until another time... my daughter still has to go to school with his daughter ... his daughter picks on my daughter wanting my daughter to fight her... my daughter can't do anything or we may loose the case...



I hate the legal system sometimes... I wish they would get this over with...

my heart goes out to you and your daughter... I hope things will get better
 
Oh gosh I'm so sorry, I can imagine how scary and traumatic that experience was for her, it's one of my worst nightmares!
 
Sounds scary. It's completely unfair the things some people get away with. Hope everything's going well!
 
Saffy, this is terrible. I suppose that guy has to abduct/kill/etc another girl before they do anything :pssd:. You know, I'm sure the legal system protects the villains more than the victims!

Just pleased your daughter was OK. And don't blame yourself about him being released - I think any parent would tr and find out who'd done that.

Jan
 
Wow how scary!! I hope everything turns out and they catch the man and put him away in jail.
 

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