grade 8

[tamnjo]

Well in g.6 i went to a different middle school than g.7 because we moved. Last year(at my new school) i had a horrible year. People problems. So i told everyone i was going back to my old school, and as luck would have it, im not.

If i go back i'm not gonna have a very good rep. The only place i feel i really fit in is with my 3 friends i met last year, or at home with my bunnies. I just, i just want a good year. Good friends. Good guys....

Any seggestions?

 

[ThatsMySimi]

Well, heres my advice... I just got out of Grade 8, and mine went a lot like yours other than it being a new school...

BUT, even though I have been at the same school for 3 years, I only have 3 REALLY good friends... If you feel better around them - then stay around them. Do as much with them as you can, and if you've had a bad day - talk to them... I really DO NOT like school, I have friends issues, teacher issues, grade issues, but having 3 really good friends has helped me alot...

As long as your three friends are okay with you still being there and making a mistake about going back to your old school then dont worry about your rep.

I am just gonna say this because I say it to myself a lot and it seems to help



"The people that matter don't care, and the people that care don't matter"

Just try to remember, really, friends matter most... If they are real friends they will stick with you 'till the end - no matter what you said or did.



Good luck - and you know if you ever need to talk my PM box is open, or you can e-mail me.

 

[tamnjo]

Thanks. My mom doesn't understand bout these things...

 

[ThatsMySimi]

Well, like I said, I am open to chat about it anytime You can PM me if you need to

 

[amberelizabeth]

one thing i've realized growing up is that it doesn't matter how many friends you have. in h.s. i thought thats exactly what mattered and what was most important to me. but as i moved onto college i realized that i don't care if i have a ton of friends, what really matters is that you have friends who you care about and who care about you. i'd much rather have 3 really close friends than to have 50 acquaintances. being around rude ppl is something you're always going to have, you just have to be strong and think to yourself that it doesn't matter. just remember you have 3 very close friends who care A LOT about you, and you always have your family. plus us here

 

[TK Bunnies]

All I can say is be your self. Don't think about what every one else think, (I know it can be hard), but what you think about your self. If you like your self. Life will be easyer.

I NEVER follow or even try to keep out with the style. I really don't like it. So by being my self I know that my freinds like me for who I am, not what they thinkam.

-TK

 

[ThatsMySimi]

You've gotten some really good advice here...



TK, I agree about the fasion thing, I am one of those people who refuses to be (as mean as it sounds) a "sheep." There will always be people who think they HAVE to dress a certin way, or act a certin way, and then there are people who may get called "emo" "goth" or "outcast" but at least they aren't following imagenary "rules"

 

[Spring]

Just be your own person . In the grand scheme of things, high school drama really doesn't matter.. I like to think "Ok, is this going to effect me 10 years from now?" If it will, then I worry, if it won't then who cares. Tough to deal with in the moment, but don't let it bug you.

Most times in high school the people who cause troubles like rumors, etc. are very insecure with themselves, so they have to do those kind of things. Who really cares what they think, just shows their immaturity if they decide to do those kind of things.

Don't let it bother you.. there will always be people who get caught up trying to put you down and trying to make you feel bad, but I just feel sorry for them being so insecure with themselves they have to try to make people feel bad so they can feel good. Smile, and walk on by.

Having a few close friends is for the best.

 

[tamnjo]

Thanks guys. What ever happens, i know you'll still love me! lol.:brownbunny