Do you ever find yourself...

[XxMontanaxX]

judging people? :?

I try my best not to. But sometimes...stuff just gets in my head and I don't know.

I mostly don't think about it, until someone says something about it first.

And sometimes, I get pshyco and have conversations with myself inside my head like "Ohmygosh look at that person blah blah blah" "Don't judge them, they can't help it!" "Blah blah blah some more about the person" "Shuuush"

Then sometimes if someone with something talks to me I'll be a little embarassed with everyone looking at me sometimes. I tell myself I don't care what they say, but sometimes I do. And I tell myself they can't help it and it's just a person, but...I don't know.

I know, I have a billion problems about my self I'm sure people look at...but I still think things about other people. How weird is that?

Am I the only one with this problem?

Does anybody know how I can stop thinking about these things? And stop caring what other people think? It gets on my nerves.

 

[Flashy]

Judging people is natural and normal, the key point is whether you act on your judgements. It sounds like you are probably not acting on them because you debate with yourself in your head, and I would guess that most people have conversations with themself in their head.

As for not caring what people think, you need to be comfortable and confident with yourself, so try improving your self esteem. If you google 'ways to improve self esteem' there is loads of stuff there you can do to help yourself.

You could also try to find out what it is that makes you worry about what other people think, like is it because you don't want to draw attention to yourself, or want to be accepted, or something totally different.

You're not weird, and neither of those things are weird, just part of being a person