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Hi, first time poster, just here to ask a few questions about my rabbit. There's a lot of resources around the net that give good information on rabbit's behavior, but it's very broad, and while I can get a vague idea of what's going through my rabbits head, it's not 100% clear as a lot of the information conflicts.

Basically I've had my rabbit, Tofu, for about a year now. Generally she's always been a little unfriendly, however over the past few months it's evident that she trusts us, her owners (while still being very nervous around strangers, although I'm told this is natural.)

She also won't let us pick her up, ever. Despite trying to make her comfortable with this, especially earlier on in life by trying to carefully pick her up, still close to ground level, she has always objected to this and flails wildly when we try.

But most confusing however, is her general behavior, especially outside her cage when we let her run around the living room. By definition a lot of her behavior seems as though she's both happy and upset at the same time.

She will generally dash about, binky and roll when she's outside, which I've been told reflects a happy rabbit, however there are a few things that make her appear quite agressive or nervous. To begin with, there's a certain patch under the table she constantly likes digging, something she will do for up to 10 minutes, before she gives up.

Also we have a few rabbit toys that she seems to like (and constantly marks by rubbing her chin on them) however when she's outside, if we move one around playfully, she will thump her foot, makes a low pitch grunt, pounce on it like a cat, followed by some sniffing or marking of it. This seems to be very aggressive/angry behavior, however it's always followed by more running, rolling or whatever. The grunt she makes however is dull and short, very different to some of the ones she has made when she's clearly angry, such as when she's in her house and we "invade her territory" if we are cleaning around it.

Finally there's a few objects she enjoys "humping". Usually fluffy objects such as slippers. At first we were shocked, thinking that the pet store got it wrong and she was in fact a he, although some sites have claimed that both male and female rabbits do this from time to time. We are getting her spayed later next month so we'll be able to find out for sure the gender.

Overall we're pretty confused about what's going on in her head. Ideally we'd like to a) show a little more affection. (She clearly trusts us, as in will often run around us, allows us to stroke her and so forth but doesn't really show any signs of affection towards us such as licking.) b) be more comfortable with us picking up up. and c) just figure out exactly what she's feeling. Considering she shows a mixture of positive and negative signs at any one time, It's confusing as to know if we are taking care of her properly.

Thanks, and sorry for the essay!
 
Rabbits' moods often change suddenly. If they were human, we'd take them to a psychiatrist. And most aren't affectionate like a dog is. And they rarely like picking up, but because we have to do it, just hold her against your body & keep the legs under control.
 
She's acting perfectly normal. If you want to pick her up with less stress I suggest bribery. I'm going through the process of teaching my 10 month old bun to not struggle if I pick him up. It has gotten so much better now that he knows I will give him crasins if he remains calm. At first he would get them just for being in my arms. Over time he needs to display more calm behavior before he gets the treat (he can see the container, so he knows it is coming). Basically you have to condition them to associate getting picked up with their favorite treat. He doesn't get crasins any other way.

It sounds like she's having a great time playing. Rabbits in the wild have to know where every stone, twig, and vine is between them and their burrow in case a pr editor shows up. If they trip over anything it would be the end of them. So your bun is trying to tell you not to move the obstacles. This may subside after the spay because it will help make her less territorial, but buns always have their own sense of design. Honestly, I like to move the toys around because I think it's fun to watch them fling them around to get them back in place. It gives them a little project to complete.

Humping from a female is showing dominance. This should get better after the spay.

You may want to redefine what you consider affection. As Lake Condo said, they are not affectionate like dogs. From a rabbit if they come up and nose bonk you it means "hey, pay attention to me", which is a sign of affection. If she ever licks your clothes or objects close to you that is high praise and love. Even if she just flops out and has her legs extended all the way back, that shows she is very comfortable in your presence and fond of you. Rabbits are more subtle when it comes to showing affection, but once you know what to look for I bet it is there. They also live very much in the present moment so their moods shift much faster than people.
 
Hi Tofusion,

This sounds normal, or at least this is how my Desmond acts, I have had him for about a year and he has no reason to be unhappy yet he's always bratty and mad at us. I asked my vet why this was and she gave me a fabulous idea.

she told me that bunnies are very active creatures, they are bored even when they get full reign of the house. So she said I should train him a few tricks that he can use when he is running around the house. http://www.bunnytraining.com/ this lady mostly trains and works with Parrots and birds but is amazing with bunnies as well. You don't have to buy her video, there are other places you can find information on teaching your bunny tricks, but what I am saying is the more time you spend on the floor interacting and training your bunny, the larger the connection becomes, and it really does get the bunny more comfortable with you and not have such an attitude anymore.
 
You mentioned there is a lot out there and thats true, my general go-to site though is http://language.rabbitspeak.com/
I've read it all multiple times, and its really amazing to help know what is going on in their heads :)
And like the posters above, I agree she sounds happy!
 
OneTwoThree wrote:
You mentioned there is a lot out there and thats true, my general go-to site though is http://language.rabbitspeak.com/
I've read it all multiple times, and its really amazing to help know what is going on in their heads :)
And like the posters above, I agree she sounds happy!

Thanks for posting this, this site is great!!

PS everybody, I work with my buns like I used to work with my horses, I used to use body language when working with horses, I used to train people how to put down their whips and halters and work with their horse just with their body language. I use some of these techniques with my bunnies and it is amazing how they respond!!
 
Sounds like a normal bunny to us. All are different. Some like to be held, but most don't. I used to stand up TP rolls and Bun-Bun would knock them all down and we'd start over--she wanted them one way and I got her to play with them by standing them up. When I put new shredded newspaper in the litter box, Nikki will spend two hours arranging the paper to her likes. Rabbits!
 

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