feelings so low.

[rabbit_whisperer]

I have alot of problems in just everyday life.

1.our dad threatens to get rid of our dog everyday.

2.he shouts at us all the time.

3.schools starting soon.

4.wasted summer.

5.my only friend hates me.

6.It's like 106 here!



many more things,UGH!

 

[Bramble Briar86]

My friend's dad does the same thing---always threatens to shoot/get rid of one of their dogs and yells a lot...So you're not alone! I, too, have felt like this is a wasted summer but I have hopes that it'll get better. About you're friend---if it's an argument it never hurts to be the bigger person and forgive/forget and apologize--that's how I've stayed out of a lot of drama!

It'll get better!

Ellie

 

[Maureen Las]

I'm sure that things will get better for you. I hope they do anyway.

 

[rabbit_whisperer]

thanks Ya'll,it just really bugs me when he calls them stupid,smelly animals, there not if you keep them in proper care.

Oops typo.

 

[Maureen Las]

Hope I don't offend you but your dad sounds like a real piece of work.

 

[rabbit_whisperer]

your not offending,I just wish he was kind to the pets once in his life.

a pet could get shot,or hit by a care and he would not care.

 

[Maureen Las]

How old are you? When you are old enough to be independent yoy need to get out of such a poisonous environment. You sound like a great person

 

[rabbit_whisperer]

cant really do much about it.I'm 14...

 

[Spring]

I'm so sorry to hear about your troubles

:hug:

When your dad says he wants to get rid of the dog, say why? If he gives reasons, try to do something that can fix the problem. I'm around your age, and if my parents say something that I don't agree with, I always ask for their reasons why or why not. I'm quite stuborn, but I do it in a sincre way. Just try to listen to your dads complaints, and go from there.

Just try to ignore the shouts. He's probably just letting off steam. I know if my parents are in a bad mood, I usually stay clear of them! But if he's wanting something to get done or do something, best to just do whay he says.

Can't really do much about the school, but hey the sooner it starts the sooner it ends! Don't worry about a wasted summer, that's what summers for. To sit around and just chill out .

You don't have an only friend, you havelots of them on here! Online or not, we are still here foryou!

Can't really do much about the weather. Go wet your hair under some cold water. It's very refreshing and keeps you cool for awhile. Hopefully it will cool off soon!

Don't worry, in a few years you'll be moving on out. Hard times only last a bit, it will get better!

 

[rabbit_whisperer]

thanks guys.:hug::love:

 

[ilovetegocalderon]

Aww, I'm sorry sweety. I remember when I was 14 and boy was it rough!! I promise life will get better. Justkeep your head up andremember that your living arrangements are only temporary. Trust me, the years will fly by and you'll be outta there in no time!

 

[aurora369]

rabbit_whisperer,

I'm sorry to hear you are feeling so low.

I remember feeling that way at your age too. I had a lot of family problems with my father doing drugs, and pretty much disapearing out of my life at that age, in addition to many other problems that decided to happen at that time as well.

I understand what it feels like to feel like no one cares or understands. It's rough.

One thing that really helped me was going to talk to my school counsellor. She really helped me to re-connect and learn to deal with life. I would suggest that if you are still feeling bummed out when school comes around in September, to seek out a school counsellor and talk with him/her.

Often times, if you need more help than they can provide, they will set you up with a profesional counsellor. I saw a profesional counsellor for about 8 months, and it changed my life.

Talking to us here, and letting us know how upset you are is a really big step. I'm proud of you for opening up to us.

We are here to support you, and if you need to talk, we will always be here.

If you feel the need to talk, please PM me. I make a good shoulder to cry on.

--Dawn

 

[maherwoman]

Aww, Hun, I know where you're at. I had the same home life when I was your age. It was utterly horrible to feel like no one cared. Please just keep in mind it won't be forever. If you ever need to talk, feel free to PM me, ok?

As far as the heat, my best idea ever has been to refridgerate my shampoo and shower things (face wash, etc.). If your family minds, ask them if they'd be okay if you put them in some sort of container, and then put them in the fridge. It helps A LOT...you'd be surprised how refreshing COLD shampoo and conditioner can be!!

Also, you can put your lotion in the fridge (aahhhh...it's so nice), and other things like that.

So, give it a shot, and let me know how it works!

 

Im sry to hear about your troubles my dad loves dogs, but my mum is alergic and i am also sad because i love dogs so much and i cant even have one! I have tried everything but i cant help her being alergic plus she dosent like dogs, but think maybe if u talk to ur dad he might just come around, keep your hopes up, u still have ur dog! gd luck and i hope u can keep ur dog,

Emz xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox

 

[pamnock]

The light fonts can be nearly impossible to read, EMZ. Please use a dark font.

Pam

 

[JimD]

Emz ( cheese lover) wrote:

Im sry to hear about your troubles my dad loves dogs, but my mum is alergic and i am also sad because i love dogs so much and i cant even have one! I have tried everything but i cant help her being alergic plus she dosent like dogs, but think maybe if u talk to ur dad he might just come around, keep your hopes up, u still have ur dog! gd luck and i hope u can keep ur dog,

Emz xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox

Here's a "re-do" w/ dark fonts